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Squeaks4ver · 06-11-2008, 09:07 AM

So we all agree.. You might as well be yourself. because if you are going to act like someone else.. in the end of the day.. all you will have.. is yourself... better get use to it!

Nabisco · 06-11-2008, 09:14 AM

I'm not saying not to be yourself. But some people make it harder on themselves unnecessarily. There is nothing wrong with changing your mannerisms, attitude, or sociability for the better. Just because you grow as a person (i.e. change to a degree), doesn't make you "not yourself".

I think too many people misconstrue "be yourself", as continue doing everything you're currently doing. Becoming a more sociable, confident, fun person is not a bad thing as long as you're not compromising your morals. Break out of the shell and try new things, you'll be amazed at what happens. (Girls sold separately)

Squeaks4ver · 06-11-2008, 09:19 AM

To that I agree. To better ones self is very important. But most boys ( and girls) only know how to do things in extremes. IE. i hate being too nice... so now.. i am going to be mean grrrrrrrrrr.. and then oh crud.. mean doesn't work... i am going to be nice... DAMN why did I get cheated on and used... or.. why wont she look at me waaaaaaaaaaaa lol

on that note.. my 15 min of free time is over. time to shower all this pool water off me...

ReaperX · 06-11-2008, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Squeaks4ver

To that I agree. To better ones self is very important. But most boys ( and girls) only know how to do things in extremes. IE. i hate being too nice... so now.. i am going to be mean grrrrrrrrrr.. and then oh crud.. mean doesn't work... i am going to be nice... DAMN why did I get cheated on and used... or.. why wont she look at me waaaaaaaaaaaa lol

on that note.. my 15 min of free time is over. time to shower all this pool water off me...

Lauren Conrad didn't return my call last night, so yeah Squeaks works. I guess I'll hit it.

**Iron Warrior** · 06-11-2008, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Squeaks4ver

So we all agree.. You might as well be yourself. because if you are going to act like someone else.. in the end of the day.. all you will have.. is yourself... better get use to it!

I'll agree this to a certain extent. There are guys I know who will just not make simple modifications that would help them out. A good friend of mine dresses like a bum and shaves every 3-4 days. Sometimes he looks like a brand new homeless person with his appearance. I tell him to buy nicer clothes and look like a eligible bachelor but he'll say some stupid a$$ thing along the lines of "This is how I am and if they don't like it then too bad". It's almost to the point where I'm embarassed to be seen in public with the guy based on his look although he's a cool guy and one of the funniest people I know.

**Iron Warrior** · 06-11-2008, 11:27 AM

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Oh.

And TO is a saint. I dont know what the 9ers and eagles' problems were. Oh, and the ravens...

They just weren't making the proper accomodation, didn't you know that LOL ? BTW, what's wrong with Jeff Garcia and Donovan McNabb ? Don't those scrubs know that they'd be crap if it wasn't for TO LOL ? Damn, poor TO always gets the short end of the stick

EasyEJL · 06-11-2008, 11:36 AM

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Thats why I think the divorce rate is so high. Most people get involved with someone not being who they really are. Then who they are comes out, and it drives the two apart.

I really enjoy seeing two people who seem to genuinely fit well together being who they are. I think you can usually tell when you see those people.

I met my wife in may 95, started dating in june, got engaged in july, married in august, pregnant in september. We still hold hands when we walk in public, and have had people make fun of us for kissing in public too

The Batman · 06-11-2008, 12:18 PM

One more thing you have to remember is that picking up girls(and finding ones that you could have a relationship with,) is a numbers game.
You are gonna strike out most of the time, and most people you date you will find you are not compatible with in the long term.
You just have to keep getting out there and meeting people and eventually you are going to get lucky.

Be outgoing, interesting, and funny and you will get girls. Combined with the fact that most people on this forum are in good to very good shape and it really isn't that difficult.

Maverick60 · 06-11-2008, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Squeaks4ver

So we all agree.. You might as well be yourself. because if you are going to act like someone else.. in the end of the day.. all you will have.. is yourself... better get use to it!

Depending on what you want out of life. In the big picture, sure, that is going to hold true. But Im still more interested in having a good time, Ill occasionally step out of my natural form if I can benefit for a short period of time. I like to think of it as being flexible and diverse in who I am.

But when it comes time for that one girl, Ill know to be true to myself.

Maverick60 · 06-11-2008, 06:54 PM

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I met my wife in may 95, started dating in june, got engaged in july, married in august, pregnant in september. We still hold hands when we walk in public, and have had people make fun of us for kissing in public too

Thats impressive Easy.

**DreamOfWeight** · 06-12-2008, 01:02 PM

EDIT: by the way, im pertty sure this is real...

**RenegadeRows** · 06-12-2008, 01:48 PM

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I met my wife in may 95, started dating in june, got engaged in july, married in august, pregnant in september.

Had the baby in October? Should've kept it going and see who caught on.

**RenegadeRows** · 06-12-2008, 01:50 PM

Yes I can meet girls quite easily, it's once I find one I like that I wanna keep her around. I just met this girl in May, and we've been 'dating' since then, and today she told me she doesn't want a relationship with anyone, not to take it personally.

DAMN! The one I want doesn't want me, and the ones who scare me keep calling.

**DreamOfWeight** · 06-12-2008, 01:52 PM

could it be the scary ones know they cant have u, so they try harder?? yet the one you want, can have u so, she she stops trying??

**RenegadeRows** · 06-12-2008, 01:57 PM

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could it be the scary ones know they cant have u, so they try harder?? yet the one you want, can have u so, she she stops trying??

Possibly. But, now that she told me that, she can't have me...................so will she come back after a period of time that I ignore her??? Tune in next week....