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Masturbation and weakness

Hope

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Hi all,

This may sound weird but when i masturbate 4-5 times a day i feel weak and light headed next day.Why is that so.Sorry for my bad English.
 
Bro, that's excessive. I would bet money you have too much blood flow the wrong head. Relax. lol
 
lol I seriously thought this was a Markus thread when I first read it. Dude, your shiz doesn't go raw after rubbing it out 4-5 times per day?! Skin might start peeling pretty soon! lol
 
...I'm about 3-4 times but hey I've been single for 3 damn years. It doesn't really effect me in terms of strength. Actually If I don't do it at least once a day I get very irritable.
 
Same haha
 
I am really depressed guys.I think this masturbation ruined my life.I got purposefully on anti depressants but it didn't help much.I think i have adrenal fatigue due to years of over stimulation.I am slow thinker and got really bad memory.I am 23.
 
Hope said:
I am really depressed guys.I think this masturbation ruined my life.I got purposefully on anti depressants but it didn't help much.I think i have adrenal fatigue due to years of over stimulation.I am slow thinker and got really bad memory.I am 23.
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Its possible, but when I was younger I grabbed myself every chance I got - Im 23 and very easily stimulated. I find that many people on anti-depressants end up worse on the drug than they were before. I really think your issues lie within not having the right stimulation physically and mentally. Try playing some puzzle games or word games, more frequent and varied exercise routines. These change your bodies natural chemistry in a positive manner.
 
Try taking up another hobby , maybe some crafting , or get a girl friend .
Dont get me wrong ,I think it is great that you have a constant erection.
I was like that until I got married .
 
I'm depressed too. Antidepressants don't do **** to make you better. You guys want to know what helped with my depression? Getting a bj whenever I saw my gf. Unfortunately I've been single for 3 years like I said.
 
damn.. yall need to slow down... stop jerking it and find a set a chick to hit...

Im on the no masterbation kick and I am so much better off now. Give it a try.

The irritibility is awesome because it makes you aggressive to just go out and get some.
 
StangBanger said:
damn.. yall need to slow down... stop jerking it and find a set a chick to hit...

Im on the no masterbation kick and I am so much better off now. Give it a try.

The irritibility is awesome because it makes you aggressive to just go out and get some.
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I've been trying for 3 years bro lol. I have social problems and no car. Everytime I talk to a girl I get caught in the friend zone or no zone at all. I've had sex with girls since than just not often. Just sluts that an ex friend of mine knew.
 
DerickVonD said:
I've been trying for 3 years bro lol. I have social problems and no car. Everytime I talk to a girl I get caught in the friend zone or no zone at all. I've had sex with girls since than just not often. Just sluts that an ex friend of mine knew.
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At least you banged a girl.Last women i touched was 4 years ago. :(
 
DerickVonD said:
I've been trying for 3 years bro lol. I have social problems and no car. Everytime I talk to a girl I get caught in the friend zone or no zone at all. I've had sex with girls since than just not often. Just sluts that an ex friend of mine knew.
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I have social anxiety dis, general anxiety dis w/ panic disorder... all started after a car accident.

I feel your pain brotha! I know how it is. I have worked through a lot of it with the help of some good friends.

This may sound like BS but I assure you its not, if friendzoned often its because you are too nice. I was the same. As soon as I started not being so nice... SCORE!!! no more friendzoning...

not a complete a**hole... just not 'nice'.
 
StangBanger said:
I have social anxiety dis, general anxiety dis w/ panic disorder... all started after a car accident.

I feel your pain brotha! I know how it is. I have worked through a lot of it with the help of some good friends.

This may sound like BS but I assure you its not, if friendzoned often its because you are too nice. I was the same. As soon as I started not being so nice... SCORE!!! no more friendzoning...

not a complete a**hole... just not 'nice'.
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That's alittle hard to learn, but I guess I'll have to try this. What I mean is since I've been a nice guy all my life, it's hard to tell when to be a douche and when not to. They tell you to be yourself, but we all know that's bull****.
 
