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    Booty call or am I an idiot?


    On the way from work I get a call from a girl I know. We’ve never been on a date, just hang out few times, I haven’t seen her for a month at least. So, her offer to get together was a surprise to me. She also said she wouldn’t mind to spend night at my place. Sounds like a booty call to me.
    Long story short we didn’t have sex that night. She didn’t feel comfortable, she said. We ended up sleeping in the same bed, naked… There were a lot of kissing and touching, but nothing more. I’m confused. How can you be comfortable to spend night at someone’s place who you don’t hardly know, but not comfortable to do anything else. I don’t get it. Am I missing something?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DmitryWI
    Am I missing something?
    Yes.









    You missed out on a piece of ass!
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    She has issues........the question is whether you want to be involved in them or not.
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    what did you do before (bar or something?) or did she just go and chill at your house?
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    Quote Originally Posted by OCCFan023
    what did you do before (bar or something?) or did she just go and chill at your house?
    went to a strip club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bpmartyr
    Yes.









    You missed out on a piece of ass!
    LMAO

    She's looking for serious relationship and I mentioned to her few months back that I'm not. That's probably why we never went out. And that's why I thought she wants piece of ass when she called me, because this is all I can give her. She called me today again, but I'm not sure if I want to see her again.
    When I took her home next morning, I told her again nothing serious is going to happen between us, She said she don't care.
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    Quote Originally Posted by idunk42
    went to a strip club.
    All male strip club
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    Quote Originally Posted by OCCFan023
    what did you do before (bar or something?) or did she just go and chill at your house?
    I was on the way from Chicago (driving semi) when she called. I said I'll park my truck go home take a shower then will pick you up, she asked me if she can see me sooner. So, I picked her up on the way home, but I couldn't go out untill I get home take a shower and what not. We ended up staying home, had few drinks...
    ****ing women, more time I spend with them, more I get confused.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DmitryWI
    We ended up sleeping in the same bed, naked… There were a lot of kissing and touching, but nothing more. I’m confused.
    Oh no….
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    Quote Originally Posted by James
    Oh no….
    Talk about blue balls
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    I agree with yeahright it sounds like she has issues. BEWARE! I would rather have someone than have blue balls.
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    i agree with the blue ball statement above ^

    how do you sleep naked next to someone without having sex? interesting.....
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    Here is the correct answer
    She wanted to have sex but she didn't want you to think of her as only booty call material.
    She thought she would show you the goods and you would melt.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs. Gimpy!
    how do you sleep naked next to someone without having sex?
    it helps to have a flexible definition of "sex"....

    I sleep naked next to my sweetie every night (for the last 2+ months), and we're still waiting (but it's not like nothing's happening...).

    9 days...!
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    Quote Originally Posted by yeahright
    She has issues........the question is whether you want to be involved in them or not.
    Yep... If you truely don't want a relationship now, steer clear.
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    Quote Originally Posted by okboy63
    Here is the correct answer
    She wanted to have sex but she didn't want you to think of her as only booty call material.
    She thought she would show you the goods and you would melt.
    Thats correct. You fell pray to what is known as the "last minute resistance" or LMR. Girls usually put up a wall right before sex as a natural defense to being labeled a "slut" (I don't like that word, but its the best description I have). There are many techniques you can use to avoid this.

    Do you know what the Mystery Method is? If not, check it out; it could prove informative...
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    You slept in the same bed as this girl, naked, and you didn't get anything? Mankind - 0, Insecure women - 1
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    I have one word for ya :


    SUCKER!!!!!!!!!!!



    Sounds to me she had nothing better to do and wanted to be with anyone who could pick her up right away, like she didnt want to go home for some reason. Stay clear, she is wacked!
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    Dude, you missed out. She was teasing you with it to see if you'd be all over it. If you tried and she didn't go for it that's one thing, but if you both just layed there waiting for someone to make a move, then the proper move would have been......

