Acceptable place for a 'first date' (if you even want to call it that)

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  1. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    well what if he gets the girl to get on all fours and put shoes on her feet and hands. would that work as a good sheep substitute you think?
    what if she only had shoes on her hands?
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2


  2. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    you can't like the way he thinks because I already said I liked the way he thinks in another thread
    Hey Gixxer, I told you not to get jealous like my ex's I got plenty of sausage for everyone
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  3. good thinkin mr.motorbike thingie..........*now where is my old goat costume*
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  4. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    thanks mr sideways guy in the mirror!
    hahaha what a homo thats a horrible pic of u trip compared to the bust a nut other ones (nohomo) :P

  5. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    what i'm curious about is how long it took him to get that pic right/
    fukc you dirtbike,so what if it took me 2 hours and exstensive editing........
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2
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  6. Quote Originally Posted by Iron Warrior View Post
    Sinner, don't fall into the "he's just a good friend" category. Fall into the "he was a punk but he banged me hardcore" category. If this chick is into sports the you should take her to a park and play some hoops. I guarantee she'll back that a$$ up in the low post
    .......maybe if she played lacrosse. I'm all about rollin' the cage and shootin' my balls.

    IDK, maybe it's just sinner-style, but I don't like it when girls give too much up front. (1) It defeats any sort of challenge (2) It leads to a relationship built too much around sex, and that sort of relationship will ALWAYS fail.

    I'm kinda glad nothing escalated. I live 3 hours away. I'd rather be able to live my wild college life without feeling tied down to a girl so far away (I've been down that path before and it SUCKS).

    The point of this thread was because I grew up following my father's dating advice, and I'm starting to think it's terrible advice. Here's what he wanted me to do:

    Pick her up in his coupe convertable, and take her to a nice restaurant.

    F*CK THAT!!! That just screams out "Bill Whoring" (Bill Whoring = the idealistic practice pressuring a girl to put out by the expense of the date).

  7. Take her to a gun range, its why I usually do for a first date, then take her out to eat.

    Original as hell.

  8. Quote Originally Posted by Grant View Post
    Take her to a gun range, its why I usually do for a first date, then take her out to eat.

    Original as hell.
    thats why there is never a second date grant.......
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  9. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    .......maybe if she played lacrosse. I'm all about rollin' the cage and shootin' my balls.

    IDK, maybe it's just sinner-style, but I don't like it when girls give too much up front. (1) It defeats any sort of challenge (2) It leads to a relationship built too much around sex, and that sort of relationship will ALWAYS fail.

    I'm kinda glad nothing escalated. I live 3 hours away. I'd rather be able to live my wild college life without feeling tied down to a girl so far away (I've been down that path before and it SUCKS).

    The point of this thread was because I grew up following my father's dating advice, and I'm starting to think it's terrible advice. Here's what he wanted me to do:

    Pick her up in his coupe convertable, and take her to a nice restaurant.

    F*CK THAT!!! That just screams out "Bill Whoring" (Bill Whoring = the idealistic practice pressuring a girl to put out by the expense of the date).
    I have to admit you seem like a great guy. Definitely have a good head on your shoulders. Sounds like your choice was a good one.

  10. read the new one about sinners date Tripdog's Top Ten Lists
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  11. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    I don't think that "bill whoring" is true. Bill whoring happens when the guy starts putting moves on the girl with the mentality of "she won't turn me down because I just paid her way." So if you don't show any sexual interest in her it will become a good thing in that she will know you did it because you wanted to, not because you wanted to get some. I take my girl out all the time, pay her way for everything...I don't do it to get laid.
    yeah, but flaunting it like that just screams out "I'm trying to get in your pants". And to be honest, that's not an objective on the first date.

  12. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    .......maybe if she played lacrosse. I'm all about rollin' the cage and shootin' my balls.

    IDK, maybe it's just sinner-style, but I don't like it when girls give too much up front. (1) It defeats any sort of challenge (2) It leads to a relationship built too much around sex, and that sort of relationship will ALWAYS fail.

    I'm kinda glad nothing escalated. I live 3 hours away. I'd rather be able to live my wild college life without feeling tied down to a girl so far away (I've been down that path before and it SUCKS).

    The point of this thread was because I grew up following my father's dating advice, and I'm starting to think it's terrible advice. Here's what he wanted me to do:

    Pick her up in his coupe convertable, and take her to a nice restaurant.

