Cuffs' Road To Recovery...Let The Healing Begin!

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  1. Cuffs' Road To Recovery...Let The Healing Begin!


    Okay AM dudes and chicks. I am starting this thread so I can get advice from all you experienced and knowledegable folks. As most of you know from my "My World Is Crashing Around Me" thread, I have been going through a tough time. The thread turned out to be one of the, if not the, largest threads here on AM. I am ready to get my **** together and recover. Time to feel good about myself and be happy.

    I am going to continue with my counseling. It has been helping me a great deal, and I want to be a better person for when I do find that special lady once again.

    Now, here's my dilemma. I haven't really dated in 20 or so years. Well, last time I 'played the field' was during my separation in my first marriage. So, it's been like 13 or so years. That was only for a short time though. I'm not out looking for anything serious for quit some time. But, I'm going to need the booty calls, and the dating experiences. I don't want to get tied down too quickly. One thing I have lacked for sometime is self esteem and confidence. Also, I can not read ladies for the life of me.

    So, I'm asking once again for some help from the great peeps of this board to help get me up and going in my new chapter in life. of course I'm wanting to go full steam ahead, but I know I need to slow my roll so as to not get all caught up in any drama.


  2. If it's booty you want.. get a hooker until you're ready to get fully back in the game lol

    No hassle for you that way. lol
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  3. Good to hear this Cuffs! All I can say is you definitely want to be confident and you shouldn't have a reason to have low self esteem my friend. It sounds like you are a good guy that has many quality features, focus on the good things about you. Just be your self, have fun, and look for chicks who have a good head on their shoulders and you'll be okay

  4. Well, let me start off with an experience I have been having with one chick. This girl is really cool, 24 years, and a looker. Anyways, she invites me out last Tuesday and we have a few beers and talk. She starts telling me she would be one of my booty call girls and that she has a lot of friends she can introduce me to. She gives me a kiss goodnite and we had to take off separately for reasons beyond our control. She has been text messaging me and we've been talking on the phone often.

    Yesterday, we were supposed to hook up and go to a downtown event, but she had too much homework to finish. So, we played around with text messaging and phone calls, plus I had to work late. Now, this girl is pretty freaky when it comes to sex. At least this is what I heard, and I usually don't listen to rumors. But, the info received was from reliable sources. She starts talking very sexually with me, asking about preferences and such. She then asks me to send her a picture of my aroused package via the cell phone. I knew I was getting set up for sure. So, I told her to send me one, then I'd send her one. I never thought she'd send me one. I quickley receive a picture of her pierced nipple. ****, now I have to come through or I look like an ass. She tells me once I got home to give her a call and she would talk dirty to help me out. So, I did just that, took the pic and sent it away. When I hit the send button I thought, WTF am I doing? Well, it must have impressed her because next thing I know she's calling me back and we're on the phone for over 2 hours talking about all types of sex stuff. She's telling me she has friends who are into 3-ways and she will arrange it for me, and she will help me out whenever I need to just 'get off'. Holly ****, I only heard about these girls. Didn't know they actually existed. If you see this girl, you'd never think it of her either.

    Hmmm...when I do the age math, I begin to think what a fckin pervert I must be. But, then I think of when this opportunity would ever present itself again in my life. Seize the moment I guess.

    I just don't want to become a pig, and treat ladies differently. I will also seek ladies to take out on real dates, but have this deal on the side.

  5. damn, do it while you can bro. remember, this wasn't your idea. she's suggesting it. 24y/o is plenty of old enough to make her own decisions.

    take advantage IMO.
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  6. you are NOT a perv and you are NOT doing anything wrong considering this is ALL her idea .. first off 24 is plenty old .. hell its older than i am haha

    but you probably should stay FAR AWAY from this chick and for your own good .. PM me her number .. i'm only looking out for you buddy

  7. Quote Originally Posted by glenihan
    you are NOT a perv and you are NOT doing anything wrong considering this is ALL her idea .. first off 24 is plenty old .. hell its older than i am haha

    but you probably should stay FAR AWAY from this chick and for your own good .. PM me her number .. i'm only looking out for you buddy
    no luck bro, she only digs guys taller than her.

  8. Quote Originally Posted by Beelzebub
    no luck bro, she only digs guys taller than her.
    No luck for your either I understand. She likes guy with bigger calves than her

    OWNED!

    heheh

  9. or canadians. she likes guns.
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    You're killing me McFly.

    Cuffs' Road To Recovery...Let The Healing Begin!

    I am ready to get my **** together and recover. Time to feel good about myself and be happy.

    I am going to continue with my counseling. It has been helping me a great deal, and I want to be a better person
    Some injuries never heal because we never give them the proper and complete treatment they need to let them heal fully. The pain goes away and we think it is healed.

