Hello KC,
Welcome to boards there is a ton of great info on this site. I commend your commitment to better health, weightloss is not easy and it will take persistance.
There are alot of good points mentioned above but remember you have to find what works for you. Some people respond to low carbs some don't some people like wieghtlifting some don't find a program that best fits you.
Important points above yes 1000 is to low. You will be able to get away with it for awhile. The more you have to lose the bigger caloric deficet youcan have before you go into starvation mode. Consistancey is key, keep workingout keep dieting and at 1-2/lbs per week average is good rate loss. You'll get faster initally but it will slow.
Water, water and more Water!
I have lost alot of wieght and often get asked how I did it. I'm cutting and pasting my standard weightloss/fitness e-mail here. Let me know if you have any specific questions. remember this is what worked for me.
Zguy
A few months a go I typed this up for a friend, I've forwarded it to several people that were interested in my weightloss/fitness stuff. So far I'm down 110lbs total over 12 years, In the last 18 months I've lost 60lbs (300lbs to 240lbs) while putting on 12lbs of muscle.
Here are all my workout secrets.
In General I use Berardi nutrition Principles, eat most your carbs moring or pre/during workout. Don't eat fats and Carbs together.
I use Velocity diet (built on same Berardi principles) but instead of the weight program used in Velocity diet I use HST(see below)
I ride my road bike 100-150+ miles/week usually on nonlifting days, sometimes I double up and ride on lifting days. I do HST every other day instead of the standard 3 times/Week.
Website for tracking calories (It's free)
www.fitday.com
www.foodfacts.com
Look up nutitional info on many national brands and or food chains
Workout websites - HST
http://www.hypertrophy-specific.com
HST - Workout priniples guided to maximizing muscle size, works really well at also maintaining muscle mass while dieting
Summary
Muscle gets a stimulus and adapts, once it adapts the growth is slowed
Full bodyworkout, mostly compound exercises, NEVER train to failure
HST - start at 80% or your max in a rep range and increase the weight each session until you hit your max on your last session.
this is done in a 2 month Macro cylce consisting of 4 (2 week) micro cycles (2 weeks 15 reps, 2 weeks 10 reps, 2 weeks 5 reps, 2 weeks negative (if no training partner continue 5 reps for 2 weeks (4 weeks total))
9-14 days strategic deconditioning (SD), no working out for SD. muscle will become resistant to growth if you continue working out, SD is short enough not to lose signifigant muscle but long enough for the muscle to recover.
Start new Macro cycle with new calcs for your max in each rep range. Lather rinse repeat
Nutrition website
http://www.johnberardi.com/
Nutrition Website II (Lyle McDonald)
http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/
Workout/Nutrition/Supplements website
http://www.t-nation.com
Velocity Diet (liquid protien)
http://www.t-nation.com/tmagnum/readTopic.do?id=2125931
I use HotRoxx Extreme, they are really good, but I use Infusion Protien by San at viatmin shoppe, and I make my own Surge type recovery drink.
www.trueprotein.com
make your own protien mixes, I order a custom surge type drink and protein from here as well.
www.nutraplanet.com
(edit, I've switch to Recreate fat burner much better at appetite control plus adds cortisol blocker)
My current weighloss stack is DCP(Damage control Protocol) Recreate, Fish oil (in moringnand afternoon) then ZMA, powerful and Lean dreams before bed) I also take 3 powerful before I workout. you can get all this stuff at nutraplanet.
Great website very good service for ordering supplements, I got an order from them Tuesday.
I included a version of my tracking spreadsheet customized for you. Losing weight is simple math be negative 500 cals/day = one pounds/week, 3500 calories = one pound. Good weightless rate for men is 1-2 pounds/week but can come off much faster. Things to remember, as you lose weight your calorie needs are reduced. People will go back to what they think is maintenance eating not realizing it was maintenance for +20-30 pounds so they gradually gain back weight. (the spread tracks this). Things to adjust on the spread sheet, your age, Initial BF %( I just guessed) and activity level.
Sedentary (Desk job, little or no exercise): BMR * 1.2
Light (Light exercise, sports 1-3 days/week): BMR * 1.375
Moderate (Moderate exercise, sports 3-5 days/week): BMR * 1.55
Heavy (Heavy exercise, sports 6-7 days/week): BMR * 1.725
Good Luck!
Let me know if you have any questions