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    While I was finishing my workout today doing my cardio in the treadmill/bike room i was noticing a very cute short blond i took a couple glances at her and when I finished my workout she hurried and finished her workout, we somewhat walked out together. She went through the door and read something between the two doors and I walk by her saying "excuse me" as nice as i could. I didn't know what to say to her. As being I've lost any game if I ever had any because of the 4 year relationship I was just in that was just ended.

    besides "look at my massive muscles" (jp) what can i say to her that would be appropriate in the gym.

    Is it a coincidince that she left at the same time and we exchanged a couple glances. I could just be funny looking.

    I wish I was as in shape as I would like to be, but i've lost the gut and my arms are pretty big.

    to get to the point, what do you guys say if anything to women while at the gym and what was there responses.

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    I dont go too the gym too meet women I'm there to take care of my body
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    situational openers are typically a bad idea...
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    Yeah, IMO, the gym pick-up line is simply not a good idea. It is far too awkward, because most likely she is going to the gym for the same reason you are: to better herself, not to meet someone. Best chance you have is to ask her for a spot when you will genuinely need at, and not come off as being a braggart or show-off. But, the only way that will work is if nobody else is around, because if you are putting up 315 you definitely aren't going to ask a 105lb woman for a spot. OR..You could ask her about her form on those hip abductor machines. I recently had to start doing them for this power routine I'm on, and probably looked like a duck out of water.
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    First look to see if there's a ring or tan marks indicating a ring and then if it happens a couple of times like this. Just walk up and ask if she isn't seeing anyone and isn't busy if she would like to have some coffee or lunch.

    If you're meeting her at the gym you both should be too tired to listen to conversation fillers.
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    well.. i think you would do it like you would pick up anything at the gym.. make sure you lift with your knees!!!!!
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    Just say "Hi" and introduce yourself. At the very least, you've gotten her name and can say hi when you see eachother. That's how just about all of my relationships have started.
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    To add onto my first post, I can tell you that my gf WILL NOT goto a regular gym because she despises all the guys oogling her. So, you definitely do not want to come off like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayhawkk
    First look to see if there's a ring or tan marks indicating a ring and then if it happens a couple of times like this. Just walk up and ask if she isn't seeing anyone and isn't busy if she would like to have some coffee or lunch.

    If you're meeting her at the gym you both should be too tired to listen to conversation fillers.


    Makes sense to me. I'd go with this approach.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kam
    While I was finishing my workout today doing my cardio in the treadmill/bike room i was noticing a very cute short blond i took a couple glances at her and when I finished my workout she hurried and finished her workout, we somewhat walked out together. She went through the door and read something between the two doors and I walk by her saying "excuse me" as nice as i could. I didn't know what to say to her. As being I've lost any game if I ever had any because of the 4 year relationship I was just in that was just ended.

    besides "look at my massive muscles" (jp) what can i say to her that would be appropriate in the gym.

    Is it a coincidince that she left at the same time and we exchanged a couple glances. I could just be funny looking.

    I wish I was as in shape as I would like to be, but i've lost the gut and my arms are pretty big.

    to get to the point, what do you guys say if anything to women while at the gym and what was there responses.
    A hi how are you always works. The most straight forward approach is the best one. Lines are just that lines. Also visit sosuave.com def helps with confidence.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayhawkk
    First look to see if there's a ring or tan marks indicating a ring and then if it happens a couple of times like this. Just walk up and ask if she isn't seeing anyone and isn't busy if she would like to have some coffee or lunch.

    If you're meeting her at the gym you both should be too tired to listen to conversation fillers.
    Ok I figured I'd go a bit more in depth on my response. Situation openers are generally not a good idea, but rarely they can work well. I'd try to stay away for the most part.

    Jayhawkk's comment it definately pretty good advice and has the potential to work depending on the girl and how you say it. For example, if you decide to use this approach you'll want to ask "Are you single?" rather than "Do you have a b/f"...Also it's hard to provide an approach without knowing how "hot" this girl is. I'm not big on rating girls, but asking a 6 out for some coffee or lunch right away will probabaly work, while asking a 10 the same question will usually send her running most of the time, regardless of if she's initially intersted.
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    Ah the resident pimp.


