It's not that people enjoy flaming (well some do), but more that you understand what you are doing to your body. Most guys want to help, but they also are not going to just give away their info if you haven’t genuinely attempted to find out for yourself.
I've met guys that used aas and spent a fortune on test, tren, d-bol...ect, but didn't understand PCT, diet, or how to bust-@ss in the gym. They looked alright, but for the amount of money spent they should have went to Sam's club and stocked up on groceries first.
For most, the easiest solution is to add food.
BTW, how old are you?