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    Libido issues and dating: how to handle?


    I guess I want my cake, and to eat it too.

    I want to use steroids, even harsh compounds that I know could potentailly wreck my libido to the point of being unable to perform.

    Drugs like cialis and viagra can help, but the truth is they don't magically give you erections; you still need the drive.

    It's just so humiliating when you can't perform, how do you conduct yourself when that happens?

    I mean, sex is not my concern here; it's keeping the woman around.

    How do you handle it? because you for sure can't say you use steroids.

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    Quote Originally Posted by harbonah View Post
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    ^this for sure. I hear good things about Trest and Ment, or things like 4DHEA. Also dont beat your meat save your solders for battle and you will be more likely to preform. Im sure you know that if you give a girl an O there is no way she will go. But if you cant play she wont stay!
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    My test e cycle made me a porn star. I couldn't keep my dog down. With proper pct and some patience you shouldn't have any problems but before you concern yourself with doing a cycle or the side effects you need to do your homework , alot of homework. Just that posted this says that you aren't ready in a few ways.
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    Let's see....add some mass, or lose a nice piece of ass....pretty easy call. I wouldn't take anything if it had the potential of messing with my sex life. That makes no damn sense at all.
    Abs on a skinny dude are like tits on a fat chick....it doesn't count.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SXIPro View Post
    I wouldn't take anything if it had the potential of messing with my sex life. That makes no damn sense at all.
    Truer words were never spoken.

    A great body but floppy fella is the male equivalent of a woman in one of those fat compression outfits... It's false advertising and is going to lead to immense disappointment for both parties. No woman wants to go home with you only to spend an evening with you sobbing uncontrollably whilst trying to thumb in a softie!
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    SO you're on cycle now?..or off?..or looking for advice before you start anything that is?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikeg313 View Post
    With proper pct and some patience you shouldn't have any problems but before you concern yourself with doing a cycle or the side effects you need to do your homework , alot of homework. Just that posted this says that you aren't ready in a few ways.
    I've already done several cycles, and I'm on a test cycle right now.

    I know exactly what PCT is, but I've had libido issues after completing cycles before.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SXIPro View Post
    Let's see....add some mass, or lose a nice piece of ass....pretty easy call. I wouldn't take anything if it had the potential of messing with my sex life. That makes no damn sense at all.
    I don't care about sex; I just want to be jacked. But I'm also lonely sometimes.

    Sad that girls are shallow, and will only stick around for sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by R1187 View Post
    I don't care about sex; I just want to be jacked. But I'm also lonely sometimes.

    Sad that girls are shallow, and will only stick around for sex.
    Good luck bro.
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    The main problem its not in your dick or your hormonal levels, its in your head. You need to have confidence that your winnie will perform. Once you start thinking you will have sex issues, you will most likely have them. Its like a reverse placebo effect haha. But seriously, trust me on this one.
    Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FranARG View Post
    The main problem its not in your dick or your hormonal levels, its in your head. You need to have confidence that your winnie will perform. Once you start thinking you will have sex issues, you will most likely have them. Its like a reverse placebo effect haha. But seriously, trust me on this one.
    Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by R1187 View Post
    I don't care about sex; I just want to be jacked. But I'm also lonely sometimes.

    Sad that girls are shallow, and will only stick around for sex.
    Man Card revoked.
    Abs on a skinny dude are like tits on a fat chick....it doesn't count.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SXIPro View Post
    Man Card revoked.
    You can say that, however I find it strange men claim to be all about sex and yet most of them do enter into long term relationships.

