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    Preparing for my 1st threesome...


    Um...I've been going out a lot trying to forget about my X...and lately I have made friends with 2 girls...who do everything together...

    I'm not 100% sure but I think I have a shot by the signals I've been getting (...flirting...dirty talk...etc.)

    The problem is...let alone with 1 girl...I can barely last 15min-20min (longer if I'm plastered on alcohol, shorter if I go w/o a condom)...and now 2 girls at once??? I'm scared I'm just going to blow it in the first 5min (or less)...then they do their thing.

    Do you guys have any tips for me to persue this endevour?

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    - Blowing a load prior to sex does not help me last longer.
    - I've had a reaction to Yohimbine that gave me an extra 5-8min.
    - I tested GABA and didn't really notice anything. Then again I only tried it twice.

    - I'm not really interested in desensitizing condoms/creams.

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    There's more to sex than intercourse. Try pleasing the women with your mouth and hands. Plus, you're young so your refractory period should be short (time between ejaculation and getting hard again).
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    Quote Originally Posted by yeahright View Post
    There's more to sex than intercourse. Try pleasing the women with your mouth and hands. Plus, you're young so your refractory period should be short (time between ejaculation and getting hard again).
    Use the condoms with benzocaine in them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bioman View Post
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    hahaha. yeah or you could let them start without you and you could just watch and enjoy the show until they start getting really worked up . then you just jump in there and finish them off. if they are that kinky then they`ll prob love that you are watching them. plus you can take some note as to what they like. have fun and you better tell us how it go`s!!
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    The guy on king of queens said he likes to think of don zimmer to help him last longer

    Seriously, I would say let them do their thing first, and then get in on it. Getting drunk would probably help if that's your thing, and if you are really comfortable with them I would say make some jokes hinting that it might be over kinda quick, that oughta make them a little more understanding. I have had good results with both powerfull and horny goat weed for shortening the refractory period. In the end, just look at the bright side...if this is your biggest worry, then I would love to be in your shoes
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    Dude, you are viewing sex alot differently than a girl is going to. Intercourse is, and should be, only a part of sex.

    To you, 'sex' is an act, constituted solely by intercourse. You're viewing it as an action, and the only thing you need to be good at is that action. To a girl, 'sex' is the entire experience. Everything including and preceding intercourse is sex, so treat her like that.

    To use a sports analogy, foreplay is the pre-game show to you, and sex is the game. The only reason you tolerate the pre-game show, is to watch the real thing. Obviously, unimportant.

    To the girl, foreplay is part of sex and so it's the first half man. While you think nothing is going on, your girl think you've made 15 turnovers at the 50 yard line, and have gotten sacked every time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mulletsoldier View Post
    Dude, you are viewing sex alot differently than a girl is going to. Intercourse is, and should be, only a part of sex.

    To you, 'sex' is an act, constituted solely by intercourse. You're viewing it as an action, and the only thing you need to be good at is that action. To a girl, 'sex' is the entire experience. Everything including and preceding intercourse is sex, so treat her like that.

    To use a sports analogy, foreplay is the pre-game show to you, and sex is the game. The only reason you tolerate the pre-game show, is to watch the real thing. Obviously, unimportant.

    To the girl, foreplay is part of sex and so it's the first half man. While you think nothing is going on, your girl think you've made 15 turnovers at the 50 yard line, and have gotten sacked every time.
    i love when it`s 4th and goal at the 1 yard line with 2 seconds on the clock and you have to ram it up the middle before your time runs out!!!
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    i love when it`s 4th and goal at the 1 yard line with 2 seconds on the clock and you have to ram it up the middle before your time runs out!!!
    Thats when I run a either the Power Eye, or the Quarter Back Sneak... depending on the defensive lines stance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rodja View Post
    Use the condoms with benzocaine in them.
    example? experience with them anyone? I personally as bad as it sounds have never used a condom. I just get turned off by it. Choosing your partners wisely is the safest sex you can have besides not having it. I say just stay away from actual intercourse as long as possible but dont wait until things start to cool down get in while the going is hot. You have to enjoy the experience for the whole male gender, so make it last. If you actually put pressure on the prostate at a certain time (cant be to close to ejaculation) but you can stop yourself from coming. Ive tried it a few times id say its a 50% success rate or something lol. Try to get some pictures!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by pistonpump View Post
    example? experience with them anyone? I personally as bad as it sounds have never used a condom. I just get turned off by it. Choosing your partners wisely is the safest sex you can have besides not having it. I say just stay away from actual intercourse as long as possible but dont wait until things start to cool down get in while the going is hot. You have to enjoy the experience for the whole male gender, so make it last. If you actually put pressure on the prostate at a certain time (cant be to close to ejaculation) but you can stop yourself from coming. Ive tried it a few times id say its a 50% success rate or something lol. Try to get some pictures!!!
    I tried those condoms... DONT DO IT. That makes your whole **** numb. Dont even feel it. My shlt went soft because it was so numb. Avoid this one at all costs.

