Do you have any make or break things when it comes to dating ?

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  1. Do you have any make or break things when it comes to dating ?


    When it comes to dating do you have any things about the person in general that will 'make or break' the potential to be with someone ? This excludes fat people, because we all know no one likes obese people and that they are evil so this is a given.

    Some things in general for me are:

    1. Red hair
    2. Lots of freckles
    3. Smoking
    4. Extremely into politics

    p.s. Or dirty women. I would assume this is as given as well


  2. ive been wanting a red head for a while now.
    I dont like:

    psychos
    compulsive liars
    nasty feet
    dirty chicks in general
    cant handle the D
    oh and probably number 1 on my list.....messed up grills, looking like cheetos or just dagger like.....like it would be mad dangerous to explore.
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  3. piston-


    A lot of that stuff is kinda a given, esp dirty women. I'm not saying that there are not men who don't 'prefer' dirty women, but I think this is a given.

  4. 1. Smoking........unless its the blue vein cigar
    2. Don't really like red heads.
    3. Poor sense of humour. If a girl just straight up doesnt laugh at say 50% of my jokes then things wont work out in the long run. Actually its probably one of the most important things for me because i honestly think it says a lot about a person. If she sits there watching Superbad and doesn't laugh then see ya later.
    4. No interest in fitness what so ever.
    5. Recent ex bf's that are still on the scene.
    6. Doesn't eat cos she thinks i'll think she is fat.

  5. yeah i guess youre right reaper.

    if i cant make her laugh then its not happening.
    doesnt enjoy eating
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  6. Actually, I completely forgot about 'not opening up and holding back.'

    That's a big one.

  7. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    1.) Awkwardness
    Never thought of that Gixx but your right. I think if you don't just hit the ground running with conversation then it probably wont work.

  8. i hate when a chick is too easy. believe it or not.

  9. 1) Smoking - I'll never make out with an ashtray again
    2) Awkwardness/lack of personality
    3) Too easy - if she sleeps with me on the 1st or 2nd date, I won't call her back. I lose all respect for her as a dating object.
    4) Heavy drinker - I dated one of those and it leads to more problems than its worth.

  10. 1. Smoking
    2. Intentionally unhealthy
    3. Heavy drinker
    4. Bad credit/big spender
    5. No ability to have an in depth conversation
    6. Falls too quickly, too hard.
    7. Too jealous (a little is good)

  11. Wow. Personally, freckles are a HUGE turn on for me. I actually don't like it when a lot of girls put on concealer (makeup) because it covers their freckles up. Perhaps, I'm just weird (is that a surprise?). My theory is, just like the "beauty mark" you see on Marilyn Monroe and Cindy Crawford, they give a slight imperfection to the face which helps guage how hawt the rest of it is.


    To add to your list, High Maintenance Girls. If she's already my girl, looks have gotten her prettymuch all they can do, and now I want to go out to the damn park (or other destination). What can she possibly be doing for 45 minutes to get ready? Who's she trying to impress? I've already seen what she looks like at 5:00 in the morning, and I'm still here, aren't I?

  12. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    Wow. Personally, freckles are a HUGE turn on for me. I actually don't like it when a lot of girls put on concealer (makeup) because it covers their freckles up. Perhaps, I'm just weird (is that a surprise?). My theory is, just like the "beauty mark" you see on Marilyn Monroe and Cindy Crawford, they give a slight imperfection to the face which helps guage how hawt the rest of it is.


    To add to your list, High Maintenance Girls. If she's already my girl, looks have gotten her prettymuch all they can do, and now I want to go out to the damn park (or other destination). What can she possibly be doing for 45 minutes to get ready? Who's she trying to impress? I've already seen what she looks like at 5:00 in the morning, and I'm still here, aren't I?

    IMHO high maintenance/jealous girls are never EVER worth the trouble they will cause you.

  13. 1. Smoking
    2. Excessive drinking
    3. Drug use
    4. Slutty
    5. Stupid
    6. Liar
    7. Has cheated in the past
    8. Lazy
    9. Bad credit

    I believe that previous action is the best predictor of future action.

  14. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    She isn't just sleeping with you, you are sleeping with her too. You know that right? So in reality, you're being easy too.
    LMFAO

    My dad has a cousin that was over at our house when I was a kid, and he was going on about this girl he thought was a total slut. Apparently she sucked him off on their 1st-5th dates, and he didn't think he wanted to be with a girl like that. He wanted a girl with morals.

    Even at 8 years old I had this WTF look on my face.

  15. 1. No Sense Of Humor
    2. Dumb(i Like Inteligent Conversation)
    3.i Agree With Gixx If Its Too Easy It Definitly Kills The Desire To Persue.
    4.feet- I Dont Really Notice This But A Couple Times It Has Creeped Me Out
    5.hairy Arms
    6.girls That Are Caught Up In The Scene (l.a./o.c Types)
    7.to Much Make Up.
    8.ex Boyfriend Problems- Been There Done That And Never Again
    9.sneaky Girls
    10.someone Who Has Dated Any Of Your Friends...

