Maybe you secretly like dudes?
Sorry I'm having too much fun with this.
Do you have any focus xt? I noticed a decrease in anxiety when I take it. Cool, maybe we can start another 1,000 page focus xt thread as a pre-sex supp!
GABA helps with my anxiety too but the last thing you need when bangin your girl is GABA tingles and shortness of breath.
I still stand by my first suggestion of a male enhancement product. I think the increase in mood, and sexual strength will help you blow your load on her face quicker.