A few more thoughts from the one who initially stirred the pot: I try to lead my family a day at a time, and do so in ways consistent with who I am. In my case, that happens to involve (and hopefully reflect) a relationship with God. Mind you, I fail far too often. In fact, some times my failures are significant; and for that I ask for forgiveness. I do not like to be embarrassed by what I've done. The best situation is clearly to avoid putting yourself in situations you would later seriously regret. I think unwanted pregnancy qualifies as one of those situations.
I've tried to raise my sons and daughter to respect not only who they are, but also who others are, and to try to avoid "doing the wrong things" and try to "do the right things". Does this involve my imparting morality? Yes, for me to do otherwise would be grossly in neglect of what a father is called to do. Does that reflect my relationship with God? For me, it has to.
What I try to impart involves how my sons should treat women; not as pieces of tail, but as human beings, and with the same respect they would afford their mother or sister. It also involves teaching my daughter about the way guys think (I've been one for some time now).
Do things happen? Yes. Do we need to take care of things when they do? Yes, again - but hopefully in ways that we can live with; and without regret.
For me and my family, I hope we are never faced with an abortion crossroad. I hope my decisions would always reflect what I believe I stand for. I have to assume responsibility for my family, one decision at a time. Morality can only truly happen one decision at a time, and one family at a time. In trying to do the "right thing", I frequently have to do things I wouldn't chose to do, or avoid things I might be drawn towards.
It isn't enough that we not knowingly try to put ourselves in these situations; we really have to plan to avoid them.
Regardless of the legality, there are many things we could do. Legality doesn't make it right, nor wrong; we need to look elsewhere for that.
Sorry for the sermon. As one of the older contingent, I'm just trying to share a bit of what I've gleened in the past; realizing that makes it right only for me.