I'm not sure this is the best place for this thread but it does have to do with nutrition and health.
My Dad used to be a gym rat when I was young. This is actually where I got my start and my desire. I used to sneak into the garage and play with his weights (I'm lucky i never got hurt) or sneak into his room and look at his body building magazines.
He was a heavy smoker though, and my mom always begged him to quit. When he finally did he switched to alcohol and food to fill his addictions instead. It wasn't long before he was about 400 pounds at 5'6. It was long after that before he was diagnosed with diabetes. He started eating "healthy" which mainly was he went on all fruit diet. (which i thing is bad for diabetics?) and dropped down to about 250. After that he started eating pretty cruddy again and got back up to 300. Soon after he had a quadruple bi-pass. He had complications from his surgery and spent 6 months in the hospital with staph in his chest. When he finally got out he was a 180 pounds. He went right back to his old eating habits of t.v. dinners and pounds of steak at a time. He soon got back up to 250, and the staph came back in his unhealed chest so he had another surgery to remove large amounts of rotten sternum. He got out and started eating out at mexican restaurants and getting drunk on margaritas. This has been over a 4 year period. I've given him countless diets, I paid for a nutritionist for him, I paid for a personal trainer for him, I made dinners for him that went untouched...he just went in for his 3rd surgery and had almost all of the rest of his sternum removed. He says he feels better than he has in two years, but all he's eating right now are croissants, strawberries, and ice cream. He also just got diagnosed with gout...I don't really know what it is though.
I've tried everything to motivate him. I've tried yelling, I've tried pleading, I've tried threatening, and I've tried just ignoring him.
I don't know what to do. Do ya'll have any advice?
My Dad used to be a gym rat when I was young. This is actually where I got my start and my desire. I used to sneak into the garage and play with his weights (I'm lucky i never got hurt) or sneak into his room and look at his body building magazines.
He was a heavy smoker though, and my mom always begged him to quit. When he finally did he switched to alcohol and food to fill his addictions instead. It wasn't long before he was about 400 pounds at 5'6. It was long after that before he was diagnosed with diabetes. He started eating "healthy" which mainly was he went on all fruit diet. (which i thing is bad for diabetics?) and dropped down to about 250. After that he started eating pretty cruddy again and got back up to 300. Soon after he had a quadruple bi-pass. He had complications from his surgery and spent 6 months in the hospital with staph in his chest. When he finally got out he was a 180 pounds. He went right back to his old eating habits of t.v. dinners and pounds of steak at a time. He soon got back up to 250, and the staph came back in his unhealed chest so he had another surgery to remove large amounts of rotten sternum. He got out and started eating out at mexican restaurants and getting drunk on margaritas. This has been over a 4 year period. I've given him countless diets, I paid for a nutritionist for him, I paid for a personal trainer for him, I made dinners for him that went untouched...he just went in for his 3rd surgery and had almost all of the rest of his sternum removed. He says he feels better than he has in two years, but all he's eating right now are croissants, strawberries, and ice cream. He also just got diagnosed with gout...I don't really know what it is though.
I've tried everything to motivate him. I've tried yelling, I've tried pleading, I've tried threatening, and I've tried just ignoring him.
I don't know what to do. Do ya'll have any advice?