    If it was really just about sex, wouldn't they stay single and just sleep with multiple women?
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    Quote Originally Posted by FranARG View Post
    The main problem its not in your dick or your hormonal levels, its in your head. You need to have confidence that your winnie will perform. Once you start thinking you will have sex issues, you will most likely have them. Its like a reverse placebo effect haha. But seriously, trust me on this one.
    Good luck.
    There's much truth in what you say. Mental issues have a strange way of manifesting themselves as physical symptoms.
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    Quote Originally Posted by R1187 View Post
    There's much truth in what you say. Mental issues have a strange way of manifesting themselves as physical symptoms.
    God If I could only mental issue my way to an instant 225 and 8% body fat that would be great.
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    Quote Originally Posted by R1187 View Post
    There's much truth in what you say. Mental issues have a strange way of manifesting themselves as physical symptoms.
    Yeap, of course. And in this particular subject, even more. If you are with a girl about to have a sexey time (borat voice) and you are constantly thinking your tool will let you down, you cant concentrate on the sexey time, and in turn your dick will turn into a gummy bear.
    Just go for it, dont think too much.
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    You're on test and your libido is down? How's your estrogen? Are you not getting erections or weak erections? Goji berries and tongkat Ali are a staple for me and help keep me going during a cycle. But I'd look into your estrogen levels.
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    Quote Originally Posted by beastybean View Post
    You're on test and your libido is down? How's your estrogen? Are you not getting erections or weak erections? Goji berries and tongkat Ali are a staple for me and help keep me going during a cycle. But I'd look into your estrogen levels.
    No, my libidos been fine. Cycle is about to come to a close though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by R1187 View Post
    No, my libidos been fine. Cycle is about to come to a close though.
    Have you used hcg and if not stay on get some and hit it for a few weeks before going into PCT. Also switch to a short ester the last 3 weeks like prop or so I have read that these things work for some....

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    Quote Originally Posted by R1187 View Post
    I guess I want my cake, and to eat it too.

    I want to use steroids, even harsh compounds that I know could potentailly wreck my libido to the point of being unable to perform.

    Drugs like cialis and viagra can help, but the truth is they don't magically give you erections; you still need the drive.

    It's just so humiliating when you can't perform, how do you conduct yourself when that happens?

    I mean, sex is not my concern here; it's keeping the woman around.

    How do you handle it? because you for sure can't say you use steroids.
    75mgs of proviron ED for 7 days then 25mgs ED this will do the trick!
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    If you can't be open with your woman and tell her about your usage, it's already over.

    Focus on improving yourself first. The right woman will come around. If sex is the only thing keeping her there, it wont last long anyways.

    Adding more and more drugs to combat side effects is not a good place to be. Don't fall into that trap.
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    I had just came off pct when I met the woman who became my wife and I had some issues I was open about it and the reason for the issues turned out she liked me for more then just my sexy body and I ordered some chainsaw and ball refill which as funny as the names and averts for are work as advertised now we're married and have an almost two year old son also she doesn't mind me juicing and is OK with me smoking weed.

    Point is be honest with ur girl, get some libido enhancing supps(really can't recommend chainsaw and ball refill enough that **** goes hard pun intended) and if she actually digs you she won't trip about the extra stuff that goes along with this lifestyle
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    Quote Originally Posted by Oscar View Post
    I had just came off pct when I met the woman who became my wife and I had some issues I was open about it and the reason for the issues turned out she liked me for more then just my sexy body and I ordered some chainsaw and ball refill which as funny as the names and averts for are work as advertised now we're married and have an almost two year old son also she doesn't mind me juicing and is OK with me smoking weed. Point is be honest with ur girl, get some libido enhancing supps(really can't recommend chainsaw and ball refill enough that **** goes hard pun intended) and if she actually digs you she won't trip about the extra stuff that goes along with this lifestyle
    i just looked up chainsaw and ball refill. It's billed as the sexual massacre stack..... Very funny
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack_black View Post
    i just looked up chainsaw and ball refill. It's billed as the sexual massacre stack..... Very funny
    Works as advertised though lol
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    Man, if you're worried about keeping her around, there's other ways to satisfy her and give her an orgasm. I'd suggest focusing on making her cum more frequently, like daily or EOD, and then save your load for when you're ready to go, like once/twice a week. I mean, any sane girl would appreciate a guy going down on her on a daly basis, but only knocking it out once or twice a week. If you take the mentality that all you care about is pleasing her, she'll stick around.
  

  
 

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