    F*CK THAT!!! That just screams out "Bill Whoring" (Bill Whoring = the idealistic practice pressuring a girl to put out by the expense of the date).
    To each their own but Iron style has worked for me, maybe I'll incorporate a little sinner style without the goat aspect I find that a sporting activity naturally creates more interaction for me and that's how someone will learn more about me and vice versa.

    You're right about the "Bill Whoring" (good term, I'll steal it from you ) it makes chicks put you in the same category as most other guys they've dated or been with and that's usually a bad thing IMO.

    I think booty is something you earn if you're a real man, not something you buy . . . unless you're into prostitutes/escorts LOL. And if the chick just wants someone to show her affection by taking her out to dinner then she's not someone I would personally want to be with.

    No offense but it seems (from what you said and I what interpreted) like your dad's advice is to put the pu$$y on a pedestal and that takes a while when you use that approach IF you're lucky. Everyone eventually gets lucky and they think this is the approach that worked for them. My best friend said it best when he said "Guys with no game or charm need to take ladies out to dinner but those who learn how to create attraction don't need it"

  13. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    yeah, but flaunting it like that just screams out "I'm trying to get in your pants". And to be honest, that's not an objective on the first date.
    to me, it doesn't appear that way. it just appears as if the guy is "trying to hard", like hes kind of desperate. as the relationship develops, a lot of effort appears "cute", "sweet" etc... but at the first meeting or the beginnings its "not so cute".


    plus, girls get used to being spoiled in the beginning and wonder what happened to all that supreme treatment in the beginning. makes things not so special.

    i agree with you mostly though its okay to flaunt, just dont over do it

  14. Iron, I agree with your advice. Something tells me you know what you're talking about. You've read some books on the matter? (if not, bravo for figuring it out on your own).

    Sinner, the best "trick" that I use is to steal the girl's game. If you are playing hard to get, she can't do the same thing. Make fun of her, roll your eyes at her, and interpret just about everything she says as her coming on to you. Bump into her to initiate contact within 30 seconds of meeting... but BLAME her for groping you and now you've opened the door for more physical contact. Get it?

  15. Quote Originally Posted by Iron Warrior View Post
    To each their own but Iron style has worked for me, maybe I'll incorporate a little sinner style without the goat aspect I find that a sporting activity naturally creates more interaction for me and that's how someone will learn more about me and vice versa.

    You're right about the "Bill Whoring" (good term, I'll steal it from you ) it makes chicks put you in the same category as most other guys they've dated or been with and that's usually a bad thing IMO.

    I think booty is something you earn if you're a real man, not something you buy . . . unless you're into prostitutes/escorts LOL. And if the chick just wants someone to show her affection by taking her out to dinner then she's not someone I would personally want to be with.

    No offense but it seems (from what you said and I what interpreted) like your dad's advice is to put the pu$$y on a pedestal and that takes a while when you use that approach IF you're lucky. Everyone eventually gets lucky and they think this is the approach that worked for them. My best friend said it best when he said "Guys with no game or charm need to take ladies out to dinner but those who learn how to create attraction don't need it"
    I like your idea of it being a sporting activity. I'll have to try that next time I'm taking a girl out for the first time. (this one...not so much into sports)

    No offense taken, I sometimes wonder how he ever bagged my mother with that mentality. Either times have changed or she took everything like Gimpy would, but it convinced him that's "how to do it".

  16. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    I like your idea of it being a sporting activity. I'll have to try that next time I'm taking a girl out for the first time. (this one...not so much into sports)

    No offense taken, I sometimes wonder how he ever bagged my mother with that mentality. Either times have changed or she took everything like Gimpy would, but it convinced him that's "how to do it".
    No offense but maybe your dad got lucky so props to him I just don't like to rely on luck

  17. Quote Originally Posted by celc5 View Post
    Iron, I agree with your advice. Something tells me you know what you're talking about. You've read some books on the matter? (if not, bravo for figuring it out on your own).

    Sinner, the best "trick" that I use is to steal the girl's game. If you are playing hard to get, she can't do the same thing. Make fun of her, roll your eyes at her, and interpret just about everything she says as her coming on to you. Bump into her to initiate contact within 30 seconds of meeting... but BLAME her for groping you and now you've opened the door for more physical contact. Get it?
    I didn't read any books but my uncle is the ultimate ladies man. He's 41 but I hung out with him in clubs quite a bit and I learned mostly everything from him. I also learned the hard way from my mistakes as a teenager. I started doing the opposite of everything I used to do and I became more successful. I also got bigger and leaner so maybe that had a lot to with it as well

  18. Quote Originally Posted by Iron Warrior View Post
    I started doing the opposite of everything I used to do and I became more successful
    How true. It's a counter-intuitive game for sure! I've done some reading but NOTHING compares to actually watching someone who knows the game at work. I learned from 2 friends in grad school who I give most of the credit to.