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    punch yourself in the balls...that should take care of any "good" feeling causing you to blow immediately....
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    I love this thread.

    So much.

    Edit; I, uh, realized I didn't contribute positively to this thread. Sorry about that, but I fear I have no experience in this area, especially due to my tender youth.

    *apologetic bow*

    But I award this thread the Reigning King of Thread award.

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    When I was a juice monkey, on about 2g/week 4AD-cyp and 1g/week 1Test-Cyp, along with an oral, I took this one girl out to the club. We get back to the barracks, go to my room, and I hit that sh!t for 6 hours straight. No exaggeration here at all. I never finished acutally. From then on, I was known throughout the female population at the barracks as "The Six Hour Stud".

    Moral of the story: Alcohol plus lot's of steroids= no cumming any time soon.

    Throw some Cialis in, that'll help too.
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    To be honest with you, I've been in a somewhat similar situation...

    somewhat...and I'm not going to get into details.

    Mullet has a great post above...

    But if you are looking for something to help you out, look into the little blue or purple pill...cialis, viagra or levitra...

    I know I personally can blow my load, so to say, atleast 3 times and last well over an hour while on one of those...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yeahright View Post
    There's more to sex than intercourse. Try pleasing the women with your mouth and hands. Plus, you're young so your refractory period should be short (time between ejaculation and getting hard again).
    In my limited experience in this matter, do everything you can to prolong the experience, without using your shloong. Try to make them both climax before you even get "inside." Um... experiment.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DAdams91982 View Post
    I tried those condoms... DONT DO IT. That makes your whole **** numb. Dont even feel it. My shlt went soft because it was so numb. Avoid this one at all costs.

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    Ditto that....its like whiskey d*ck x3. and the worst part is the chick ususually gets a little on her too and its just a mess
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    Also, get some cialis or viagra. No problemo homey.
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    I've never had a threesome unfortunately....just several 4somes, a few 6somes, an 8some and one time..a 16some.

    Yeah, BiO's had a bit more of a sordid life than he lets on.

    So the big thing is to make sure everyone, including yourself, is comfortable and relaxed. It's really easy to get overwhelmed in a situation like that and either explode too early or yes, even go kinda numb and not be able to perform well. It happens because your hormones go into hyperdrive and your mind follows. Relax, breath it in and enjoy, but don't get in a hurry.

    Follow Mullet's advice on the women. They are in charge..like it or not, so you're going to have to learn to read and respond to their needs. If they experienced, they will not expect you to simply bang them for 18 hours straight with no emphasis on pleasure for yourself. Trust that they will take care of you when the time comes and also trust that you'll be rearing to go again fairly soon.

    Don't drink too much alcohol. Outside of one or two drinks to calm down, it is the enemy of erections and therefore, your enemy.

    And then there's always Viagra or Cialis. Not a bad idea if you are worried.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bioman View Post
    I've never had a threesome unfortunately....just several 4somes, a few 6somes, an 8some and one time..a 16some.
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    Take a viagra 1 hour before and purchase some toys if they don't already have them. Don't shoot straight for the kill if you know what I mean. I'd also smack down a few shots to loosen you up.
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    And listen to "P.O.D. - Here Comes The Boom" while you hit that ****.
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    Quote Originally Posted by supersoldier View Post
    on about 2g/week 4AD-cyp "The Six Hour Stud".

    Moral of the story: Alcohol plus lot's of steroids= no cumming any time soon.

