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    Quote Originally Posted by fame126
    I should probably ask her why she has the sex drive of an 80yr old lady lol
    You mean talking to her?
    Well, there's a novel idea!
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    If were talking about marriage of +10 years I can no longer comment in this thread. But I will sit in the back of class and take notes. All to use 20 years from now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by toddgranit

    Thats it!
    Advise him to play head games with his wife.
    That should work wonders.
    If not, you can always try dating other women to make her jealous.
    Sarcasm off.
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    I've been married 9 years. Been through different phases in our relationship.

    All women are biologically attracted to alpha male characteristics; charm, confidence, humor, inteligence, leadership, strength, etc.

    If you exhibit these qualities (and others) through your behavior, then your wife will be interested more often.

    Women are also a "social climbing" breed. They will naturally seek the high value male. Acting aloof or "ignoring" her signals to her that you have higher value than she. This makes her desire your attention.

    You can choose to believe me or not.
    Just have the balls to act naturally - like a man - its not playing head games.
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    I've been married for almost three decades.

    First - if it's hormonal - then you're kind of screwed, but it shouldn't be hormonal if she's around the same age (early 30's) as you are. If it's hormones - she'll need to see an endo about them, and you'll have to convince her to go see one - or something else will have to happen that convinces her she needs to see one.

    I don't think it's hormonal though (most women know when their libido has fallen off and they want to know why). Here's the thing ... women don't have to erect a rocket each time they want to have sex - they just have to show up with a good enough attitude to get through 40 minutes or so. They don't need a drug ... they just need to be receptive and have a bottle of K-Y perhaps. So, what you find, is that even women with a lack of libido will make sure they "present" themselves often enough to their man to keep him satisfied. That is, if they view the relationship favorably and the man favorably.

    Even if they have no libido though - the woman will often "get into" the act after the man begins his rituals on her. I know I'm not the only guy who's heard this from women. You all have. "I really wasn't into having sex tonight - but then you started kissing me and ... "

    That's the way it works a lot of the time with them.

    Soooo - even if your wife's hormones are screwed - there's still something in her that's causing her to neglect the sexual relationship. That's intentional - because, as I said - sex isn't "hard" for women, especially two times a week. A woman with a castrated libido can FAKE her way through twice a week standing on her head.

    What's causing her to lose concern for the sex?

    Is she cheating? Because women who are cheating will attempt to limit sex with their hubby's to the absolute minimum.

    Is she overworked and stressed? Is she a Mom? Working, cleaning, and doing everything for the kiddies?

    Is she mad at you and playing passive / aggressive with her most potent weapon?

    You need to sit her down and talk about this and figure out what it is.

    Don't try any **** with her like "ignoring" her. Been there and done that. It doesn't work. In fact, word of advice - you will lose in any passive / aggressive pissing contest with a woman - they play on a level far above us. Best thing to do is sit her down and talk to her.

    If that doesn't work - then you have to make a decision to stay or get the hell out. You'll get it once a week - or you'll have to step out.

    One thing I will tell you is that Mrs. Honda suffered a temporary case of this many years back - she was overworked and I was absorbed in a very important job. I got involved with another woman and she caught me (in the gym with her! LOL) ... Mrs. Honda's reaction though - wasn't to yell or get upset. No, she turned into the sex kitten I had always known - and broke out the whole sexual buffet and, quite frankly - when Mrs. Honda's game is on she can fry any other bitch out there. I remember, one day after we finished with sex - she looked at me and winked and said ... "She's not as good as me - no way!"

    She was right - and that ended my trist with the other girl. Now, mind you - Mrs. Honda told me many years ago that straying was okay as long as it was for mindless sex and it wasn't in her face. It also had to be 100 percent safe sex because she didn't want to catch anything. She knows I like variety and so the rule was not to get involved with anyone I could fall in love with. But this girl I was involved with in this instance violated that rule - because I had an ongoing relationship with her. She wasn't someone I met in a pub and did one night on a business trip to London - which is okay per Mrs. Honda.
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    ^ That's a keeper right there.

    There's always been a true statement of "If you don't give them what they want, someone else will." Kinda wish most women would realize that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by broda
    ^ That's a keeper right there.