I have been very lucky that I haven't struggled with any of these things. I always had sex with attractive girls and only masturbated to relieve stress and keep stamina up.. But, true story, I was addicted to painkillers several years ago, and went to rehab. I spent 10 months with all guys, and was seriously losing it. I walked 3 miles down the road to a dumpy sports bar, and only one girl was there, fat and ugly. It didnt take much to get her back to her place. Scouts honor, best sex I've ever had.
My point is this: fat/ugly people are not difficult to get to have sex with you, they dont care if you masturbate alot or have social and panic disorders, and they are typically fantastic in bed!
 
yeah the big/ugly girls try harder.... Ive noticed bigger girls give better head....
 
I dont necessarily think of it as being a douche. You know how we all playfully joke with our friends in some way of being a ****? Somehow when it comes to the opposite sex we suddenly shift gears in our approach to conversation - dont do that. Everyone knows when youre conversating differently with people in the same room, its not a good thing.

Moving back to the original - take up a hobby that you have some interest/fascination in that can help sharpen your mental and phsycal skills. Granted, you wont be the amazing artist you want to be straight out so dont get discouraged. But with time and practice you have something to strive for and self confidence in an ability to distinguish yourself with.
 
I reccomend the same thing. Girls usually don't like being hit on. They like to have fun. If they see you having fun and not stressing and stewing to get up the nerve to say something thats not going to work, they are already likely interested. But if you don't try too hard it works much better. As soon as I started going out just to have fun, and not exclusively trying to get laid, I did all the time.
Also, if you are not that attractive, don't really try for the 10 at the bar, 6's are just fine.
 
The hottest women I ever picked up, I got by ignoring them. I watched every guy in the bar studder through some lame pickup line and they were just waitin to shut em down. Just make eye contact and confidently say hi, then order your drink and sit there. Don't even look at em again. It'll drive em up the wall that you're not interested while everybody else is. After a few drinks you should be loosened up enough to start casual conversation.
 
When I was in high school me and a few friends did an experiment about the effects of sex/masturbation on strength. We tested for our 1 rep max on bench, incline press, squat, dead lift, and power clean. Each of us had had a typical month of sex/masturbation and training (to each his own lol) before the test. Then, we all went without any form of sex/mb for the entire following week. Every one of us went increased our 1 rep max on all lifts by at least 10 pounds on the second test with the exact same training routine. We figured it had to do with losing testosterone.
 
OrganicShadow said:
Its possible, but when I was younger I grabbed myself every chance I got - Im 23 and very easily stimulated. I find that many people on anti-depressants end up worse on the drug than they were before. I really think your issues lie within not having the right stimulation physically and mentally. Try playing some puzzle games or word games, more frequent and varied exercise routines. These change your bodies natural chemistry in a positive manner.
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hahahahahahahahahahahah, ahahahahaa, THIS IS THE HARDEST i'VE LAUGHED IN A LONG TIME!! tHANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS RESPONSE!!! "Jesus I need to get laid, huh (fires up computer) ahh, lets go to bangbro's and see whats new!! Oh god I can't....God I need to stop...****, SOMEONE GO GET ME A GOD DAMN CROSSWORD PUZZLE!!"
 
Matthersby said:
I reccomend the same thing. Girls usually don't like being hit on. They like to have fun. If they see you having fun and not stressing and stewing to get up the nerve to say something thats not going to work, they are already likely interested. But if you don't try too hard it works much better. As soon as I started going out just to have fun, and not exclusively trying to get laid, I did all the time.
Also, if you are not that attractive, don't really try for the 10 at the bar, 6's are just fine.
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Coorslight126 says go for the 6's all the time, even if you are attractive!! The 6's are more of a sure thing, the 10's just want the free drinks and the attention, the 6's will actually ****. And once your level of drunkiness goes up a few notches the 6's start getting to be 10's anyways, and a 6 who is good in bed is better than a 10 who is a dead lay. Or you might luck up and get a couple 6's in your bed at the same time, now you got a damn 12!! Hell yea
 
CoorsLight126 said:
Coorslight126 says go for the 6's all the time, even if you are attractive!! The 6's are more of a sure thing, the 10's just want the free drinks and the attention, the 6's will actually ****. And once your level of drunkiness goes up a few notches the 6's start getting to be 10's anyways, and a 6 who is good in bed is better than a 10 who is a dead lay. Or you might luck up and get a couple 6's in your bed at the same time, now you got a damn 12!! Hell yea
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Kind of reminds me when George Carlin said, "I never ****ed a ten, but one night I ****ed five twos and that should count."
 
