After alot of debate, I decided to break up with my girlfriend today. I am 27 yrs old and definitely not ready to settle down. I tried to let her off easy, but she took it very hard. I do think I made the right decision, but man I feel like sh*t. The last thing I wanted to do was hurt her. I think if we would have stayed together it would be worse later, but who knows. I do love her, but I am not really very attracted to her. How does one deal with that? Anyway, go ahead, tell me I did the right thing or tell me I'm an a$$hole, I just had to get that off my chest. The gym and this forum are kinda like a twisted therapy for me.