    T-Bag
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    that girl is

    I'd give it one more shot though. Thats just how I roll; sounds like a nice oportunity to work of you player kung fu :bruce1:
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    eh it happens, youll get her next time
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    What a **** tease! lol Sound like it WAS a booty call but she didn't feel comfortable going through with it, probably her first time doing that kinda thing, still can you say...BLUE BALLS!?
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    Haha samething happend to me...but the thing was she was being a tease. She knew I had a girl and wanted to tease me till I dumped her. Now I have sex with both of them. If I was you I would stay away from her I mean if all you want is sex go get a girl for that, and that only. She seems like a tease to get you wanting to do more then sex.
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    I hate teases.
    Last edited by yeahright; 07-06-2006 at 10:29 PM.
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    I say dont bother, she is a weirdo............
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    Quote Originally Posted by okboy63
    Here is the correct answer
    She wanted to have sex but she didn't want you to think of her as only booty call material.
    She thought she would show you the goods and you would melt.
    You might be right, except I didn't melt. Interesting enough phone calls haven't stopped since that night. I finally answered last night. She wanted to see me again. Umm, most likely not gonna happen.
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    Eh, I do it all the time being married...We just have hallway sex. When we walk past each other down the hallway we just say, **** you.
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    I still say ya shoulda T-Bagged er
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    Either tea-bagged or a dutch oven..
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    I would be sooo mad, id just level with her, your in my bed naked and were not gonna fk?, lol tough call man sounds like she didnt want to be alone, or shes using you to make her feel wanted/ loved but shes just not horny. Noone likes to be used, if you hang out give her your expectations, then none can be let down.
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    Quote Originally Posted by somewhatgifted
    I would be sooo mad, id just level with her, your in my bed naked and were not gonna fk?, lol tough call man sounds like she didnt want to be alone, or shes using you to make her feel wanted/ loved but shes just not horny. Noone likes to be used, if you hang out give her your expectations, then none can be let down.
    She keeps calling me every day, but I won't put out any more, drives her nuts.
    I was honest with her when I told her several months ago that She shouldn't expect anything more then sex from me, so I don't know wtf was she thinking that night.
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    Everyone here missed a very feasible reason...
    This happened to a friend of mine, chick always wanted to come over fool around a little, stay the night but never have sex. Well he found out from one of the girls friends that she has HERPES and thus does not want to spread them around

    Same thing happened to me and I figurd the girl just didn't feel comfortable at my house b/c my roomates are *******s to girls (and somehow they get laid all the time, I don't get it). So one night I suggested going over to her house and I got up mid fool around to urinate. Sitting on the sink in her bathroom was a prescription for Valtrex.... needless to say I left and put her number under 'ignore' in my phone, along with some other psycho's
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    Quote Originally Posted by McBurly
    Everyone here missed a very feasible reason...
    This happened to a friend of mine, chick always wanted to come over fool around a little, stay the night but never have sex. Well he found out from one of the girls friends that she has HERPES and thus does not want to spread them around
    AWWW Nawwww hell nawww!!!
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    This is always been my concern about not to get some ****. I've been very picky who I sleep with (or not for that matter )
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    Quote Originally Posted by McBurly
    Everyone here missed a very feasible reason...
    This happened to a friend of mine, chick always wanted to come over fool around a little, stay the night but never have sex. Well he found out from one of the girls friends that she has HERPES and thus does not want to spread them around
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    Quote Originally Posted by idunk42
    AWWW Nawwww hell nawww!!!
    Freaked out a little, didn't ya?

    But, yea, this **** is no joke.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DmitryWI
    Freaked out a little, didn't ya?

    But, yea, this **** is no joke.
    Hell no that sh1t is no joke! That crap is for life!

    Its definitely a good thing your picky about your girlies man. You never know who may have what.
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    Being picky isn't going to do you a lot of good, it all comes down to getting a girlfriend... and making her get tested

    My friend has this theory that some super religous women biochemists engineered std's to keep guys monogomous (did I spell that right?)
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    I guy at work told me that earwax will irratate any std condition she may have. Like not a lot, but just any or a little. He said that if you just take a quick swipe in your ear with your finger, and then rub her beaver and she has an std, then it will burn like hell.
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    herpes is zitty bagage for life and a condom dont mean s$%t, id never be able to hit it, just cause its been suggested *shudder*.
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