CoorsLight126 said:
Coorslight126 says go for the 6's all the time, even if you are attractive!! The 6's are more of a sure thing, the 10's just want the free drinks and the attention, the 6's will actually ****. And once your level of drunkiness goes up a few notches the 6's start getting to be 10's anyways, and a 6 who is good in bed is better than a 10 who is a dead lay. Or you might luck up and get a couple 6's in your bed at the same time, now you got a damn 12!! Hell yea
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Bro the 6's and 7's are better. The 9's and 10's suck. They're one time deals even if they think they're not and usually, if shes with a guy, the only reason he puts up with her is the trophy girl looks - but hes got another girl on the side who actually pleases him. They're just a pretty face and it's all they have to show; the rest is stress/drama I dont need to deal with even if its for a night. If I can have a better conversation and find more use from the table my drink is on... this isn't happening.

Oh yeah... remember how "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder?" That 6/7 may be a perfect 10 in more ways than one but you would never know just from looking at her.
 
From tomorrow,I will quite fapping for good,only once a month.I know it is very hard but i have to do it.
 
@ coorslight. I totally agree bro. I was such a stuck up tool in my twenties that I always thought I could get that 20 back to my place so I turned down a 9+3 or a 5+6, and guess whose dumbass never had a threesome because of it? This guy....
 
Hope said:
From tomorrow,I will quite fapping for good,only once a month.I know it is very hard but i have to do it.
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Good for you... I swear it helps... I dont know why but I am better off now that I barely ever do it. And I get laid more often.
 
bomcgraw said:
When I was in high school me and a few friends did an experiment about the effects of sex/masturbation on strength. We tested for our 1 rep max on bench, incline press, squat, dead lift, and power clean. Each of us had had a typical month of sex/masturbation and training (to each his own lol) before the test. Then, we all went without any form of sex/mb for the entire following week. Every one of us went increased our 1 rep max on all lifts by at least 10 pounds on the second test with the exact same training routine. We figured it had to do with losing testosterone.
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Thats interesting but placebo effect most likely. I dont have links but I did read a few studies on this at one point a while back that showed that there was no impact due to masterbation, or lack thereof on strength.
 
StangBanger said:
Thats interesting but placebo effect most likely. I dont have links but I did read a few studies on this at one point a while back that showed that there was no impact due to masterbation, or lack thereof on strength.
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I was wonderin if the effects were real or not. We only tried it the one time and without much control to the experiment there were a lot of other factors that could have caused the increase.
 
StangBanger said:
Thats interesting but placebo effect most likely. I dont have links but I did read a few studies on this at one point a while back that showed that there was no impact due to masterbation, or lack thereof on strength.
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I also noticed my strength dips if have sex or masturbate before the gym, thats I what i tell all my ladies so they know no to mess with daddy::banana:
 
bboyflash said:
I also noticed my strength dips if have sex or masturbate before the gym, thats I what i tell all my ladies so they know no to mess with daddy::banana:
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hmmm... maybe time to for me to check for more studies on this.
 
I wont bust a nut like, say an hour preworkout because it just takes the fight right outta me. But any other time in the next 23 hours is open season, regardless if it may lower my numbers. Plenty of other things available to give me aggression in the gym if I need them.
 
guys, i dont know if you know this or not but test levels are actually higher after you bust your nut, scientifically proven. Muhammed Ali went for a year w/out sex for nothing, he's lucky he didn't get his boner punched off in the fight
 
Because you loosen up and relax. No matter what youre a bit more at ease about everything and its more a mental thing when you just dont give the same fight as a raging sexually frustrated 16 year old. And if there is a girl involved, subconsiously, part of you will still be thinking of her.
 
CoorsLight126 said:
guys, i dont know if you know this or not but test levels are actually higher after you bust your nut, scientifically proven. Muhammed Ali went for a year w/out sex for nothing, he's lucky he didn't get his boner punched off in the fight
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Really? I always heard that when u bust one off that you send a lot of your bodies testosterone with it and thats why guys get so tired and are prone to muscle spasms and stuff afterwards. I haven't researched it, I'm just sayin what I've heard by word of mouth. Thats cool to know tho, I'm gonna have to look into it some more.
 
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