    It is just when the pain goes away that the healing is just begun to have the opportunity to start.

    Performing with injured parts is likely to cause greater injury if used before completely healed. Stop using the part, imobilization, cast, splint, treatment and therapy are in order...not cautious use.

    This is the opprotunity of a lifetime. DON'T MISS IT!!!

    The female species will not become extinct in the meantime.

    Buddies tell you what you want to hear, friends tell you what you don't.

    Be wise and well my friend.
    I have no enemies. My friends intensely despise me.

  11. I knew I could count on your words B5150. Such a wise dude. I need to do some serious soul searching here and make sure I'm not going to get in over my head. I also need to keep my options open.

    And Glen...yeah, she only likes guys taller than her. She's around 5-8 or 5-9. But thanks for the being willing to take one for the team.

  12. ... i hate you guys

    ... i could wear my cowboy boots .. they make me 5'10!

  13. yeah but then she'd wear heels and you'd still be ****ed.

  14. damn you houseman ... you too beelze .. and cuffs you're my hero

  15. Quote Originally Posted by glenihan
    damn you houseman ... you too beelze .. and cuffs you're my hero
    and you're welcome.

  16. Quote Originally Posted by Beelzebub
    damn, do it while you can bro. remember, this wasn't your idea. she's suggesting it. 24y/o is plenty of old enough to make her own decisions.

    take advantage IMO.
    Bingo....do the three some ASAP. Have some fun. This is probably your last chance

    Damn....somebody upstairs must like you. I mean, now you must know why all this happened...you're gonna get yer ****in' **** rocked off

  17. Cuffs, you're really moving! See how things can change in a week or 2? You should have some fun, help you heal for sure. And this whole thing has blown up into a really good discussion of life sh!t we all go through from time to time, so thanks for opening up the worm-can!

  18. Not to bring up old wounds...

    But next time you're talking to your wife and she askes how you are doing you should reply with:

    "Just great actually. This separation/divorse was a great idea now I've had sometime to adjust and think. Finally got that 3-some I've always fantasized about".

    I kow I know. I'm an evil, evil man

  19. LOL...I'd do it, too, bro. And, I wouldn't feel one damn bit bad about it

  20. Quote Originally Posted by houseman
    Not to bring up old wounds...

    But next time you're talking to your wife and she askes how you are doing you should reply with:

    "Just great actually. This separation/divorse was a great idea now I've had sometime to adjust and think. Finally got that 3-some I've always fantasized about".

    I kow I know. I'm an evil, evil man
    nicely done houseman.

  21. me either man. me ****in either.

    Mess with the bull you get the horns!

  22. One day you'll be married to the one meant for you. You will be permanently attached. You will look back at this moment and say...

    1. DAMN that was GREAT
    - or -
    2. DAMN why didn't I DO IT????????

    I vote for option #1. But remember, if you put your meat into the communal fridge, wrap it carefully or it will spoil.

  23. Carpe Diem brother...and houseman, "I'm lovin' it" ...I would rub the **** all up in my ex's face too...

  24. Well, if I do start seeing other people, or going to booty calls, I'm not going to rub it in her face. I'm just not that way. I'm not looking to be vindictive or hurtful. What's done is done and there is no changing it. I still want to remain cordial with her. Hell, we spent almost 8 years together and I will always love her. She is the first person I can honestly say that I truely love. Also, what good would it do me by rubbing it in her face? All she would have to do is say she has been having 3-somes with two dudes, then who feels hurt?

    My wife has called me a few times today, out of the blue. She was even at the house and found a box of condoms in my night stand. She asked me about them and I told her I bought them for us, which I did.

    I ran into the chick who I sent that pic to just a short time ago. She works at an office I visit during my workday. Anyways, she pulled me to the side and said "very impressive", and how she liked the pic. Made me feel good in a way. She then told me if I was ever home alone and needed to just get off, I could call her and the least she would do is talk dirty to me on the phone so I could enjoy. Hmmmm...this is getting interesting.

    I left her office and began to think if I'm doing the right thing. Then I remembered what B5150 posted about, and I know he is right. I think I'm basically looking for someone to give me some form of comfort at this time. Someone to help the pain go away. That can be dangerous. I started thinking, if this chick is all over me this quickly, then she will be there in the near future as well. Especially if I play the hard to get, or not so interested roll. She seems to be the type who likes to conquer her prey, and hates to be told she can't have. I'm still going to keep my options open. If the 3-way thing happens, then I hope it happens a few times, as long as it is good. And yes...I will brag about it. But, I will post it in the Adult Section with a thread attachment for this one, as I don't wish to offend any members here.
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