Hey guys, and ladies who read this. I have a question and looking for unbiased opinions. Ive been married for 17 years, and she has always been controlling. To the point that if she THINKS I looked at a woman, she snaps. Ive lost the majority of my friends because of her, and outside if work and the gym, I have no life. And when I say gym, I mean the rec center and the gym at work. If she knew I went to the campus gym, shed lose it because of the girls. Ive tolerated it and went along with it all for the most part, but now, shes at war with my parents. Shes pissed at me because Im not jumping their sh1t, so I finally told her it's because I really feel as if shes wrong. Today, she told me to make a choice, either cut my ties with them or her. When i told her i wasnt making a choice, and that it was stupid, she said that Ive made my decision. Now it looks like divorce. After 18 years together, I do love her, but in all honesty, I just dont like her anymore. What do you guys think?