I was talking to someone who recently broke up with their g/f. This is a timeless question that i realize can go both ways. In your experience with previous relationships have you or have you NOT stayed friends with your ex's ?
I take that as a 'not friends with ex.'My ex is a stupid c*nt b*tch!!!!!!!!:aargh::aargh::aargh::aargh:
That would be correct......perhaps the biggest hoe on the planet!!!.......thanks reaper now i'm all pissed off.....I take that as a 'not friends with ex.'
Usually you bang a few more times,and then get heated when you see eachother with someone else. She dam near flipped when she saw me at the beach with another chick....HAHAHAHA fukc the ex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I never really saw how ppl can be friends with ex's in general, even if it was not ended on bad terms.
Assuming you got to the point where you really cared about someone and loved them, how do you take a step down to 'just being a friend' ?
hahaha, I think those were the words I was looking for.:thumbsup:i'd love to stab my ex in the throat with a dull steel rod...
other than that, its OK.
Me too.My ex is a stupid c*nt b*tch!!!!!!!!:aargh::aargh::aargh::aargh:
No problem, Satan loves you 'bro'.Tanks 4 dat mullet.
What was she when she was your girlfriend?My ex is a stupid c*nt b*tch!!!!!!!!:aargh::aargh::aargh::aargh:
Actually, I just broke up with my girl 2 weeks ago and we are still friends. Still talk all the time..we have every intention of getting back together, just its not a good time for us to be together right now..so I don't know if this falls under the same category
A stupid cvnt, b!tch girlfriend. lol.What was she when she was your girlfriend?
My fukc toyWhat was she when she was your girlfriend?
hahahaha that too!!A stupid cvnt, b!tch girlfriend. lol.
More complicated. lol. Ummmm she's with a guy in Boston. I'm in Cali. We talk about getting back together. When we see each other we hold hands, touch, massage, etc. Last year we did a few things...at the dude's house. The guy is a total douche. And I'm not just saying that because he's with my ex. He really is. We're great together and we never argue. I still can't understand why she broke up with me. Anyway, yeah, that's my story.Kinda like a booty call that you actually have feelings for :think:
I mostly agree with this. I have some that I get along with if we see each other but we don't call each other to talk.Plutonic relationships can exist posthumously of a relationship, in and of themselves. However, the new partner's perception of this relationship is the determinant factor in its survival. There are not too many individuals, both male and female, who are secure enough in themselves to 'allow' such friendships to prosper. Theoretically they can occur; in practicality, however, no.
Yeah. I have many ex-gfs whom I consider a 'friend', but we do not stay in contact. I think it's a respect thing for your partner as well.I mostly agree with this. I have some that I get along with if we see each other but we don't call each other to talk.
Similar situation for me. Time will tell if the hole "friends" idea will work out.Actually, I just broke up with my girl 2 weeks ago and we are still friends. Still talk all the time..we have every intention of getting back together, just its not a good time for us to be together right now..so I don't know if this falls under the same category
Most definitely, and your contemporary situation can be attributed to more than likely three predominant factors; your currents wife's security; your own wisdom; your ex-wife's security and appropriate handling of the situation. Unfortunately, different rubrics must be used when judging the actions of a 22 and 42 year old woman (or man, for that matter) as they are quite different entities. I harbor no ill-will towards any of my former partners, however, the determinant decision is not mine and mine alone (speaking both in specifics and generalizing for people my age).My ex-wife and mother of my two oldest children is one of my best friends and is truly a sole mate. Next to my wife and mother she is the very next most important woman in my life. At times she rivals them because she shares an understanding of me in intimate parts of my life that neither my wife or mother have knowledge of. I have greater love, loyalty, respect and affection for her today than I ever had the capacity for at 22 years old.
:hammer::goodpost::clap2::clap2:Thinking about my ex makes me wanna vomit. Not because shes unattractive in any way, its just the thought of so much time/effort/money/stress/etc... wasted on a relationship that went nowhere makes feel sorta used... we're not buddies
Don't you own any responsibility in the wasted time, effort, money and stress in that relationship? Did someone hold a gun to your head that forced you to be involved with this girl? Why did you just not drop her, or even get involved with her in the first place if she was so ill suited for you and your standards?Thinking about my ex makes me wanna vomit. Not because shes unattractive in any way, its just the thought of so much time/effort/money/stress/etc... wasted on a relationship that went nowhere makes feel sorta used... we're not buddies
Well said, B.:clap2:Don't you own any responsibility in the wasted time, effort, money and stress in that relationship? Did someone hold a gun to your head that forced you to be involved with this girl? Why did you just not drop her, or even get involved with her in the first place if she was so ill suited for you and your standards?
I didn't say it was her fault that all of that happened, were that the case I would have said "SHE wasted my time/effort/money/stress/etc..." I felt used only because nothing came of it after all of that work. Kind of like working out with no results, even though you tried really hard and put a lot of effort into it. You USE a lot of energy and time (2 years), and without results, you'd probably be disappointed. I don't think that is too unusual - maybe I'm wrong.Don't you own any responsibility in the wasted time, effort, money and stress in that relationship? Did someone hold a gun to your head that forced you to be involved with this girl? Why did you just not drop her, or even get involved with her in the first place if she was so ill suited for you and your standards?
Haha. Want to do my dirty work? The guy is like 5'4", 160 pounds maybe. lol. I always make fun of how my ex was with me and is now, for whatever reason, with a little twerp like this guy. She just laughs it off.Boston eh? I reside in boston. Any idea where this guy lives? :twisted:
hahaha oh dam......let her be then....lolHaha. Want to do my dirty work? The guy is like 5'4", 160 pounds maybe. lol. I always make fun of how my ex was with me and is now, for whatever reason, with a little twerp like this guy. She just laughs it off.
Thats real talk!Thinking about my ex makes me wanna vomit. Not because shes unattractive in any way, its just the thought of so much time/effort/money/stress/etc... wasted on a relationship that went nowhere makes feel sorta used... we're not buddies
hahaha oh dam......let her be than....lol
OH dam i agree with you all the way bro!!!!! Fukc them!!!!Rebounds are a b!tch. I told her, I tried warning her. Now she's with a guy she doesn't even know if she wants to be with. Your mistake woman.
hole friends??? tell us more :stick:Similar situation for me. Time will tell if the hole "friends" idea will work out.
I love HOLE friends... those are the best.hole friends??? tell us more :stick:
LMAO!!!!hole friends??? tell us more :stick:
The term used sort of implies that someone took advantage of you or misused you. Maybe, instead, you should consider that YOU misappropriated YOUR resources into a fruitless investment.I didn't say it was her fault that all of that happened, were that the case I would have said "SHE wasted my time/effort/money/stress/etc..." I felt used only because nothing came of it after all of that work. Kind of like working out with no results, even though you tried really hard and put a lot of effort into it. You USE a lot of energy and time (2 years), and without results, you'd probably be disappointed. I don't think that is too unusual - maybe I'm wrong.
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