    I bet your uncle taught you the 3 second rule, how to lean back, and how to send mixed signals. There's an over-the-shoulder opening technique that I use, and it doesn't matter what your line is. The girl leans into you and sometimes even follows you no matter what you say.

    I also don't answer ANY questions about my job, family, or education and they eat it up. You can create a sense of mystery and intrigue WITHOUT being an a-hole (which I think is sinner's goal if I'm reading correctly). Dude, you can be a lady's man and still be a perfect gentlemen at the same time.

  19. I think mentality has a lot to do with it.

    When I was younger, I used to go out with the main objective to show her a good time. Always felt like I had to prove something to her. This mentality only left me having a miserable time, and usually without a second date.

    Nowadays, I feel like I "don't gotta prove nuthin' to no one". I come in with the mentality that I know I can treat her better than any of the guys she's had before. If she's not interested, that's her problem. I'm not gonna let her prevent me from having a good time.

  20. celc you're right dude. My uncle had these rules for me.

    1. Never give a lady a direct answer to everything
    2. Never talk to her more than 5 minutes
    3. Pick on her as if she were your little brother

    I didn't know about the lean so I'll try that for good measure, thanks for the tip

  21. top 10 reasons sinner didn't get laid on that date

    10-the first thing he said when he saw her was "me so horney"
    9-the chick was really a dude and they did bang but he didnt tell us
    8-she kept catching him pick at his ass
    7-she realized he still shops in the boys department,and ran away laughing
    6-she refused to wear the goat costume..
    5-you have to spend more that 10 dollars on a chick to get some pune
    4-the drugs she was on wore off and she realized who she was actually with........then...you guessed it ran away screaming.
    3-sinner got sh*tfaced off half a beer and passed out
    2-cause he's gay
    1-he didnt listen to tripdog and take her to the adult video store


    for all those who didnt see it!
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  22. Quote Originally Posted by Iron Warrior View Post
    celc you're right dude. My uncle had these rules for me.

    1. Never give a lady a direct answer to everything
    2. Never talk to her more than 5 minutes
    3. Pick on her as if she were your little brother

    I didn't know about the lean so I'll try that for good measure, thanks for the tip
    Damm Iron, I was gonna put #3 on here tonight! I was gonna say act as if she's annoying you like your little sister.

    Ya, body language is key but comes across naturally with confidence as thesinner suggested. Most guys lean in, which is what thesinner's dad would tell him to do j/p dude. Leaning back insinuates disinterest and that you don't care what she thinks. For an attractive girl, this is different and intriguing because men usually lavish her with interest all day every day.

  23. First Off Bro This Chick Must Not Know Who You Are... If She Knew How Many Crowns You Had On Am....she Would Have F*cked You For Sure...some B*thces Just Dont Know.....hahaha...maybe You Should Get A Badge Or Something.... Just So Everyone Knows....

  24. Quote Originally Posted by BIGG DOGG View Post
    First Off Bro This Chick Must Not Know Who You Are... If She Knew How Many Crowns You Had On Am....she Would Have F*cked You For Sure...some B*thces Just Dont Know.....hahaha...maybe You Should Get A Badge Or Something.... Just So Everyone Knows....
    For every crown I obtain, my **** grows another 1/2". There's a reason my shorts go past the knee.

  25. Quote Originally Posted by BIGG DOGG View Post
    First Off Bro This Chick Must Not Know Who You Are... If She Knew How Many Crowns You Had On Am....she Would Have F*cked You For Sure...some B*thces Just Dont Know.....hahaha...maybe You Should Get A Badge Or Something.... Just So Everyone Knows....
    or a tee shirt that says "hey im cool...people on the internet gave me little crowns next to my name on AM"..........guarenteed pu*sy fo sho!!!!!!!!!!!
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  26. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    I think as soon as a guy gets muscle, hes considered a d*ck
    nycste will never have that problem i guess
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  27. Quote Originally Posted by TripDog View Post
    thats why there is never a second date grant.......


    You'd be surprised how well it works if you thought outside the box, have fun at the movies....

  28. Quote Originally Posted by Grant View Post
    You'd be surprised how well it works if you thought outside the box, have fun at the movies....
    maybe i do.....................maybe i do wana be a frenchfry!
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2
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