How do you guys act with chicks and how much "fun" do you get?
- 01-19-2011, 10:50 AM
How do you guys act with chicks and how much "fun" do you get?
im really curious bros on how you guys treat girls and how much punnany you get. i wonder if the jerks get a ton of punnany and nice guys get little punnany. can you guys chime in? im trying to develop a hypothesis. lol.The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you do.
- 01-19-2011, 11:11 AM
IRL, I'm a very very nice guy. I may have some radical views, but when it comes to treating a lady, I'm quite old fashioned. I let her pick, I hold the door, I pay for dinner. I not only buy roses, but I've been known on very rare occasions to paint them. (I've only painted 2 perfect roses. 1 was given to my GF in college just before I thought she was moving across the country, ending the relationship. Turns out she didn't, and we're now married! The other lays 6 feet in the ground with my grandmother.) I'm not whipped by any means as I'm too big of a personality to ever be totally dominated, but I do show a hell of a lot of consideration to the opposite sex.
That being said, it's very true that nice guys finish last. Ugh...
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- 01-19-2011, 11:39 AM
I like to stare at them without blinking while simultaneously giggling. It shows that creepy can also equal fun times.
If that doesn't work then I'll buy them an Enrique Inglesias CD.
01-19-2011, 12:03 PM
I've been with the same chick for 4 years . Got engaged in September!
Anyway, since I've been with her I haven't really attempted to talk to other girls. (try to be faithful most the time) In fact when dealing with woman I am kind of rude and arrogant... Well, since I've taken that stance with chicks, they DO NOT leave me alone lol I had a chick at the gym a few weeks ago ask me out for a drink and when I told her I don't drink / I'm engaged she said something along the lines of "look I don't want to marry you wanna go home with me or not!" haha
So go get yourself a ring and start being mean to chicks!
01-19-2011, 12:17 PM
When you're in a relationship women throw themselves at you, it's a vicious cycle. When you're single women can tell as well. You wear that single look with your shoulders slumped and you look like you stayed up till 4 in the morning looking at bangbus clips...sad.
01-19-2011, 12:37 PM
lol^^^. What's single? Is that when my balls weren't worn around the neck of a 5 foot tall 110 pound italian beauty but rather hanging lows between my legs swinging freely?
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01-19-2011, 01:03 PM
depends on the girl. if she's arrogant and knows she's the sh*t, the last thing you want to do is smother her with compliments and kindness. Confidence, sarcasm, and witiness will land you said slampiece.
However, i've had a ton of success being the "big teddy bear" type also. Girls think your a shallow meat head at first site, but then you pull them in with some intellect and cute jokes, and it's over.
i've been with the same girl for a while now, but still like to play wingman and pull ass with the guys, then send them packing once i know i could hit it lol.
01-19-2011, 03:24 PM
This...didn't have skills or get hit on before I was married, and don't have skills, or get hit on now. The only girl to ever hit on me is my wife...and by hit on, I mean she looked me up on facebook. I don't know what I'm missing, but chicks just don't see me ;-) Not that it is a bad thing now that I have my Bride!
01-19-2011, 03:38 PM
A wise man once said " I don't love dem hoes". Sir Calvin Broadus aka Snoop Dogg. Women notice you when you refuse to notice them. If that doesn't work then I suggest chatroulette because honestly they have to notice you at that point.
01-19-2011, 03:45 PM
I thinks its more about the individual. I know tons of serious builders that are douches but also tons that are actually good nice guys. We may have more test than others but I still think it lies in the individual. I'm a one woman man.
01-19-2011, 04:45 PM
when im single i do very well, usually by just not showing any interest. ill give my number out but will never ask for theirs. if they ask to hang out im probably busy. if they suspect that i wanna get with them...."no you are just my friend, never even thought about getting with you". if they make fun of some dude's game, i do the complete opposite of what he was doing. never offer to buy anything until you are together or already banged. i just become friends with girls and when they see that im not actively trying to get with me they start wondering why. plus it helps that i still live right off campus of a university with my boys even though i graduated 3 yrs ago LOL
now i got an awesome girl but to get her required the same weird cat and mouse game. first night we hung out she ended up at my house until 8 am and even though we didnt hook up, the next day through text she insisted that my body language suggested that i wanted to. to which i replied with the usual "friend" response and that shes the one sweating my nutz and all the sudden, according to her, i separated myself from all the pathetic douches that call her and ask her to dinner. funny how girls work.
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01-19-2011, 04:57 PM
I've got an awesome chick for almost 2yrs now thats hot and listens to metal...the fact that she's into hard rock/metal is pry the biggest turn on lol, b/c thats pretty damn rare to find a hot chick down in south fl that isn't into the club scene.
I'm ****y but in a fun way and girls seem to love that.
01-19-2011, 05:24 PM
I like to go to a bar alone, just around closing and ask a woman..."will you be walking home alone tonight"? It shows her that stalking is just another way of saying..."hey I don't mind putting in work if it means I land some tail".
01-19-2011, 05:27 PM
01-19-2011, 05:28 PM
It matters man. Some chicks do really like *******s, but very rare, and some like manly mans. Long story short when you get in a relationship or if you want to keep them you gotta be nice and gentle but for winning them over different approach. I can be a super nice guy and get laid left and right but if she sees me talking to other people she'll now that I stand my ground.
01-19-2011, 06:07 PM
01-19-2011, 06:10 PM
It all depends on who you're talking to / going after - a girl or a woman. Now, this does not mean that either is excluded from being either shallow, stupid, immature or the exact opposite of all of those.
I like T-AD's response in the first reply. I've always been old-fashioned and my thoughts on dating or women aren't typically that of most other people I've talked to. My Master's work is in communication and sadly, I know just how to manipulate people into the palm of my hand for the most part if I really want to - I just don't want to lol.
It also depends on your setting. I unfortunately spent 6 years in a college town where booze and sex were the number 1 and 2 things (both of which are interchangeable in order) on 98% of peoples' minds. I'm in the minority by using the word "unfortunately" in that sentence, I know.
I don't know one night stands or hookups; not my style (not that I haven't had the urge).
Basically what I'm getting at is if you're around a bunch of younger girls or even older women who have a party mindset and they're looking for eye-candy - be short with them, act uninterested and they'll want you even more. If you're looking for a woman you can respect and hold onto - treat her the way she deserves to be treated.
Psalm 34:10 - "The lions may grow weak and hungry, but those who seek the Lord lack no good thing."
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01-19-2011, 06:11 PM
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01-19-2011, 11:55 PM
hey guys is this bad?
when i really like a girl i tend to open up to her a lot, like i tell her a bunch of stuff that i dont usually tell other girls, its almost like i sub conciously want to make them pity me, but im not doing it on purpose. i think it is bad but idk what do you guys think? i also tend to be hecka nice when i like a girl that i want to keep. like borderline too nice and i act kinda sentimental. but when im just having fun i act like a straight player.
The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you do.
01-19-2011, 11:58 PM
01-20-2011, 12:00 AM
I act like i'm not interested, which only works 10% of the time. The nice guy approach is just a hell of a lot of work.
01-20-2011, 12:05 AM
I'm Jk bro lol
Just make sure she's a keeper before telling her your deepest secrets. Question, are you close with your mom?
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