Okay,
I got off the fenugreek, and everything else, other than the CoQ10, Policosanol and ALA I use on a daily basis. The problem has resolved, and I cannot reproduce it. I 100% feel that the very slight lactation (again, it was just a few drops of liquid after squeezing my nipples) was due to the fenugreek. The only reason I noticed anything in the first place was because I felt a very slight wet spot on my shirt while I had it on. After took off shirt, squeezed nip, and had to do it pretty hard, but some clear liquid did in fact come out of both nipples, a drop about the size of one drop from an eyedropper.
The problem has now resolved. If I see it occur again in the next few days, even after stopping the greek, I guess all I can do is to hit some test cyp for a few weeks, just go back on cycle, and then come off again without the greek. But for now, everything appears to be back to normal.
I am strongly cautioning everyone to use a moderate amount of fenugreek, and to use it for not longer than a week max. I have an EXTREMELY tolerant body, and after many cycles have never had any of the harsh sides, or after-effects, other than screwed up lipids and elevated liver enzymes. So this whole experience has been a shock. But I think some more investigation needs to be done with fenugreek to determine its true nature and true side effects.