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    female problem help pleze!!!!!!!!!!!!


    So the girl I like I over herd her saturday shes dating a old guy 10 years older. What do I do? He does not even live in San Diego and hes trying to sell his apartment in chicago I guess which means he could be moving to sd to move with her. I need ideas. Maybe I am over analyzing this. I need some opinons. She is going out to visit him next month for a week or two. I am tripping out when I shouldn't be.

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    are you two dating/involved/hooking up?
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    Does she know how you feel about her?

    You could tell her what's up and see if that gets you anywhere.
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    I would just let them ride it out and if it doesn't work out between them then you make your move. There's plenty of fish in the sea but when you're in love it's more difficult to realize this.

    Telling her how you feel isn't a bad idea as long as you're willing to accept the fact that it might strain or ruin the relationship. I personally would date other chicks myself and leave them alone. Chicks seem to dig you even more when you date other chicks in my experience, I don't know why but it's like crack to them
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    The less attention you pay to them the more they want you.

    I would PM Celc5 he is the god of women in general.
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    ride it out for sure. I did and it payed off. I was nice and close to a girl for 6-8 months. Met her at work, she had a BF of 3-4 years or something i think. She thought it was an ok relationship. She broguht the idea to him about moving in to gether, he was hesitant, he then started to distance himself from her he said. With a little insight form me, she ended up breaking up with him. She went out wiht someone else for 3 weeks, treated her like crap. I knew the guy and almost hurt him on 1 occasion.
    Long story short, put in time, be a good guy, if its meant to be it'll happen.

    Is there any attachment, previous relationship with her, hooking up? etc etc.
    How long have you known her?
    Do you think she knows you like her and do you think she may have feelings for you?

    PS- Shes 6yrs older than me, and i live in Chicago....haha sorry i thought that was odd.
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    I'd wait it out

    If shes game, ask her to smile::donut:
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    She knows. Her car is broken and I am picking her up to and from work. I don't have to but why. I know my room mate needs help and I am acting cool about it. She helps out my room mate that is in a wheel chair from cerebral palsy. I did not like her at 1st. year and a half ago. As I got to know her talking small convo here and there I started like every thing about her. We both LOVE pizza she likes horse raceing, shes going to be a lawyer, I love lawyers she likes shopping I do to, Shes fit and exercises I do to. It had nothing to do with looks. I new her previously before I moved in seeing her help my room mate out but I was not interested ( based on lookes as my room mate has severl good looking helpers). Its like looking for that specific computer. She has all the specs I am looking for. She knows I like her because my room mate made it clear lol. Shes perfect. Shes dating this guy hes 31. Shes 22. Hes in chicago shes still in college. Hes not married at 31 weird? Should I be happy for her?
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    I Know we click as far as common interests ideas beliefs. music etc. I even made a good impression with the mom and step father and 2 year old brother which btw he had a awesome time hanging with me for her graduation 3 weeks ago.
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    does she have interest in you? Just curious because if she knows how you feel and is not reciprocating and is going for another guy...it would make me wonder.

    And if you are picking her up tonight, it would be a perfect opportunity to express your concern and interest in her...again.
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    Play it cool but secretly fill his luggage with gay porn when he arrives in San Diego.

    Alternatively, bang her mother.
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    +1 for banging mom
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    so she does or doesnt know about you feeling the way you do??
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    Me and my friend have asked her out couple times. My friend his gf me and her. She knows how I feel because my room mate told her I like her a lot that she should go out with me. I bought her starbucks the other day and she excepted it. Now if this was 8 months ago she would have said no. I pick her up tomorrow but she knows I know shes seeing this guy on chicago.
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    Look in her eyes. Theres your answer right there.

    also...+2 for banging her mom if she turns you down.
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    awww what the hell....x3 for the mom move...hahaha

    I agree, look at her in the eyes, you gotta get a read or try to make the "electric" happen...its what i did and it worked.
    I suggest no moving in on her till your think she likes you like that.

    PS-Dont do anythign dumb if the BF is coming and will woop your a$$, haha.
    How long they been together?
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    ok so have you told her personally?? like just you told her face to face? plain and simple tell you that your the one for her and that shes wrong going out with that other guy. If she turns you down then ditch her and move on. its life. life is not going to be easy on you. just confront her about and quit whinning.
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    I agree. Procrastinating will only make it harder on you. Life isnt always gonna go the way you want it to. But as long as you keep trying thats all that matters. I wish you the best of luck.
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    lets pray it goes as plan?!
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    Quote Originally Posted by mindgame View Post
    lets pray it goes as plan?!
    Im actually hoping he bangs her mom. thats just me tho.
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    and he should film it! or he should join the milf hunter team! lmao
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    Quote Originally Posted by mindgame View Post
    and he should film it! or he should join the milf hunter team! lmao
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    be an man...

    if your friend told her you like her... thats nothing man.. thats like 7th grade tactics right there. you either have to man up or just sit back and watch the show.

    At this point i wouldnt do anything cheesy at this point... id just be nonchalant about the other guy... find out what shes really into about this guy... if shes just on the edge about him, then take the convo further and probe to find out how she REALLY feels about you..

    caution.. watch out for the friend zone.. you might already be up that creek... if this is the caase.... your done.
    also..done buy girls starbucks or buy themanything else to be nice to them. they end up mooching off you why shes getting banged by another dude (blunt but true)..

    Me and my friend have asked her out couple times.
    man im not sure what that means.. but it sounds like you have never man'ed up ... so shes never given a serious response.
    what do you have to lose?
    worst case scenario..... she shoots you down BUT she knows you like her. let fate take it from there.




    oh and +10 points for the mom
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    Quote Originally Posted by MentalTwitch View Post
    awww what the hell....x3 for the mom move...hahaha

    I agree, look at her in the eyes, you gotta get a read or try to make the "electric" happen...its what i did and it worked.
    I suggest no moving in on her till your think she likes you like that.

