i am currently trying to drop 48 pounds. not a lofty goal i lost 60 last year anyway my diets and exercise regimens can be for the most part a lil bit extreme. anyway my girlfriends always complaining about shes too fat ,and really shes right she about 2 pounds heavier than me (243) her bf ratio about 48% anyway i love her to death she is beautifull and yes i tell her that and mean it everyday ,but her weight is starting to kill our relationship. all she ever wants to do is sit around and watch t.v. she also has a job in whitch she sits at a desk all day. now we have a gym membership she actually signed up for it without my prompting, but getting her there is like pulling teeth from a 3month old. did i mention long distance relationship i only see her 3 days a week. my question is how in the hell can i get her motivated. i have tried going to the gym with her but all she does is complain i told her i would help her with her diet but i cant be there to feed her. also she should have been a lawyer because she can turn anything against me. i could say honey the red shirt looks good on you, oh and the blue one dosent so your saying i am fat is that what it is you dont love me anymore cause i am fat. no the blue one looked okay just not as good as the red oh cause the red matches my eyes(has to wear contacts even though they bother her eyes) lemme guess you want me to wear my glasses so i can look like that **** little ***** down at work. you get my point. were do i go from here? how do i motivate her? what has worked for you? how do i come off looking like a jerk? how can i train her (i am guessing that women need to train a little bit differently)
any help would be greatly appreciated.
any help would be greatly appreciated.