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03-04-2008, 07:53 PM
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| Registered User  | gf and her ex whats up everyone, a lil bout me..im 18 my girls 18. we have been going out for about a year and a half. she has never cheated on me and visa versa. so to the point... her ex when we have been going out for about a few months decides to tell my girl how he misses her and how he wants to hook up with her blah blah blah....and i was pretty damn pissed bout that but i let that one fly..but a year and few months later , the ex decides to pull that again and tells my girl how hot she is how he wants to hook up ect. and the worst part he told her not to tell me and she almost didnt b/c she knows i would kill him if i found out. now to the question.....what the heck should i do? let it fly? curb stomp his ass ? be mad at my girl? any help is wanted plz |
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03-04-2008, 07:59 PM
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| Registered User   | As an older bro who has seen, been and done it all, I would talk to your girl and see how she feels about this guy. If she has never given you a reason to distrust her then don't. Also, jealousy isn't a sign of love, it's a sign of insecurity! It's not your girls fault this guy is still hot for her. You can turn this into a positivr if you handle it right. I would politley tell the guy to leave your girlfriend alone and if he doesn't then monkey stomp him. LOL God doesn't call the equipped, He equips the called! Stats: 6'1 / 250lbs / 16-17% BF and dropping Goal: 240lbs / 11-12% BF |
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03-04-2008, 08:06 PM
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| Gold Member  | Sounds like your girl is seeking to get a rise out of you. Certain things are better left between friends. She could tell her girlfriends that stuff not you. You don't go telling her about any hotties that try hitting on you, do you? You only do that if you want the other to get jealous, protective, or appreciative that they are with you. What's the big deal? If she is hot there are probably lots of guys that want to get with her. Be happy. Quote:
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03-04-2008, 08:10 PM
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| Registered User | thanks 4 the reply man, but im not insecure on the fact she will cheat on me or w/e but the idea of guys THINKING they could mack on her look at her ect is what pisses me off . but heres a lil thing that happened today..so today she wears some **** i didnt really like ( lil on the skanky side) so i get a lil pissed, i say this and that blah blah... and i just asked her why she wear that stuff and her response was that she wanted to know for her self that she still could get guys ....im like uhhh wtf ? and then a little later the ex thing happenes Last edited by fordtech : 03-04-2008 at 08:14 PM. Reason: typo |
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03-04-2008, 08:17 PM
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| Registered User | I see where you are coming from but, chicks like to know they are still hot and can make the guys look. There was an old song that said, "If you're in love with a beautiful woman, you gotta watch your friends!" If guys are checking her out just be proud and know she is with you. I love it when Guys check out my wife. Let's me know I got a hottie!!! God doesn't call the equipped, He equips the called! Stats: 6'1 / 250lbs / 16-17% BF and dropping Goal: 240lbs / 11-12% BF |
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03-04-2008, 08:19 PM
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| Banned | You can dump her now,or dump/get dumped later,and be thinking man we should of broke up a long time ago.Thats me looking in from the outside with no feelings what so ever as you and she have.What i mean is sometimes you get blinded by"love"or lust and can't see what's right in your face.this just doesn't sound like a healthy commited relationship.Give Lex and Terry a call if you can get through  |
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03-04-2008, 08:20 PM
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03-04-2008, 08:23 PM
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| Registered User | thanks for all the input guys i agree with all of yall and it helped alot |
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03-04-2008, 08:23 PM
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| yo quiero pantalones anabolizantes   | Quote:
For the record, I'm in a relationship but I still like to think I can score some mega-hotties. Makes me feel good about myself, that may be part of what it is, just her desire for self-esteem/confidence. I can say for sure that on occasion, people just thinking that their appearance is poor (even if it's not) can make someone feel like crap.. Take this into account as well. "But by God's grace I am what I am, and His grace toward me was not ineffective." -1 Corinthians 15:10a I'm not gold anymore so I can't post links..  | |
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03-04-2008, 08:33 PM
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| Gate Keeper Board Moderator  | As hard as it would be I would just ignore it and not give it a second thought. If she see's that you could care less and are more concerned with important things but keeps shoving this crap in your face then say "hey if you like this guy go have fun but let me know so I can make other plans tonight"  Her jaw will drop as you say this without a care in the world |
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03-04-2008, 08:36 PM
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| Banned | Hopefully her jaw won't drop while on her knees searching for someone who "cares"  |
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03-04-2008, 08:36 PM
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03-04-2008, 10:51 PM
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| Nevernude Rep  | Quote:
Member: Blitzkrieg Ninja Brigade - Drinking For Science "Alright, uh.. later dudes. S you in your A's, don't where a C, and J all over your B's." - Charlie Kelly (IASIP) Hurley is logging LG's pSARM! | |
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03-04-2008, 10:57 PM
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| Taking a break... | Dude, you're 18 - Drop the drama and find another monthly treat. Enjoy being young! Oh, and you may want to watch what you write, "kill him," never know what may happen down the line. |
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03-04-2008, 11:04 PM
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03-04-2008, 11:07 PM
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03-04-2008, 11:09 PM
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| Nevernude Rep | Lmao! Member: Blitzkrieg Ninja Brigade - Drinking For Science "Alright, uh.. later dudes. S you in your A's, don't where a C, and J all over your B's." - Charlie Kelly (IASIP) Hurley is logging LG's pSARM! |
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