She cannot settle for reasonably healthy foods and it is hurting my fatloss efforts.
It is causing me to overeat on junk food so my protien is just added calories. When she gets hungry i feel guilty if i dont pull in and get something. If i say i dont want it, she says, "well then i dont want it either" and gets all pissy. So i get pissed and pul in to the fast food joint mad as hell. We buy some junk food and gobble it down before we get home. Now i am really mad, but i go home and get on my protien shake.
2 hrs later, i hear from the living room, a commercial comes on, she says, "im Hungry"
Well, i say, What do you want? She says, "we dont have anything good here"
I say **** it then, lets go get something, what do you want? She says "Pizza"
I say, lets just eat at home, She gets pissed and sits all crabby until i say "OKOK, lets eat something, What do you want" with a little attitude. But due to the pressure i give in to the cravings , which i feel would have been left alone if she would just get herself something out of the kitchen.
We both work at home so it is like this all day. She seems to think we cant eat seperate meals. I offered to have dinner with her if she would eat on her own for the rest of the day.
She says NO WAY. When she is hungry she tries to make me hungry by bringing up all the junk food we could have until i pick something and say "**** it, lets eat and maybe you will shut up for awhile."
if i dont eat it, she pushes her plate away and wont eat it either. Usually because i am mad that i am not eating consistently and she recognizes my attitude and it makes us both pissed off and fat.
Not only does it **** with my fatloss, but it is fucking with my attitude about working out. Because i am kinda standing still while killing myself in the gym.
I Love my wife, But she is driving me crazy.
Is this grounds for seperation? It seems like she does not care about what i am trying to do, and that is something i need to consider.
I call her my wife, but the wedding is not for a few months. i just may leave her ass for this reason alone.
To top it all off, Her fucking sister and brother in law try to be so perfect all the time with the tanning and gym memberships. She tells me all the time, how that fucking brother in law is going to the gym and her sister is losing weight, and then she says, "lets get pizza."
Im sick of it.
Sorry for the rant.
It is causing me to overeat on junk food so my protien is just added calories. When she gets hungry i feel guilty if i dont pull in and get something. If i say i dont want it, she says, "well then i dont want it either" and gets all pissy. So i get pissed and pul in to the fast food joint mad as hell. We buy some junk food and gobble it down before we get home. Now i am really mad, but i go home and get on my protien shake.
2 hrs later, i hear from the living room, a commercial comes on, she says, "im Hungry"
Well, i say, What do you want? She says, "we dont have anything good here"
I say **** it then, lets go get something, what do you want? She says "Pizza"
I say, lets just eat at home, She gets pissed and sits all crabby until i say "OKOK, lets eat something, What do you want" with a little attitude. But due to the pressure i give in to the cravings , which i feel would have been left alone if she would just get herself something out of the kitchen.
We both work at home so it is like this all day. She seems to think we cant eat seperate meals. I offered to have dinner with her if she would eat on her own for the rest of the day.
She says NO WAY. When she is hungry she tries to make me hungry by bringing up all the junk food we could have until i pick something and say "**** it, lets eat and maybe you will shut up for awhile."
if i dont eat it, she pushes her plate away and wont eat it either. Usually because i am mad that i am not eating consistently and she recognizes my attitude and it makes us both pissed off and fat.
Not only does it **** with my fatloss, but it is fucking with my attitude about working out. Because i am kinda standing still while killing myself in the gym.
I Love my wife, But she is driving me crazy.
Is this grounds for seperation? It seems like she does not care about what i am trying to do, and that is something i need to consider.
I call her my wife, but the wedding is not for a few months. i just may leave her ass for this reason alone.
To top it all off, Her fucking sister and brother in law try to be so perfect all the time with the tanning and gym memberships. She tells me all the time, how that fucking brother in law is going to the gym and her sister is losing weight, and then she says, "lets get pizza."
Im sick of it.
Sorry for the rant.