[mindgame]

Rodja doesnt T-bag he potato sacks woman. lol j/p

[Rodja]

Originally Posted by mindgame

Rodja doesnt T-bag he potato sacks woman. lol j/p

I'm no Chuck Norris.

I can't even grow a beard.

[mindgame]

any updates on this rodja?

[suncloud]

rodja, maybe she's in one of those "i am dating him just to say i have a BF". i know many women that will date anybody, just to say they're with someone. then when someone better comes along they jump ship. just make sure you're the one they stay with, not the one that they're trying to replace. in other words, don't spend a crapload of money real quick on her, but still treat her right.

[Rodja]

Originally Posted by mindgame

any updates on this rodja?

Didn't see this til today. Right now I am not quite sure where we stand. We had a nice date last Friday night and we talked everyday during the week as well. She went home to a friend's wedding, so I haven't talked to her much the past few days. I'm not going to really bring anything up this week until after my fight so I can have a clear head. She is going to be there, though, which is something that I have never experienced.

[Rodja]

Figured I would give a little update on this. We weren't talking too much during the week leading up to my fight on 7/26. It was still everyday, but not for more than 10 minutes or so. The night of my fight, we bought a few beers and watched a few movies. More of a relaxing kind of evening. I was getting tired and she wasn't trashed, but I did not want her driving. I told her that I would sleep on the couch and then worry about everything tomorrow morning. Another hour passed and we had been snugly while watching the last movie, but I was gassed for the night...or so I though. She asked me if I wanted to sleep in her bed and, of course, I said yes. Fast forward to today and we have been spending so much time together. Out of the 10 days since then, we have stayed the night with each other 6 times.
She is going home for a week on Friday, which is going to suck balls, but I have been having such an amazing time with her. We just sit there and talk about the most random things and she is just as sarcastic as me. My friends ask me what we did and I really can't remember because we have just a stream of consciousness conversation. It's awesome that we don't have to go anywhere or really do anything and we still have so much fun.

[Usf97j4x4]

Originally Posted by Rodja

Figured I would give a little update on this. We weren't talking too much during the week leading up to my fight on 7/26. It was still everyday, but not for more than 10 minutes or so. The night of my fight, we bought a few beers and watched a few movies. More of a relaxing kind of evening. I was getting tired and she wasn't trashed, but I did not want her driving. I told her that I would sleep on the couch and then worry about everything tomorrow morning. Another hour passed and we had been snugly while watching the last movie, but I was gassed for the night...or so I though. She asked me if I wanted to sleep in her bed and, of course, I said yes. Fast forward to today and we have been spending so much time together. Out of the 10 days since then, we have stayed the night with each other 6 times.
She is going home for a week on Friday, which is going to suck balls, but I have been having such an amazing time with her. We just sit there and talk about the most random things and she is just as sarcastic as me. My friends ask me what we did and I really can't remember because we have just a stream of consciousness conversation. It's awesome that we don't have to go anywhere or really do anything and we still have so much fun.

Wow... sounds like you're well on your way my friend. Her mom is safe, for now.

[Usf97j4x4]

Originally Posted by Rodja

Ironically, she had been single for 3 years before that.

Oh yeah, and get this, she says she's a virgin still. Doesn't seem like the type to make up a such a lie, but still. I am not going to be passive, but not aggressive either. One of my friends always tells me, "Be assertive, not aggressive."

That's what mine said when I first started dating her. I didnt think it was possible for her at 24 considering how attractive and cool she was. We actually dated a year before we finally slept together. She wasn't lying. :P

[Rodja]

Originally Posted by Usf97j4x4

Wow... sounds like you're well on your way my friend. Her mom is safe, for now.

Yep, totally unexpected. I tried to kiss her on my b-day and she said that we're just friends, which confused the **** out of me because we kissed just a few days earlier. I didn't give up and I am really glad that I didn't.

[Zero V]

Congrats bro, I hope things work out on this. I also was a goober as a teen, though I have confidence and muscle and blah blah blah, I still lose all my confidence in front of a girl. Though I get alot of flirts and looks and they are interested in me, I am partially clueless, all of the time lol.

Good work on the catch mate!

[underadar]

Originally Posted by Rodja

I have been talking to a girl for the past couple of weeks (we have a class together) and we went on a lunch date yesterday. Sadly, it took me almost a week to ask her out to something so simple, but that's beside the point. The actual lunch went really well and I can tell that she is into me and vice versa. However, right at the tail end of it, she casually throws out that she has a BF. It was relevant to the conversation we were having, she didn't just up and mention it. Not once did I get the vibe that she was dating anyone, so this completely caught me off guard.

Then, to add to the confusion, she mentions that she is probably going to break it off (they've only been together for about a month). Seriously, WTF is that about? I have talked to a few of my gal friends and they have all said that she likes me, but to not be too pushy. So, my fellow AM'ers what is your take on this whole situation?

Remember, you might be the next victim. She might like having the fresh start and get bored fast. I would learn a little bit about her before diving into this one. not to mention such a quick transition could be a disaster.

[3clipseGT]

Dont let peopel put crap if your head bro! It sounds like its working out great for you Rodj and keep it going! I wish you good luck my man and i wish you all the happiness!

[slow-mun]

Originally Posted by 3clipseGT

Dont let peopel put crap if your head bro! It sounds like its working out great for you Rodj and keep it going! I wish you good luck my man and i wish you all the happiness!

x2! Those who have been scorned in the past will always try and throw a wet blanket on a great situation. Just play things by ear and enjoy yourself.

[Rodja]

Originally Posted by slow-mun

x2! Those who have been scorned in the past will always try and throw a wet blanket on a great situation. Just play things by ear and enjoy yourself.

What was so weird is that we both agreed to take things slowly and let them develop. I think that was said last Wednesday and there has only been 1 night since then that we weren't with each other.

It is probably a good thing that she is going home for a week so we can have a moment to ourselves because I don't want to end up with her all the time. Not that I don't love the time I spend with her, it's just healthy for every relationship to have space.