Hmm... I'd much prefer to be an Athenian. Spartans had an unusal system of State enforced relationships (you had to "bi") and couldn't withstand Alexandria. In fact they offered terms of surrender to the Athenians - who in hindsight should have accepted.
But then you wouldnt get a B.A. shield and spear and six pack.
Last I heard is that the athenians were boy lovers... are you sure you want in on that?
yea the athenians were more stigmatized for being 'bi' but it was thru intellecual mentoring.. they were just ghey or bi, it was teachin the younger men how to be men, socialized them into society, etc
and actually spartan womenz were very aggressive, especially sexually.. if they wanted to get fuked, they got it.. it was expected of the men to fuk their women whenever they wanted, and if he didnt he was ridiculed lol
thankfully, most of my family is from the spartan area, but my other side of the family can be traced to athens, but then lose the trail there.. since i like the B.A. Spartan side more I got my "MOLON LABE" tattoo a couple months ago