Is there a pheramone that will make wives have sex
- 06-19-2007, 07:43 AM
- 06-19-2007, 08:33 AM
When she has cares that are in the lines of; breakfast lunch and dinner for your family, laundry, groceries and house keeping for a family, breast feeding, diapers, sick kids, kids doctor visits, kids homework, kids baths, kids dentists, kids gymnastics, kids cheer, kids college tuition, kids braces, etc, etc, the entire playing field is changed.
But, hey, what do I know
06-19-2007, 10:00 AM
06-19-2007, 11:26 AM
EXCEPT for the fact that I was giving advise from personal expirence. Despite the fact I am not married. Being married is NEVER a requirement for gettign a woman in the mood
I DONT know what life is like when your married- I hear about it enough to get as many years being "single" as I can. I dont preceive it to be "bad",.. but It does add to responsabilities.
In short: I have seen too many wives ACTIVLTY TRY to jump my bones (with the SAME things going on you mention) despite the "playing field".
And I've made that happen repeatedly via email (although, I DO tend to go for -minus- the married part,.. ).. which means that gettign her in the mood is no biggie... once your there (and in any case where she is busy) you then remove the obstacles.
Show me a woman who doesn't want to feel special, doesn't want to feel romance, doesn't want to feel lust, joy, love... and I'll think you married a man
Sure, the playing field changes,.. On her most primitive levels, a woman does not (once "provider role has been met, in the case of having childeren)
Change the field.....
Change the field.....
Change the field..... and what your left with is something totally different. (and much more familure)
You only need to change it for an hour or so (yeah, yeah,.. so, is an hour too much, or not enough
06-19-2007, 01:00 PM
Again, I am not saying that your methods aren't successful, but the subject in question is one specific wife and not the general population. Believe me there are things that I could 'receive' or 'responses' I could solicit if I just change the subject of the study and would with most certainly be successful as well. But in my case (and these other married men) fidelity is paramount and my study need remain n=1
06-19-2007, 03:02 PM
Now, I do understand what your saying. that if you game like 20 females, chances are some will be responsive.
But this would be someone you already know... you already have the advantage. And you and I agree that the FEELINGS part is fairly accurate... and thats the only thing that is important.
Wether it be your gf, some random milf, or your wife (lol- or at one time all three ...
What Im saying, is you find a way to elicit thiose feelings that provide a favorable response..
Just as I can almost "tell the type" in many females, I adjust some things accordingly. (and this can be by age, children, past expirences.. what have you), the same way you "calibrate" for the individual in question (n=1) :chick:
Removing any "obstacles" sure as sh!t leaves less in in the way of romance.
And if you can tap into some of the things women, as a species, respond to (such a the difference in communication,.. using vivid descriptions in story telling, understand that wemon rely more on emotional guidence then men do,... your opptions for acheiving your goal (and making n=1 happy increase.
If I cast a net into the ocean, I would surely catch a few fish.. If I had an electronic fish finder, knew the ocean currents, ocean temperature, then when I throw my net I'm likely to catch more fish
In that case of being married,.. you alread yknow your wife- and if you dont suceed one day, you can alter things some and try it the next... all things considered, .. its the closet one will ever come to haveing a "Ground Hog Day" on developing the perfect pickup (or in this case, finding out what her buttojns are, and how to push em)
So, Im offering what I know, ...you have basicly told me that I know nothing, yet you havent offered anything in place of.
And let me remind people, that essentually, were talking sex here. I'm not getting into anythign aside from panties.
Your basicly talking seduction...
So as opposed to discussing advantages or dissadvantages to a particular stratagey, I resoprt to "defending" my own attempts to help, while you laugh becasue..... ?
The point is, the OP wanted to be "on time" more then twice a day (and of course, we all assume he can handle that ).
06-19-2007, 03:12 PM
06-19-2007, 03:38 PM
06-25-2007, 03:10 AM
06-25-2007, 07:45 AM
06-25-2007, 09:08 AM
lol- so you can take it back to the store and exchange it for something else .. :P
I'll make sure to get one of those when I do decide to step in line to loose half my sh!t :P - j/k
06-25-2007, 09:29 AM
FYI, at least in the great state of texas, just make sure you pay for your house out of your bank account, never join that specific one, and just keep your loan current. Then it doesn't matter WHAT she does, because if it was a prior asset to the marriage (aka anti-sex relationship), you can always trade in on a newer, younger, more sex crazed model, and the old defunkt unit can't take anything expensive cept maybe your latest flat screen. Of course that works until the marriage juice sucks it all out of the new spousal unit! Then it's back to square one...
(p.s. there's some satire/humor in there, so don't take it all literally)
06-25-2007, 07:14 PM
b5150 greatest post ever
but for 3 yrs ive been doing that lol
minus the espn and ps2 part
toes-on-the-nose.blogspot.com Deployed blogging
06-25-2007, 07:19 PM
Does she love you? Doesn't sound like it to me. If she loved you she wouldn't she want to fix it as much as you do? If you want to get all biblical on it, she has duties and this is one of them.
Several things ( possibilities )
1. Both get full blood / thyroid / hormone tests
2. See a marriage / sex counsellor
3. See a Dr. for her lack of libido
4. Hire a baby sitter
5. Do what you did when she "fell in love with you"
6. Man it up baby ( i.e. be that young stud again, show her women want you )
7. There are so many fcked up reasons a woman can lose interest it's not funny. They are fckin all round complicated. Here's a link to read some stuff:
8. She's probably fckin hanging on mentally emotionally of how you "never took out the garbage" back when you were both first married, yes that's how fcked up it can be.
9. She resents you for making her pregnant and taking away her youth / beauty etc
10. She's fckin the office hottie at lunch time cause she's just tired when she gets home / you get home.
Don't wanna rain on your parade but man it up baby and fix that ****, I dunno sorry but it just doesn't sound very positive to me, doesn't mean you can't fix it but SHE has to want to as well.
Just my 40 cents.
06-25-2007, 07:43 PM
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06-26-2007, 07:56 AM
06-26-2007, 08:31 AM
I have been married long enough (7 years) to know that B5 is right, do stuff around the house and make her life easier. After that, the rest works itself out. Also keep in mind that after kids things are more difficult
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