  16. Smoking definitely
    Gossipy/too judgmental
    Lacks confidence
    Too jealous
    Compulsive Liar or Spender
    Anti-violent hippie

    Maybe I am just too picky...
    M.Ed. Ex Phys


  17. Racist/Homophobic/Over-Judgemental
    If she saw a post of ReaperX and thought he had a sense of humour.

    Those are the only two deal breakers for me. The first one is obvious. I'm pretty accepting of others and my gf must be as well. And the second one just because that dude has the worst sense of humor on here, and if a girl had the same kind I'd be out.

    Everything else is judged pretty much on an ad hoc basis.

  18. Quote Originally Posted by Mulletsoldier View Post
    Racist/Homophobic/Over-Judgemental
    If she saw a post of ReaperX and thought he had a sense of humour.

    Those are the only two deal breakers for me. The first one is obvious. I'm pretty accepting of others and my gf must be as well. And the second one just because that dude has the worst sense of humor on here, and if a girl had the same kind I'd be out.

    Everything else is judged pretty much on an ad hoc basis.
    My humor is subjective and, I agree it is not for everyone. For example, a lot people think Will Ferrell acting like a 40 yr old with Down Syndrome on the big screen is funny, I do not happen to fall into this category.

  19. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    She isn't just sleeping with you, you are sleeping with her too. You know that right? So in reality, you're being easy too.
    No I didn't even grasp that concept, in fact you've opened my eyes to a bright new world.

    If a girl sleeps with me as easily as that I'm not going to date her. If I'm not dating anyone else however, I'll keep her around for that singular fact.

  20. Quote Originally Posted by Australian made View Post
    1. Smoking........unless its the blue vein cigar
    LMFAO

  21. Quote Originally Posted by ReaperX View Post
    My humor is subjective and, I agree it is not for everyone. For example, a lot people think Will Ferrell acting like a 40 yr old with Down Syndrome on the big screen is funny, I do not happen to fall into this category.
    Well I am sure in between rousing sessions of WOW and bible Monopoly your friends and yourself reminisce about your 'totally unique sense of humor that like, nobody gets'.

    I mean, you had a weird picture of Britney as your avy, that's really novel and unique. Well, it's about as novel and unique as an MJ joke, but it was funny. Well, it wasn't so much funny as monotonous and overplayed. But, it was definitely unique though. Well, I had seen somebody on a different board with the same one, so it wasn't so much unique. It was definitely something though.

  22. Quote Originally Posted by Mulletsoldier View Post
    Well I am sure in between rousing sessions of WOW and bible Monopoly your friends and yourself reminisce about your 'totally unique sense of humor that like, nobody gets'.

    I mean, you had a weird picture of Britney as your avy, that's really novel and unique. Well, it's about as novel and unique as an MJ joke, but it was funny. Well, it wasn't so much funny as monotonous and overplayed. But, it was definitely unique though. Well, I had seen somebody on a different board with the same one, so it wasn't so much unique. It was definitely something though.
    Don't confuse humor with entertainment. They can 'indeed' be seperated.

  23. Quote Originally Posted by ReaperX View Post
    Don't confuse humor with entertainment. They can 'indeed' be seperated.
    I don't. I simply know what you do is neither.





    Oh, and touching Jayhawkk. That's another one for me.

  24. Quote Originally Posted by Mulletsoldier View Post
    I don't. I simply know what you do is neither.





    Oh, and touching Jayhawkk. That's another one for me.
    I was expecting another pseudo philosophical or some type of esoteric explanation instead, but I guess that works too.

  25. Gary Coleman is BOTH humorous and entertaining. Argue that, fellows.

  26. Quote Originally Posted by Rodja View Post
    Smoking definitely
    Gossipy/too judgmental
    Lacks confidence
    Too jealous
    Compulsive Liar or Spender
    Anti-violent hippie

    Maybe I am just too picky...
    OMG, that's a good one (bolded), and as you can see by the large amount of text following, it struck a nerve with me. The last girl I was with was really judgemental of people, I mean to the point where she tried to hold conversations with me about how other people were "inferior and ignorant" (comparing the flaws of others to her opinion of herself). Jeez, if it weren't for the fact that I was her man at the time, I woulda knocked that ass off cloud nine faster than [place dirty joke featuring Gixxer, Jomi822, a goat, and Tripdog's mother here].

  27. Shallow, judgemental.

  28. Quote Originally Posted by Beau View Post
    LMFAO
    now i get it....

  29. the girl ive been with for a while is a heavy drinker and jealous.....no wonder we have been having so much problems....It always happens when she or i am drunk. Not to mention i have ALOT of girlfriends so im getting the clue that it isnt going to work so well (actually ive thought this for a while). Sometimes its hard to move on once you have been intimate with someone many times....at least for me it is.
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