    PS-Dont do anythign dumb if the BF is coming and will woop your a$$, haha.
    How long they been together?

    Well I doubt its her bf since its only been 3 weeks. I mean heck they talk on the phone and text but thats about it. Different sates bigger stakes. HE could easily get someone in chicago so why her all the way from cali? I mean hes 31 shes 22. When he was 9 she did not even exist. I never told her directly I LIKE YOU but more like playing it cool OH YOU LOVE PIZZA LET ME SHOW YOU A GOOD PIZZA PARLER. Or when she said XYZ I would say I AGREE ABOUT XYZ MORE PEOPLE SHOULD TO. I asked her before if she wanted to go out to see some UFC etc she said no. I think its because my room mate would get jealous so she does not want to have a weird situation. I said to her the other day when taking her home I respect it if she does not want's to hang with me due to the situation if that is the reason or or if she really does not want to be friends ether way I said its cool for now.
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    You know what, I'd tell her how you feel (no sugar coating) and then tell her the relationship as it stands is too much work and that you can't be bothered with walking over eggshells to keep people happy.

    Leather jacket, sunglasses and Harley are optional. If that doesn't do it I suggest you work the mother for your dues.
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    I think you should ask her if she is serious about the guy , when she tells you then you should tell her that it made you think about the interest you have in her and ask her if she has any interest in seeing how dating you would go.

    You only have now to live for and at least you won't have to wonder what if... If she says no then you know to look elsewhere rather than sit around wondering what could be.
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    Bang the mom! Bang the mom! Bang the mom! F her dude, if she wants you, she'll let you know, thats how it works man, it's not up to us it's up to them. Listen to the guy who says ignore her and she'll want you more, it's hard to do if you really like her, but if it's meant to be, it works! :hot: She like the kock too much!
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    Quote Originally Posted by timmmah View Post
    Bang the mom! Bang the mom! Bang the mom! F her dude, if she wants you, she'll let you know, thats how it works man, it's not up to us it's up to them. Listen to the guy who says ignore her and she'll want you more, it's hard to do if you really like her, but if it's meant to be, it works! :hot: She like the kock too much!
    Sigh, sometimes its so hard not to be the *****es that you guys seem to think we all are...
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    Quote Originally Posted by crader View Post
    Sigh, sometimes its so hard not to be the *****es that you guys seem to think we all are...
    I didn't mean chicks are beoatches, I just meant you guys run the show, or at least we like to lead you to believe....













    bang the mom!
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    Quote Originally Posted by timmmah View Post
    Bang the mom! Bang the mom! Bang the mom! F her dude, if she wants you, she'll let you know, thats how it works man, it's not up to us it's up to them. Listen to the guy who says ignore her and she'll want you more, it's hard to do if you really like her, but if it's meant to be, it works! :hot: She like the kock too much!
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    why dont you become a pua and bust a bf routine and take her home..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Palo Alto Labs View Post
    be an man...

    if your friend told her you like her... thats nothing man.. thats like 7th grade tactics right there. you either have to man up or just sit back and watch the show.

    At this point i wouldnt do anything cheesy at this point... id just be nonchalant about the other guy... find out what shes really into about this guy... if shes just on the edge about him, then take the convo further and probe to find out how she REALLY feels about you..

    caution.. watch out for the friend zone.. you might already be up that creek... if this is the caase.... your done.
    also..done buy girls starbucks or buy themanything else to be nice to them. they end up mooching off you why shes getting banged by another dude (blunt but true)..

    man im not sure what that means.. but it sounds like you have never man'ed up ... so shes never given a serious response.
    what do you have to lose?
    worst case scenario..... she shoots you down BUT she knows you like her. let fate take it from there.




    oh and +10 points for the mom
    Dave is giving good wisdom here. I agree with him.
    If you like her, you should have moved towards it before. Girls like to have guys in categories. You just might be stuck in friend zone.

    Unless there has been sexual tension between you guys before this, your probably toast.

    How do I know? I was the guy who was always the friend, but never the boyfriend. And I set about changing that in my life. PM me if you wanna know more about that.
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    You are being such a *****. If I was a chick, I wouldn't want to date you either. It may be best to stay friends with her, maybe she can talk you up to her friends. And then bang her mum.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cub View Post
    You are being such a *****. If I was a chick, I wouldn't want to date you either. It may be best to stay friends with her, maybe she can talk you up to her friends. And then bang her mum.
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    maybe it's just me, but buying me a coffee doesn't imply jack beyond you being a decent person and possibly a good friend.

    You may want to gather your courage and speak now, your window of opportunity will only be smaller if not shut completely ones he moves from chicago. If you speak up now and she changes her mind about him, you've done all three of yourselves a favor. There's less a chance she'd just ride a relationship with him out because he already went through with the move, and if she dumps him for you it'd be less awkward for her and wouldn't be the end of the world for the other guy, either.
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    How old are you? It sounds like you are playing little league and she is about to go pro..

    I don't know man. You are reading an awful lot into very little. Do you think she thought of you getting her some coffee as some sweet romantic gesture? You gotta be careful you don't become the weird creepy stalker guy too. Most girls want a man, not a little boy. Hence the reason she is with an older guy. If it isn't too late already, you better grow some cajones quick or you won't even have a chance.
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    Oh man starbucks wow we got a freakn don juan ova here. Let me echo those before me **** or get off the pot and tell her how you feel otherwise you are doomed to live a neverending cycle of self loathing and regret.
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