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06-10-2008, 09:25 AM
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| Lift in Color   | Do you think girls... ...are truly attracted to men who ignore them and act like they are uninterested??? I'm, by nature a "nice guy", one who watches the girl of his dreams go out with a total jerk, while I'm the guy she comes to for ADVICES. What's up with this phenomena? Should I go against every fiber of my body and act like a jerk to get a girl? Or should I stick to being myself, a nice guy, and get **** on? CONTROLLED LABS - Winning the WAR against GENETICS RenegadeRows [@] controlledlabs [.] com Controlled LABS products @ a great price! FREE Samples Now Available @ Nutraplanet! |
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06-10-2008, 09:31 AM
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| Registered User  | It's not about being nice or jerks. It's about showing social value to a woman and creating an attraction. You can still be a nice guy, but don't pander to women. I've got a meeting, but I can elaborate later. The only good is knowledge and the only evil is ignorance. - Socrates |
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06-10-2008, 09:58 AM
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06-10-2008, 10:04 AM
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| Registered User  | uhm.. ya know.. going up and just saying "hi" maybe starting a conversation is REALLY the best way. Not sure what the social value stuff is all about but..if that is anything to do with sitting outside of the gym blasting your "system" or maybe learning everyone's name and having a 10 min convo with each person at the gym... like everyone knows you.. that .. in my opinion.. is not the type of guy I would look for, for a long term relationship... maybe a 4 night stand! lol EEEEK! I'm MARRIED!!!!!!!lol  |
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06-10-2008, 10:10 AM
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| CEL Rep (Z's lacky) Board Sponsor  | The phenomena may occur when the attention craving female of the species expects the male to pander to her... if the male does not show adequate attention the females little brain short circuits and it begins adopting male characteristics i.e. chasing after mates, belching, cursing, etc. Crikey! Competitive Edge Labs bill @ competitiveedgelabs.com PMs requesting sources will be deleted. Please note the information in my posts is based strictly off of personal opinion and does not necessarily represent the views and opinions of Competitive Edge Labs. |
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06-10-2008, 10:11 AM
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| Registered User | I DO NOT HAVE ANY GAS WHATSOEVER!!!!!!! lol EEEEK! I'm MARRIED!!!!!!!lol |
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06-10-2008, 10:14 AM
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| CEL Rep (Z's lacky) Board Sponsor | Quote:
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06-10-2008, 10:19 AM
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| Registered User | I just honestly never seen a guy that I got so pissy over because he didn't give me the attention I want. I like attention.. i like getting looks etc.. but I am also very much interested in the conversation not just that one single aspect of the attraction.. or attracted look. If they aren't interested.. then I am not interested.. it has been a pretty normal and break even life for me in that department. EEEEK! I'm MARRIED!!!!!!!lol |
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06-10-2008, 10:36 AM
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| CEL Rep (Z's lacky) Board Sponsor | I guess I lucked out with my wife... we met on a college field trip (she invited herself in my car for the 9 hour drive rather than sitting in the nasty suburban with no AC). We had great conversation the whole time and we spent the whole trip basically attached at the hip. When she got back she broke it off with the guy she was dating and the rest is history. I have used the jerk routine before, whered i'd hriefly act interested, get them hooked and then completely do a 180 and be not interested at all and sort of ignore them like an ass and make them come afterme. It works, but I swear its a lower caliber girl that goes for this. If you are confident (like squeaks eluded to earlier) you should have no problem. But remember its a fine line between confidence and cockiness. Competitive Edge Labs bill @ competitiveedgelabs.com PMs requesting sources will be deleted. Please note the information in my posts is based strictly off of personal opinion and does not necessarily represent the views and opinions of Competitive Edge Labs. |
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06-10-2008, 10:53 AM
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06-10-2008, 10:59 AM
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| Resident Paranoid Extremist  | If she is the girl of your dreams why is she with another guy? Younger girls can mistake cockiness and general prickiness as confidence. They can find attitude sexy and attractive. You'll find as they get older they get better at discerning bad attributes from good in men. However if you're justbeing a pushover that's your problem. If you're into her announce it somehow. You can't expect her to respond to an interest that's never expressed. And then, if she still takes a pass, the world abounds in women of all types, including her's. Quote:
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06-10-2008, 11:01 AM
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| I WANT ESSENTIALS! | PUA! just look that up and its basically about what you guys are talking about. You have to show her that your the prize in her eyes. And that you are the dominant male in the group. You dont have to be a jerk ethier. You have to have them chasing you and wanting you. The first 10 min you talk to a girl she will already know if she would **** you or not. then if she does it will usually take around 3 hrs of talking, texting, dancing or wutknot before she feels confortable to have sex wit you. "two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds." Henry Rollins |
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06-10-2008, 11:04 AM
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| Dave Board Sponsor  | nice guys dont finish last..... boring guys do i used to be a nice guy.. then i realized i was making mistakes by trying to be too nice and proper... i was trying to show my value to a woman by being nice... i SHOULD have been showing my value by being interesting. find something interesting about yourself that sets you apart from the 10000 other guys she meets everyday. What is it that makes you different from the rest of them. talk about her and then introduce queues about you. find some common ground. ive always held true to being a nice guy... but i came out of my shy shell and will lead a conversation with a girl rather than waiting for her move. the best thing I ever learned: If you can make a girl laugh.... shes yours. the jerk only usually wins bc the other guys stand down to him.. making him look dominant. Dave (at) paloaltolabs . com PAL on MySpace Palo AltoLabs @ NUTRAPLANET..check out our online store!! Sorry, No FREE samples at this time. |
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06-10-2008, 11:07 AM
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| I WANT ESSENTIALS! | http://www.amazon.com/Game-Penetrati.../dp/0060554738 im telling you man..all these things we are talking about you can find in this book. Trust me it will change the way you think. if you want more info just pm me. "two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds." Henry Rollins |
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06-10-2008, 11:08 AM
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| CEL Rep (Z's lacky) Board Sponsor | Quote:
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