Hi! Its been a while and I know this may be a stupid thread, but I would like to share this here because you guys dont know ppl around me so its easier!
First of all I have 0 motivation and here is why...
On july I started a new job, and everything was going great, I also met a very hot woman at work that caught my eye (5 years older than me, she is 32), we both were hired at the same time.
so after 2 weeks on a friday night (after work), we went to a bar, me, her and a female friend of us (coworker too).we both got really drunk that day, at 3 am we called a taxi for us so while we were on the taxi my girl got uncounsious, she was sleeping so I decided to bring her to my house.... once we arrived we fell asleep in my bed....then we woke up at 12 pm and thats when it all started... we were in bed talking and laughing about what happened while holding our hands...and then I started to kiss her and yes... we had sex and it was amazing (thanks to the Tren!).... so after we finished, I bought her a coffee and took her back to her place... then that weekend we didnt talk at all...
On monday she wanted to talk to me so we went out for lunch and we had a conversation, she started crying and told me that she felt guilty because shes been in a relationship for 8 years, but now she cant stop thinking about me.... I felt guilty at that moment,... then after that day, we were going out together, we spent so much time every single day, we also texted each other everyday..... and I knew that on weekends she was still seeing her boyfriend (and I was ok with that).... so for 2 months everything was good except that some times she treated me badly... not sure why... but still we were always together... then I started to feel something strong for her... it was an obsession and suddenly I was in love with her... and thats when all problems started... I was going crazy and felt jealous if someone apprached her at work (I was almost involved in a few fights at work)... and she told me that she hated that--- so then one friday night she went out to a party with her boyfriend (a birhtday of a mutual friend of both) and I told her that it was ok as long as she allow me to pick her up after the party... that night she didnt call.... and I started to text her a lot like a psycho.... thats when she broke up with me.... after that night, wverything was virtually the same but she was distant at the same time,however she told me that she had strong feelings for me, but after that we didnt have sex anymore, she would just ocasionaly allow me to kiss her.....
on october, everything started going down.... we went to a party and she was distant.... she danced with 2 different guys (co workers) and that really pissed me off so on the way back home we had a strong argument and and little by little everything was fading.... on november we had a strong fight and after that she stopped talking to me for like 2 weeks.... then we decided to be just friends but on a friday night we had sex again.... then after a week she didnt talk to me at all and to this day I dont know why..... but then we had a party at work.... and thats when it all ended.... she was extremely drunk and could barely walk... so she danced with a co worker and kissed him in the cheek and then I lost it..... I grabbed a full jack daniels bottle and I was going to smash it in his head but a supervisor stopped me....
after that night I sent her a horrible message, I told her that when I was working at a bar I used to work with whores and that I never saw anything like that... specially because the co worker was xremely ugly... he really loooks like a chimp.....after 2 weeks I sent her an apology text and she said that she could not forget what I said, then on christmas she texted me with a "merry christmas, you".... but thats it then I couldnt stand seeing her everyday so I decided to quit my job
Now I cant find a motivation to train.... and I really want to be her friend again.... I would hate to lose her.... I sent her a song via text (I wrote it myself)... I knew that she spent new year with her friends, including that chimp that danced with her that night and I am not sure if she slept with that "man" I called her in new year and also sent her a message... and I got no response from her.......
is it possible to get her back? its been a month!!!! also, any tips to keep my motivation up..... I have no job and no girl..... she was extremely cool
I really hope someone can give me any advice here.... It may be a stupid thread but It also feels good to write it down...
First of all I have 0 motivation and here is why...
On july I started a new job, and everything was going great, I also met a very hot woman at work that caught my eye (5 years older than me, she is 32), we both were hired at the same time.
so after 2 weeks on a friday night (after work), we went to a bar, me, her and a female friend of us (coworker too).we both got really drunk that day, at 3 am we called a taxi for us so while we were on the taxi my girl got uncounsious, she was sleeping so I decided to bring her to my house.... once we arrived we fell asleep in my bed....then we woke up at 12 pm and thats when it all started... we were in bed talking and laughing about what happened while holding our hands...and then I started to kiss her and yes... we had sex and it was amazing (thanks to the Tren!).... so after we finished, I bought her a coffee and took her back to her place... then that weekend we didnt talk at all...
On monday she wanted to talk to me so we went out for lunch and we had a conversation, she started crying and told me that she felt guilty because shes been in a relationship for 8 years, but now she cant stop thinking about me.... I felt guilty at that moment,... then after that day, we were going out together, we spent so much time every single day, we also texted each other everyday..... and I knew that on weekends she was still seeing her boyfriend (and I was ok with that).... so for 2 months everything was good except that some times she treated me badly... not sure why... but still we were always together... then I started to feel something strong for her... it was an obsession and suddenly I was in love with her... and thats when all problems started... I was going crazy and felt jealous if someone apprached her at work (I was almost involved in a few fights at work)... and she told me that she hated that--- so then one friday night she went out to a party with her boyfriend (a birhtday of a mutual friend of both) and I told her that it was ok as long as she allow me to pick her up after the party... that night she didnt call.... and I started to text her a lot like a psycho.... thats when she broke up with me.... after that night, wverything was virtually the same but she was distant at the same time,however she told me that she had strong feelings for me, but after that we didnt have sex anymore, she would just ocasionaly allow me to kiss her.....
on october, everything started going down.... we went to a party and she was distant.... she danced with 2 different guys (co workers) and that really pissed me off so on the way back home we had a strong argument and and little by little everything was fading.... on november we had a strong fight and after that she stopped talking to me for like 2 weeks.... then we decided to be just friends but on a friday night we had sex again.... then after a week she didnt talk to me at all and to this day I dont know why..... but then we had a party at work.... and thats when it all ended.... she was extremely drunk and could barely walk... so she danced with a co worker and kissed him in the cheek and then I lost it..... I grabbed a full jack daniels bottle and I was going to smash it in his head but a supervisor stopped me....
after that night I sent her a horrible message, I told her that when I was working at a bar I used to work with whores and that I never saw anything like that... specially because the co worker was xremely ugly... he really loooks like a chimp.....after 2 weeks I sent her an apology text and she said that she could not forget what I said, then on christmas she texted me with a "merry christmas, you".... but thats it then I couldnt stand seeing her everyday so I decided to quit my job
Now I cant find a motivation to train.... and I really want to be her friend again.... I would hate to lose her.... I sent her a song via text (I wrote it myself)... I knew that she spent new year with her friends, including that chimp that danced with her that night and I am not sure if she slept with that "man" I called her in new year and also sent her a message... and I got no response from her.......
is it possible to get her back? its been a month!!!! also, any tips to keep my motivation up..... I have no job and no girl..... she was extremely cool
I really hope someone can give me any advice here.... It may be a stupid thread but It also feels good to write it down...