Long story short....
Theres this girl I have been getting more and more interested in over the past several weeks or so. At first I thought she really liked me too (a few of my friends agreed), but it turns out different.
So one day a few weeks ago, we make plans to go to the movies. She comes up with some gay excuse the day that were supposed to go, and when I try to reschedjule, she gives me the "I'm going to be busy for a while line." So I think maybe I'm rushing things.
Last weekend my friend is sleeping over my house and she starts talking to him on AIM. He brings me up in the conversation because hes a nosy SOB. She says and I quote "He's a REALLY sweet guy, and hes REALLY genuine." So I think ok this is goin good. However she follows that with (keep in mind my chest is slightly over 4 feet around) "he's clingy as hell, and how can I have a serious relationship with someone I cant even get my arms around." Man, did that cut me deep. The part where my hard work to get big backfires, and the fact that she couldnt say this to my face.
Meanwhile, my friend steve starts telling some people that he likes her now or something like that. I later find out that she has feelings for him (this part will come back later in this post)
At first I tell my friend steve that if he makes a move on a girl he knows I like a lot, that he instantly is demoted from friend to douchbag. However, as I realize that I have no chance with her, I tell him to go for it, and that there are no hard feeling, and anger and jealousy know no place in my heart.
Is steve a back stabbing friend? maybe, but I cant call him that, it would make me a hyppocrite (sp?). I never believed in carma untill it bit me in the ass, because my boys, it JUST SO HAPPENS to be the same gril from this thread... http://anabolicminds.com/forum/adult-content/39263-honest-did-i-screw-over-my-friend-here.html
Hahaah. Should have known, my men, should have known.
Theres this girl I have been getting more and more interested in over the past several weeks or so. At first I thought she really liked me too (a few of my friends agreed), but it turns out different.
So one day a few weeks ago, we make plans to go to the movies. She comes up with some gay excuse the day that were supposed to go, and when I try to reschedjule, she gives me the "I'm going to be busy for a while line." So I think maybe I'm rushing things.
Last weekend my friend is sleeping over my house and she starts talking to him on AIM. He brings me up in the conversation because hes a nosy SOB. She says and I quote "He's a REALLY sweet guy, and hes REALLY genuine." So I think ok this is goin good. However she follows that with (keep in mind my chest is slightly over 4 feet around) "he's clingy as hell, and how can I have a serious relationship with someone I cant even get my arms around." Man, did that cut me deep. The part where my hard work to get big backfires, and the fact that she couldnt say this to my face.
Meanwhile, my friend steve starts telling some people that he likes her now or something like that. I later find out that she has feelings for him (this part will come back later in this post)
At first I tell my friend steve that if he makes a move on a girl he knows I like a lot, that he instantly is demoted from friend to douchbag. However, as I realize that I have no chance with her, I tell him to go for it, and that there are no hard feeling, and anger and jealousy know no place in my heart.
Is steve a back stabbing friend? maybe, but I cant call him that, it would make me a hyppocrite (sp?). I never believed in carma untill it bit me in the ass, because my boys, it JUST SO HAPPENS to be the same gril from this thread... http://anabolicminds.com/forum/adult-content/39263-honest-did-i-screw-over-my-friend-here.html
Hahaah. Should have known, my men, should have known.