Acceptable place for a 'first date' (if you even want to call it that)

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  1. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    my webbed toes are none of your business.
    hahaha *wink,wink* got cha'
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2


  2. Yeah getting spanked on the ass with webbed toes might be a bit traumatic....
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  3. Sin,
    Coffee is a good idea.

    Let us know how it goes bro. This is tomorrow night? (Saturday)

  4. most of my first dates want to go to Chucky Cheese

  5. Quote Originally Posted by greenwing7 View Post
    most of my first dates want to go to Chucky Cheese
    sh*t ill go out with you if you take me there!!!!.....that place rocks
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2
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  6. Quote Originally Posted by jmh80 View Post
    Sin,
    Coffee is a good idea.

    Let us know how it goes bro. This is tomorrow night? (Saturday)
    It was earlier this evening.

    It went ok. We at least made for great conversation. I hadn't spoken to this girl in about 3-4 years. Turns out she is in the middle of getting divorce. That kinda took me by surprise, but it was great seeing her again anyhow, and we made plans to get together the next time I'm in town.

    Trip is gonna make fun of me for not getting any Tang, but whatever, he has threesomes with Gixxer and nycste.
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  7. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    It was earlier this evening.

    It went ok. We at least made for great conversation. I hadn't spoken to this girl in about 3-4 years. Turns out she is in the middle of getting divorce. That kinda took me by surprise, but it was great seeing her again anyhow, and we made plans to get together the next time I'm in town.

    Trip is gonna make fun of me for not getting any Tang, but whatever, he has threesomes with Gixxer and nycste.
    Sinner, don't fall into the "he's just a good friend" category. Fall into the "he was a punk but he banged me hardcore" category. If this chick is into sports the you should take her to a park and play some hoops. I guarantee she'll back that a$$ up in the low post

  8. Quote Originally Posted by Iron Warrior View Post
    Sinner, don't fall into the "he's just a good friend" category. Fall into the "he was a punk but he banged me hardcore" category. If this chick is into sports the you should take her to a park and play some hoops. I guarantee she'll back that a$$ up in the low post
    ...i like the way you think!
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  9. Quote Originally Posted by TripDog View Post
    ...i like the way you think!
    Great minds think alike I just don't want sinner to be the guy who ends up being every chick's "guy friend" because he needs to stay the hell away from sheep

  10. Quote Originally Posted by Iron Warrior View Post
    Great minds think alike I just don't want sinner to be the guy who ends up being every chick's "guy friend" because he needs to stay the hell away from sheep
    for some reason sin likes his meat with four legs and hoofs......i know i cant figure him out myself........but if you would rather bang the petting zoo than a chick wanting your hog.......then houson we have a problem!!!!!!!!!!!!
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  11. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    well what if he gets the girl to get on all fours and put shoes on her feet and hands. would that work as a good sheep substitute you think?
    what if she only had shoes on her hands?
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  12. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    you can't like the way he thinks because I already said I liked the way he thinks in another thread
    Hey Gixxer, I told you not to get jealous like my ex's I got plenty of sausage for everyone

  13. good thinkin mr.motorbike thingie..........*now where is my old goat costume*
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  14. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    thanks mr sideways guy in the mirror!
    hahaha what a homo thats a horrible pic of u trip compared to the bust a nut other ones (nohomo) :P

  15. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    what i'm curious about is how long it took him to get that pic right/
    fukc you dirtbike,so what if it took me 2 hours and exstensive editing........
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  16. Quote Originally Posted by Iron Warrior View Post
    Sinner, don't fall into the "he's just a good friend" category. Fall into the "he was a punk but he banged me hardcore" category. If this chick is into sports the you should take her to a park and play some hoops. I guarantee she'll back that a$$ up in the low post
    .......maybe if she played lacrosse. I'm all about rollin' the cage and shootin' my balls.

    IDK, maybe it's just sinner-style, but I don't like it when girls give too much up front. (1) It defeats any sort of challenge (2) It leads to a relationship built too much around sex, and that sort of relationship will ALWAYS fail.

    I'm kinda glad nothing escalated. I live 3 hours away. I'd rather be able to live my wild college life without feeling tied down to a girl so far away (I've been down that path before and it SUCKS).

    The point of this thread was because I grew up following my father's dating advice, and I'm starting to think it's terrible advice. Here's what he wanted me to do:

    Pick her up in his coupe convertable, and take her to a nice restaurant.

    F*CK THAT!!! That just screams out "Bill Whoring" (Bill Whoring = the idealistic practice pressuring a girl to put out by the expense of the date).
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  17. Take her to a gun range, its why I usually do for a first date, then take her out to eat.

    Original as hell.