    There's always been a true statement of "If you don't give them what they want, someone else will." Kinda wish most women would realize that.
    Amen brotha by the time they realize it its too late
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    Quote Originally Posted by broda
    ^ That's a keeper right there.

    There's always been a true statement of "If you don't give them what they want, someone else will." Kinda wish most women would realize that.
    Wow. Amen to Mr Honda. And broda.
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    Also she is your wife so take what's yours bring out the Alpha. Don't kiss her ass just Show her what u want, shake it , and then roll her over
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    Dude I was being a little foolish when I said ignore her. It's your wife,not some girlfriend maybe she's going thru something, who knows. Don't cheat on her, don't puff out your chest and act all macho. Just sit her down and talk to her. Find out what's going on. I'm sure it's just a phase. I hear you tho, sex is an important part of a healthy relationship and she should know that.
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    Just rape her she might like it. And honestly twice a week isn't too bad.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cashinova87
    Just rape her she might like it. And honestly twice a week isn't too bad.
    Role play a rape scene?
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    Quote Originally Posted by OrganicShadow

    Role play a rape scene?
    Lmao isn't the whole to make her want more sex?
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    A friend of mine is married to an older woman (57), he is 49 and well oiled and has a very high sexdrive. They have been to several Doctors and nothing has helped her in that area. The last month he has been injecting around 10-20 mgs. of Cyp. every 10 days or so and her sex drive is through thr roof now, she is calling him at work and wanting to meet at home for lunch for some luvn. I,m not advising this approach, but it is working for them so far. My wife of 15 years is the typical two kids and 40 lbs later, with pretty much zero disire like some of these other women. I have all but given up after many different approaches, and as stated above if a man is not getting what he needs at home, well sometimes needs are met elsewhere....
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    I do see that a lot. Man marries woman. A few years go by kids are born. Woman completely gives up keeping her man interested. Now I have also seen it vice versa. Is it perhaps because there's no longer any chase involved?
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    Quote Originally Posted by broons
    I do see that a lot. Man marries woman. A few years go by kids are born. Woman completely gives up keeping her man interested. Now I have also seen it vice versa. Is it perhaps because there's no longer any chase involved?
    I think more likely, the biological imperative to reproduce is satisfied, and the nurturing instinct takes over.
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    Quote Originally Posted by toddgranit View Post
    I think more likely, the biological imperative to reproduce is satisfied, and the nurturing instinct takes over.
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    Time to replace their lotion with transdermals!
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    Quote Originally Posted by broda
    Time to replace their lotion with transdermals!
    That would probably work, although if not dosed correctly she could end up with a mustache.
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    I find loading the dishwasher works wonders.
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    Quote Originally Posted by roblasane
    I find loading the dishwasher works wonders.
    Great answer!
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    Quote Originally Posted by broons View Post
    Or u could try doing nice things for her. Be Flirty throughout the day yet not overtly. Do little things around the house. If her excuse is she's tired all the time then lighten her load, take away her excuse.
    unless that is the reason she's not interested (lack of that) what will happen is he will end up more frustrated for investing an hour or more a day into that, with still the same lack of payoff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bioman View Post
    A 6 figure salary is also reported to be effective.
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    Quote Originally Posted by broons View Post
    I do see that a lot. Man marries woman. A few years go by kids are born. Woman completely gives up keeping her man interested. Now I have also seen it vice versa. Is it perhaps because there's no longer any chase involved?
    A lot of it is simpler than that. there are what I think are 2 major factors there. One is that since basically world war II, progressive societies have been trying to teach women their children are more important than their spouse. Since the dawn of time, that was the first time that was being pushed. With it coming along with the whole rest of what came in the 60s, 70s, etc its ingrained into plenty. The other major factor, of course related is that children are like little energy vampires, sucking it out of you so they have it to use.


