So my friend of many years is getting married in November (I'm an usher). His best man calls me to tell me about the Bachelor Party. He's renting a hotel, going to a stripclub/bar hopping, than back to the hotel for the night. I declined to attend.
I caught slack from the best man. He says "It's about Steve. It's his last night beinig single, it would mean alot to him."
I explained to him that, not only do I NOT DRINK, but I don't enjoy the strip-club environment. Call me a prude or whatever, but I just don't. Trying to be a better Christian and going to a stripclub, well, you get the idea. Not to mention my girlfriend would be QUITE pissed.
So the next day the best man contacts me. I thought he was going to give me more grief, but it turns out hes questioning planning the stripclub. It turns out the bride-to-be is pissed about it too. He does not want to step on her toes. It would not be good to start off a life-together with a serious fight.
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Anybody have experiences like this??? I think it's kind of stupid to go to a stripclub for your bachelor party anyways. I mean, your getting married because you want to be with no one except your wife, then to go out somewhere like a stripclub. I think its tradition and cliche, not to mention could cause problems later on in life if your girl isn't down with it. I don't want to let my boy down, but putting my own relationship at risk for a night I wouldn't even enjoy is quite silly.
I caught slack from the best man. He says "It's about Steve. It's his last night beinig single, it would mean alot to him."
I explained to him that, not only do I NOT DRINK, but I don't enjoy the strip-club environment. Call me a prude or whatever, but I just don't. Trying to be a better Christian and going to a stripclub, well, you get the idea. Not to mention my girlfriend would be QUITE pissed.
So the next day the best man contacts me. I thought he was going to give me more grief, but it turns out hes questioning planning the stripclub. It turns out the bride-to-be is pissed about it too. He does not want to step on her toes. It would not be good to start off a life-together with a serious fight.
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Anybody have experiences like this??? I think it's kind of stupid to go to a stripclub for your bachelor party anyways. I mean, your getting married because you want to be with no one except your wife, then to go out somewhere like a stripclub. I think its tradition and cliche, not to mention could cause problems later on in life if your girl isn't down with it. I don't want to let my boy down, but putting my own relationship at risk for a night I wouldn't even enjoy is quite silly.