I am just looking for some opinions on what some of you guys would do in my situation. One of my friends from high school is getting married. At one time we were best friends and as the years went on we drifted apart. Last time we hung out was about 2009. It had gotten to the point where we went over a year without any communication. Sometime last year I got a text from him asking my address so he could send me a save the date for his wedding. A month ago I got a call about the bachelor party. It is an all day event and rather expensive with an overnight stay at a resort.
I am looking for some of your opinions on what you would do in this situation ? There was a group of about 4 of us that were very good friends in High school and into the mid 2000's. I hear from one of them every other month and the other two, as I said go years without any communication.
I am not in the wedding party, and I am having reservations about going on this bachelor party. I feel it would be a little awkward since I barely communicate with them but I am also feel like I am obligated since we were once best friends.
Any advice or opinions would be great.
I am looking for some of your opinions on what you would do in this situation ? There was a group of about 4 of us that were very good friends in High school and into the mid 2000's. I hear from one of them every other month and the other two, as I said go years without any communication.
I am not in the wedding party, and I am having reservations about going on this bachelor party. I feel it would be a little awkward since I barely communicate with them but I am also feel like I am obligated since we were once best friends.
Any advice or opinions would be great.