  18. Quote Originally Posted by Grant View Post
    Take her to a gun range, its why I usually do for a first date, then take her out to eat.

    Original as hell.
    thats why there is never a second date grant.......
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  19. Quote Originally Posted by Grant View Post
    Take her to a gun range, its why I usually do for a first date, then take her out to eat.

    Original as hell.
    Gun Range? You must live in the same area I used to live during my co-op. Those guys love to go shootin'.
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  20. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    .......maybe if she played lacrosse. I'm all about rollin' the cage and shootin' my balls.

    IDK, maybe it's just sinner-style, but I don't like it when girls give too much up front. (1) It defeats any sort of challenge (2) It leads to a relationship built too much around sex, and that sort of relationship will ALWAYS fail.

    I'm kinda glad nothing escalated. I live 3 hours away. I'd rather be able to live my wild college life without feeling tied down to a girl so far away (I've been down that path before and it SUCKS).

    The point of this thread was because I grew up following my father's dating advice, and I'm starting to think it's terrible advice. Here's what he wanted me to do:

    Pick her up in his coupe convertable, and take her to a nice restaurant.

    F*CK THAT!!! That just screams out "Bill Whoring" (Bill Whoring = the idealistic practice pressuring a girl to put out by the expense of the date).
    I have to admit you seem like a great guy. Definitely have a good head on your shoulders. Sounds like your choice was a good one.

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    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  22. Quote Originally Posted by Gixxer82 View Post
    I don't think that "bill whoring" is true. Bill whoring happens when the guy starts putting moves on the girl with the mentality of "she won't turn me down because I just paid her way." So if you don't show any sexual interest in her it will become a good thing in that she will know you did it because you wanted to, not because you wanted to get some. I take my girl out all the time, pay her way for everything...I don't do it to get laid.
    yeah, but flaunting it like that just screams out "I'm trying to get in your pants". And to be honest, that's not an objective on the first date.
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  23. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    .......maybe if she played lacrosse. I'm all about rollin' the cage and shootin' my balls.

    IDK, maybe it's just sinner-style, but I don't like it when girls give too much up front. (1) It defeats any sort of challenge (2) It leads to a relationship built too much around sex, and that sort of relationship will ALWAYS fail.

    I'm kinda glad nothing escalated. I live 3 hours away. I'd rather be able to live my wild college life without feeling tied down to a girl so far away (I've been down that path before and it SUCKS).

    The point of this thread was because I grew up following my father's dating advice, and I'm starting to think it's terrible advice. Here's what he wanted me to do:

    Pick her up in his coupe convertable, and take her to a nice restaurant.

    F*CK THAT!!! That just screams out "Bill Whoring" (Bill Whoring = the idealistic practice pressuring a girl to put out by the expense of the date).
    To each their own but Iron style has worked for me, maybe I'll incorporate a little sinner style without the goat aspect I find that a sporting activity naturally creates more interaction for me and that's how someone will learn more about me and vice versa.

    You're right about the "Bill Whoring" (good term, I'll steal it from you ) it makes chicks put you in the same category as most other guys they've dated or been with and that's usually a bad thing IMO.

    I think booty is something you earn if you're a real man, not something you buy . . . unless you're into prostitutes/escorts LOL. And if the chick just wants someone to show her affection by taking her out to dinner then she's not someone I would personally want to be with.

    No offense but it seems (from what you said and I what interpreted) like your dad's advice is to put the pu$$y on a pedestal and that takes a while when you use that approach IF you're lucky. Everyone eventually gets lucky and they think this is the approach that worked for them. My best friend said it best when he said "Guys with no game or charm need to take ladies out to dinner but those who learn how to create attraction don't need it"

  24. Quote Originally Posted by thesinner View Post
    yeah, but flaunting it like that just screams out "I'm trying to get in your pants". And to be honest, that's not an objective on the first date.
    to me, it doesn't appear that way. it just appears as if the guy is "trying to hard", like hes kind of desperate. as the relationship develops, a lot of effort appears "cute", "sweet" etc... but at the first meeting or the beginnings its "not so cute".


    plus, girls get used to being spoiled in the beginning and wonder what happened to all that supreme treatment in the beginning. makes things not so special.

    i agree with you mostly though its okay to flaunt, just dont over do it

  25. Iron, I agree with your advice. Something tells me you know what you're talking about. You've read some books on the matter? (if not, bravo for figuring it out on your own).

    Sinner, the best "trick" that I use is to steal the girl's game. If you are playing hard to get, she can't do the same thing. Make fun of her, roll your eyes at her, and interpret just about everything she says as her coming on to you. Bump into her to initiate contact within 30 seconds of meeting... but BLAME her for groping you and now you've opened the door for more physical contact. Get it?
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