The wifey? Doesn't that mean wife? Did you elope and not tell us or something?
...women are difficult in many ways, and I don't necessarily mean women themselves, but the situations we're put in because of them. More often than not it's for good reason, and totally worth it, but sometimes it just drags you down and ISN'T worth it. You have to decide that for yourself.
Find yourself a lady that lets you be you, but don't take that to mean lets you do whatever you want. So many people have the idea that you're supposed to let your loved ones do whatever you want and support them no matter what decisions they make - that's BS and totally untrue. If your loved one is doing something stupid, then you tell them - I'm getting off track...what I'm saying is find a girl that realizes what your calling is, and supports it. For example, if you've got a chick that's constantly whining about you always leaving her to go to the gym, GET OUT NOW! But, if you find a chick that supports it and encourages it, then you've got a winner.
Now, if she's supporting it, yet expects you to support her being a stripper and part-time prostitute...well, you get the idea...