    Quote Originally Posted by JBlaze
    Ok I figured I'd go a bit more in depth on my response. Situation openers are generally not a good idea, but rarely they can work well. I'd try to stay away for the most part.

    Jayhawkk's comment it definately pretty good advice and has the potential to work depending on the girl and how you say it. For example, if you decide to use this approach you'll want to ask "Are you single?" rather than "Do you have a b/f"...Also it's hard to provide an approach without knowing how "hot" this girl is. I'm not big on rating girls, but asking a 6 out for some coffee or lunch right away will probabaly work, while asking a 10 the same question will usually send her running most of the time, regardless of if she's initially intersted.
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    Think Anchorman

    - sorry... I know you're serious...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mulletsoldier
    Yeah, IMO, the gym pick-up line is simply not a good idea. It is far too awkward, because most likely she is going to the gym for the same reason you are: to better herself
    Not if you go to FSU haha. I must say the girls at the University gym are in full makeup, hair done, and always cute little pink and black outfits : D
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    Women LIKE to be talked to but especially like to be LISTENED to. Strike up a conversation that will involve her telling you about herself. IMO

    Worst that can happen is you will not hit it off, then you will know, instead of thinking about her in the shower while you handle your mangina.
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    Never say, "Look at my massive muscles." This sends the signal that you're more interested in yourself than in her, which is gonna make her think you're not interested in a commitment, but a quick piece of ass.

    "Hi" and "How are you today" are always a good conversation starters. If you'd really like to pick up a date with this girl, try hooking her into a simple conversation. After talking for a few minutes and successfully getting into good conversation, cut the conversation short (you don't want to waste her time, or lose her interest). Tell her you'd like to continue your conversation at a later time. Hopefully she like you, and you two can set up a time to meet for coffee, lunch, or something, or just exchange phone numbers.


    If you can't get a good conversation going, don't try to force it, that's like putting the square peg in the round hole, just give up and say you'll see her next time you two workout together. At least you actually worked up the courage to talk to this girl, and didn't come off as an a-hole to her.
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    And whatever you do don't follow roid monkey's advice of narcotics in the drinks and smacking them around.
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    Found it - watch and learn (hope this works):
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    Like a six pack?
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    Quote Originally Posted by bpmartyr
    Women LIKE to be talked to but especially like to be LISTENED to. Strike up a conversation that will involve her telling you about herself. IMO

    Worst that can happen is you will not hit it off, then you will know, instead of thinking about her in the shower while you handle your mangina.
    I think you should be alright as long as you don't say the word "mangina" around them..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mulletsoldier
    I think you should be alright as long as you don't say the word "mangina" around them..
    Good catch - it can be easy to overlook that one.
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    Yeah lord knows how many times I have slipped in an accidental, "My mangina is long and strong" comment..Screws you over, every time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mulletsoldier
    Yeah lord knows how many times I have slipped in an accidental, "My mangina is long and strong" comment..Screws you over, every time.
    Especially once you've picked them up like a six pack - and then describe the origins of San Diego.
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    If you guys are going to give me a bad rep for what I said, at least say what was wrong about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thesinner
    If you guys are going to give me a bad rep for what I said, at least say what was wrong about it.
    Not me, I'm just having fun. At the end of the day, a laugh is welcome relief.

    If one is serious about this, the best way to meet someone is just to treat them the way you would like to be treated, and do so honestly. If you blow a bunch of sunshine at someone, even if they believe it, they'll eventually see through the veneer.
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    If you can't muster the will to say anything. Brush up against her butt and don't apologize as you walk alway. They know what that could mean and if not they will wonder.
    Don't be blatant about it or it will be a Mike tyson moment. Anybody can stumble right. Maybe you were thinking about important stuff. So you have some excuses.
    Convey the message that you want her sexually in some way


    If she passes by later and makes google eyes at you. All Money
    If not then at least you didn't get a face to face rejection.
    Yes treat them like you want to be treated I agree.
    I want her to rub her boobs in my face and grab my crotch
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    Sounds like a way to meet Mr. PepperSpray
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    Hahaha..Yeah, I think that might be a better way to cop a sexual harrassment lawasuit as opposed to a feel
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    tell her that working out is like cumming. she'll be immediately impressed by your passion for the gym.

    or she'll slap you.
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    Tell her something like "Ya know, I truly feel that GHB has gotten a bad rep among the sexually active female community"...Wait, that's something that Saluu, The Roid Monkey would have said.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Beau
    If one is serious about this, the best way to meet someone is just to treat them the way you would like to be treated, and do so honestly. If you blow a bunch of sunshine at someone, even if they believe it, they'll eventually see through the veneer.
    I totally agree with you, and that wasn't what I was trying to get at in that post.