    Quote Originally Posted by RipdnTxs View Post
    A friend of mine is married to an older woman (57), he is 49 and well oiled and has a very high sexdrive. They have been to several Doctors and nothing has helped her in that area. The last month he has been injecting around 10-20 mgs. of Cyp. every 10 days or so and her sex drive is through thr roof now, she is calling him at work and wanting to meet at home for lunch for some luvn. I,m not advising this approach, but it is working for them so far. My wife of 15 years is the typical two kids and 40 lbs later, with pretty much zero disire like some of these other women. I have all but given up after many different approaches, and as stated above if a man is not getting what he needs at home, well sometimes needs are met elsewhere....
    probably 10mg is still a little high, but that is done via prescription (via a patch) for women.
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    a drop of rc liquid cialis on the clitoris will do the trick....
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    Quote Originally Posted by thebigt
    a drop of rc liquid cialis on the clitoris will do the trick....
    I think if he has access to the clitoris his problem is already solved.
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    Quote Originally Posted by toddgranit View Post
    I think if he has access to the clitoris his problem is already solved.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RipdnTxs View Post
    A friend of mine is married to an older woman (57), he is 49 and well oiled and has a very high sexdrive. They have been to several Doctors and nothing has helped her in that area. The last month he has been injecting around 10-20 mgs. of Cyp. every 10 days or so and her sex drive is through thr roof now, she is calling him at work and wanting to meet at home for lunch for some luvn ...
    ^^See, this is a good example to analyze. In this situation, the woman's gone through menapause and she's lost her desire for sex - which isn't unusual. However, what a woman NEVER loses - is her ability to have sex and fake enthusiasm.

    So the first thing is - women don't worry so much about loss of libido causing them to be unable to satisfy a male - they can do that with ZERO libido.

    So why is this woman now willing to INJECT TEST (if I read your post right?) ???

    1. SHE misses the feeling of being a sexual animal. Women like to feel sexy and they like to feel viscerally drawn to men. When that doesn't happen anymore they begin to feel asexual - and they don't like it. Neither would we.

    2. She has a younger man - and yeah, she can fake her way through it with him - but she'd really like to ENJOY him more. She wants the sex to be better for her - so that she doesn't have to fake her way through it.

    3. There are some things she CAN'T fake - like natural lubricaton (which drops off a cliff after menapause in a lot of women) ... and vaginal dryness. So she probably thinks that getting things "in shape" more "down there" will be more enjoyable to him and make her appear to be younger to him.

    EDIT: I have been with a lot of girls aged 19 to 55. What astonishes me is how "wet" young women can get at the drop of a hat. You don't even have to work very hard to get that - sometimes you gotta know what "button" to press (and it usually a mental one) but once you find it it's easy to hit over and over again. But - with older women ... you really have to pull out the bag of tricks and sometimes switch things up to produce the lava flow - and even then it's not something that will drown you like it is with a young girl in her 20's. Seriously - I think most of us have experienced a girlfriend or two got so "wet" that you couldn't really feel anything because everything was too slippery. Uhm yeah - this is not a concern with older women! LOL

    She's trying to KEEP her dude AND enjoy her dude at the same time! I'm not sure that self-dosing test for this purpose is the way to go about it though. What I would do - is go to a doc and tell him he doesn't have to experiment to find a cure - she's already done that - it's a testosterone treatment she needs - and he can then come up with a safer long-term therapy for her.
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    Def appreciate this thread...been with my girl for about 3 years now and getting married here in October... going back to my post early on ignoring her...that seemed to work more during the dating phase. As our relationship has progressed, its helping with the little things that actually make her want it more...strange but for whatever reason that works...I tend to pick up the house, do the dishes or throw some laundry in on the weekends and she’s actually quite grateful and "giving" when she gets home. All in all, good thread. Def seems like the method for handling this situation varies whether your just dating or have been married for X+ years.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IRON4LIFE
    Def appreciate this thread...been with my girl for about 3 years now and getting married here in October... going back to my post early on ignoring her...that seemed to work more during the dating phase. As our relationship has progressed, its helping with the little things that actually make her want it more...strange but for whatever reason that works...I tend to pick up the house, do the dishes or throw some laundry in on the weekends and she’s actually quite grateful and "giving" when she gets home. All in all, good thread. Def seems like the method for handling this situation varies whether your just dating or have been married for X+ years.
    That's what works for me. But may not work for everyone. Sometimes its just little things that make her happy and complimenting her and she reciprocates without me even having to initiate anything. Happy wife.. happy life.
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