michaeljannis
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i realize that there are two sides to ever story, but all your going to get is mine, and I hope everyone knows it's the absolute truth as I can understand it.
I have been with my girl for two and a half years. I'm 27 y/o - and I care for her dearly, but man it seems that all we do these days is fight. We ALWAYS ALWAYS fight about MY past. She is constantly bringing up girls I have slept with in the past, and this one particular girl that i was with before she and I got together. (I lived with said girl - she has a huge problem with this)
Me and my current g/f do not live together, her home is about 45min away - close to my home town. But we see each other all the time, cuz she goes to school here.
Anyway, I just seriously don't know what to do anymore, I can't get it through her damn head that I don't care about those girls anymore, and that she needs to let it go. She is seriously fighting with a memory-----one that is mine. I didn't even know her when I was with the others) I don't care about them, I don't talk to them, I don't want to.
All I want is for us to be OK, and not fight about things I can't change nor can she.
But what can I do? We have been fighting monthly now for almost 8 months. We will make up, then again have the same fight again in a few weeks. Right now she is up in my bed, sleeping, not talking to me.
I know this sounds like I'm saying it's all her, and not my fault, but you know, she has a past too, and I don't throw that in her face. The way I look at it is, you are with me, and I am with you, and no one else should matter. Especially, if they aren't in our lives now.!!!!
Am I wrong? Lay it on me guys!!!!!
:sad: :frustrate
I have been with my girl for two and a half years. I'm 27 y/o - and I care for her dearly, but man it seems that all we do these days is fight. We ALWAYS ALWAYS fight about MY past. She is constantly bringing up girls I have slept with in the past, and this one particular girl that i was with before she and I got together. (I lived with said girl - she has a huge problem with this)
Me and my current g/f do not live together, her home is about 45min away - close to my home town. But we see each other all the time, cuz she goes to school here.
Anyway, I just seriously don't know what to do anymore, I can't get it through her damn head that I don't care about those girls anymore, and that she needs to let it go. She is seriously fighting with a memory-----one that is mine. I didn't even know her when I was with the others) I don't care about them, I don't talk to them, I don't want to.
All I want is for us to be OK, and not fight about things I can't change nor can she.
But what can I do? We have been fighting monthly now for almost 8 months. We will make up, then again have the same fight again in a few weeks. Right now she is up in my bed, sleeping, not talking to me.
I know this sounds like I'm saying it's all her, and not my fault, but you know, she has a past too, and I don't throw that in her face. The way I look at it is, you are with me, and I am with you, and no one else should matter. Especially, if they aren't in our lives now.!!!!
Am I wrong? Lay it on me guys!!!!!
:sad: :frustrate