    Kam seems like you're typical, humble "Nice Guy". There's nothing wrong with that at all. That was my title all throughout my highschool and into college. For years it took me a long time to figure out what was wrong with how I had been handling myself withthe opposite sex. In college, I had the opportunity to see a seminar by David Coleman, the Dating Doctor, and learned a great deal about my problems. The two major things I had learned, which I don't think you guys are picking up from my post are the following:

    1) You can't be afraid to break the ice.
    2) If you give too much up front, you'll never be perceived as a potential partner. That's why I am for cutting the conversation short: 1- so you have something to talk about later and 2- so you don't give up too much up front.

    By no means do I advocate being a phony or a player and leading this poor girl on.
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    I concur with the Sinbad (sorry man, I had to, at least once) on both fronts. And most especially not giving away the farm in the first conversation, if you tell her everything about herself in the first five minutes then all the allure of your personality leaves. And I especially agree with the being yourself aspect, the less lies you tell, the less you will have to cover up later.
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    Don't be scared off by a little pepper spray Kam. Grab her ass and communicate non verbally that you could have her anytime you want.
    Your a viking(or something else manly) not a girlie man.
    Pretend you just pillaged a village and now need to relax with a woman and she would do just fine.
    If its a first offense you can't do any serious jail time or anything.
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    Kam I'll punch you in the spleen if you go around starting ass-grabbery like that.
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    I am a girl.
    I go to the gym.
    I do not go there to pick up guys, but to work out hard.
    However, if I were to be on the lookout, I would probably give a smile, or gaze to the person I thought was hot.
    If he then came up to me and said "hi" I would show I was interested by holding a conversation with him.
    If he happened to mention that he usully goes to a certain coffee bar after his workout, I would reply with a "meet you there" if I was interested, or a "sorry I'm busy" if I wasn't.
    Easy
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    Bump into her and say sorry did my muscles get in the way. LoL can anyone guess that I am single?

    Quote Originally Posted by okboy63
    If you can't muster the will to say anything. Brush up against her butt and don't apologize as you walk alway. They know what that could mean and if not they will wonder.
    Don't be blatant about it or it will be a Mike tyson moment. Anybody can stumble right. Maybe you were thinking about important stuff. So you have some excuses.
    Convey the message that you want her sexually in some way


    If she passes by later and makes google eyes at you. All Money
    If not then at least you didn't get a face to face rejection.
    Yes treat them like you want to be treated I agree.
    I want her to rub her boobs in my face and grab my crotch
    Nothing says I love you like sexual assault.

    PS if karate girl is nice enough I might let her bump into me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SHADOW2492
    Bump into her and say sorry did my muscles get in the way. LoL can anyone guess that I am single?

    That would probably work for me. The girl would find it pretty funny since I am so weak looking.
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    Hey karate girl, I know of this nice lil coffee shop down the road... j/k :P
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    thanks for all the advice, i can't believe how many responses. Karate girl thanks for the words of wisdom. We shall see how it goes tommorow I will be at the same time same place tomorrow hopefully she is there. and thanks to everyone else you really gave me some ideas. besides the sexual harassment but for some that could be a plan b (behind bars)

    But great advice, I might run into her tommorow and see if I get a smile and I'll go from there with a short no bs conversion.

    I don't like to rate women but i would give her a 9.2

    thanks again, i don't know how i'm going to look at her finger for a ring, but it's a college town so maybe 1 in 20 or so is married.

    Would trying to ask her how she got in such great shape be over the top? probably. i'll keep it simple. thanks again

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    that sosuave site is awsome, here is a link that was really helpful, just thought i should share it makes a lot of sense and goes along the same lines as the advice you all gave in here.

    http://www.sosuave.com/articles/talktowomen.htm
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