    Throw some Cialis in, that'll help too.
    Same for me a healthy cycle with 4ad cyp or test E, + moderate alcohol, + viagra or cialis and put me on the clock.
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    I've always believed that I had enough trouble pleasing one women. Why in the hell would I want to piss off two
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    My cousin got this numbing cream for his **** a while back I think it was called like Studmaster1000 or something from a sex shop, he said you can go for hours on it, you can consider that.
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    Don't go with this numbing cream. What is the point of having your sexual fantasy fulfilled if you can't feel it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mulletsoldier View Post
    Don't go with this numbing cream. What is the point of having your sexual fantasy fulfilled if you can't feel it?
    Im guessing you put a really tiny amount enough to wear off like 30-60 mins in.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayhawkk View Post
    I've always believed that I had enough trouble pleasing one women. Why in the hell would I want to piss off two

    Right I agree. Its not moraly right anyway. The reason its called a fantasy is because its not real. Besides if any girls are willing to do that, they probally have a lot of diseases!. Think of what elese they might have done before that, and think how many other dongs have been in them. So its like if you have sex with them, its not just them you are having sex with, its all the other partners they had. Not to mention disease, disease, disease my friend!!!....All the pressure is gonna be on you to please them, and afterwards, even if you do you may have a lot more to worry about....
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    Quote Originally Posted by T-Bone View Post
    Right I agree. Its not moraly right anyway. The reason its called a fantasy is because its not real. Besides if any girls are willing to do that, they probally have a lot of diseases!. Think of what elese they might have done before that, and think how many other dongs have been in them. So its like if you have sex with them, its not just them you are having sex with, its all the other partners they had. Not to mention disease, disease, disease my friend!!!....All the pressure is gonna be on you to please them, and afterwards, even if you do you may have a lot more to worry about....
    Just because a girl is willing to experiment does not mean she is 'diseased' or is automatically promiscuous. I have had a threesome with a former girlfriend and her friend, and neither of them were immoral or diseased. If the girls are comfortable enough in their sexuality, and are secure within themselves then I see absolutely no problem with it. In my opinion, as long as the sex occurring is not exploitative, is reciprocal, and nobody is uncomfortable or in pain then it's all good. Morals are a very subjective thing and the last place they should be applied to others is in the bedroom.

    Problems arise with multi-partner stuff like this when there are feelings involved with one or more of the persons participating. Jealousy and insecurity can create awkward situations. As I said above, if they are truly okay with it then you are good to go!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mulletsoldier View Post
    Just because a girl is willing to experiment does not mean she is 'diseased' or is automatically promiscuous. I have had a threesome with a former girlfriend and her friend, and neither of them were immoral or diseased. If the girls are comfortable enough in their sexuality, and are secure within themselves then I see absolutely no problem with it. In my opinion, as long as the sex occurring is not exploitative, is reciprocal, and nobody is uncomfortable or in pain then it's all good. Morals are a very subjective thing and the last place they should be applied to others is in the bedroom.

    Problems arise with multi-partner stuff like this when there are feelings involved with one or more of the persons participating. Jealousy and insecurity can create awkward situations. As I said above, if they are truly okay with it then you are good to go!

    I just like to think of myself as "morally correct". I guess some people would consider me a prude. Thats me though. These things to me are perverse and just aren't "right".
    Well hey thats just how I feel. I don't want to turn this thread into some kind of discussion on whats right and whats wrong, so continue with the discusion.
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    Go get em,just make sure that one does not moan more than the other....
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    Quote Originally Posted by T-Bone View Post
    I just like to think of myself as "morally correct". I guess some people would consider me a prude. Thats me though. These things to me are perverse and just aren't "right".
    Well hey thats just how I feel. I don't want to turn this thread into some kind of discussion on whats right and whats wrong, so continue with the discusion.
    I also consider myself morally correct, but on a personal level that I don't paint others with
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    Quote Originally Posted by supersoldier View Post
    When I was a C0ck monkey, along with oral, I took this one GUY out to the club. We get back to the barracks, go to my room, and I hit that sh!t for 6 hours straight. No exaggeration here at all. I never finished acutally. From then on, I was known throughout the male population at the barracks as "The Six Hour Stud".

    Moral of the story: Alcohol plus lot's of steroids= no cumming any time soon.

    Throw some Cialis in, that'll help too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chad View Post
    Dammit.... Why can't I rep your ass when it deserves it? Someone give this man some green... i dont care who you are.. that shlt is funny.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DAdams91982 View Post
    Dammit.... Why can't I rep your ass when it deserves it? Someone give this man some green... i dont care who you are.. that shlt is funny.

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    thanks guys. i wonder why its not working? oh well
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chad View Post
    thanks guys. i wonder why its not working? oh well
    Cause I done repped your a$$ to much... silly bastard.

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    viagra and cialis make you last longer?? i thought they were for older folks that couldnt get it up in the first place ha
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