How do you guys act with chicks and how much "fun" do you get?

[rochabp]

im really curious bros on how you guys treat girls and how much punnany you get. i wonder if the jerks get a ton of punnany and nice guys get little punnany. can you guys chime in? im trying to develop a hypothesis. lol.

 

[T-AD]

IRL, I'm a very very nice guy. I may have some radical views, but when it comes to treating a lady, I'm quite old fashioned. I let her pick, I hold the door, I pay for dinner. I not only buy roses, but I've been known on very rare occasions to paint them. (I've only painted 2 perfect roses. 1 was given to my GF in college just before I thought she was moving across the country, ending the relationship. Turns out she didn't, and we're now married! The other lays 6 feet in the ground with my grandmother.) I'm not whipped by any means as I'm too big of a personality to ever be totally dominated, but I do show a hell of a lot of consideration to the opposite sex.

That being said, it's very true that nice guys finish last. Ugh...

:nutkick: :lol:

 

[southpaw23]

I like to stare at them without blinking while simultaneously giggling. It shows that creepy can also equal fun times.

If that doesn't work then I'll buy them an Enrique Inglesias CD.

 

[StackedCop]

I've been with the same chick for 4 years

. Got engaged in September!

Anyway, since I've been with her I haven't really attempted to talk to other girls. (try to be faithful most the time) In fact when dealing with woman I am kind of rude and arrogant... Well, since I've taken that stance with chicks, they DO NOT leave me alone lol I had a chick at the gym a few weeks ago ask me out for a drink and when I told her I don't drink / I'm engaged she said something along the lines of "look I don't want to marry you wanna go home with me or not!" haha

So go get yourself a ring and start being mean to chicks!

 

[southpaw23]

When you're in a relationship women throw themselves at you, it's a vicious cycle. When you're single women can tell as well. You wear that single look with your shoulders slumped and you look like you stayed up till 4 in the morning looking at bangbus clips...sad.

 

[StackedCop]

lol^^^. What's single? Is that when my balls weren't worn around the neck of a 5 foot tall 110 pound italian beauty but rather hanging lows between my legs swinging freely?

 

[southpaw23]

lol^^^. What's single? Is that when my balls weren't worn around the neck of a 5 foot tall 110 pound italian beauty but rather hanging lows between my legs swinging freely?

I like your version of single much better.

 

[StackedCop]

I like your version of single much better.

Maybe it's Bc I'm a brazzersDOTcom man.. There's something strange about you bangbros dudes!! Lol

 

[T-AD]

Maybe it's Bc I'm a brazzersDOTcom man.. There's something strange about you bangbros dudes!! Lol

Must be nice. Pron does absolutely nothing for me. I'm more hands-on, except not my hands.

 

[StackedCop]

Must be nice. Pron does absolutely nothing for me. I'm more hands-on, except not my hands.

There's days I'll have sex twice and still kick back to a fu*k flick ... I know TMI!!! But I had to come back!!!

I've been watching porn for like 10 years! It's a part of my life just like woman, work and bodybuilding lol

 

[southpaw23]

Maybe it's Bc I'm a brazzersDOTcom man.. There's something strange about you bangbros dudes!! Lol

Wait wait first of all my porn is classy, they all dress up in bear costumes.

 

[southpaw23]

Must be nice. Pron does absolutely nothing for me. I'm more hands-on, except not my hands.

One time the lights were off and I thought I was having a 3some because I felt all these hands. I flipped the lights on and it turns out I was alone the entire time, but it's still a good story.

 

[Movin_weight]

depends on the girl. if she's arrogant and knows she's the sh*t, the last thing you want to do is smother her with compliments and kindness. Confidence, sarcasm, and witiness will land you said slampiece.

However, i've had a ton of success being the "big teddy bear" type also. Girls think your a shallow meat head at first site, but then you pull them in with some intellect and cute jokes, and it's over.

i've been with the same girl for a while now, but still like to play wingman and pull ass with the guys, then send them packing once i know i could hit it lol.

 

[drivehard]

IRL, I'm a very very nice guy. I may have some radical views, but when it comes to treating a lady, I'm quite old fashioned. I let her pick, I hold the door, I pay for dinner. I not only buy roses, but I've been known on very rare occasions to paint them. (I've only painted 2 perfect roses. 1 was given to my GF in college just before I thought she was moving across the country, ending the relationship. Turns out she didn't, and we're now married! The other lays 6 feet in the ground with my grandmother.) I'm not whipped by any means as I'm too big of a personality to ever be totally dominated, but I do show a hell of a lot of consideration to the opposite sex.

That being said, it's very true that nice guys finish last. Ugh...

:nutkick: :lol:

This...didn't have skills or get hit on before I was married, and don't have skills, or get hit on now. The only girl to ever hit on me is my wife...and by hit on, I mean she looked me up on facebook. I don't know what I'm missing, but chicks just don't see me ;-) Not that it is a bad thing now that I have my Bride!

 

[southpaw23]

A wise man once said " I don't love dem hoes". Sir Calvin Broadus aka Snoop Dogg. Women notice you when you refuse to notice them. If that doesn't work then I suggest chatroulette because honestly they have to notice you at that point.

 

[Footballmike]

I thinks its more about the individual. I know tons of serious builders that are douches but also tons that are actually good nice guys. We may have more test than others but I still think it lies in the individual. I'm a one woman man.

 

[AntonG42O]

when im single i do very well, usually by just not showing any interest. ill give my number out but will never ask for theirs. if they ask to hang out im probably busy. if they suspect that i wanna get with them...."no you are just my friend, never even thought about getting with you". if they make fun of some dude's game, i do the complete opposite of what he was doing. never offer to buy anything until you are together or already banged. i just become friends with girls and when they see that im not actively trying to get with me they start wondering why. plus it helps that i still live right off campus of a university with my boys even though i graduated 3 yrs ago LOL

now i got an awesome girl but to get her required the same weird cat and mouse game. first night we hung out she ended up at my house until 8 am and even though we didnt hook up, the next day through text she insisted that my body language suggested that i wanted to. to which i replied with the usual "friend" response and that shes the one sweating my nutz and all the sudden, according to her, i separated myself from all the pathetic douches that call her and ask her to dinner. funny how girls work.

 

[ChrisSurf]

Must be nice. Pron does absolutely nothing for me. I'm more hands-on, except not my hands.

I'm the same, porn is kinda borring to me, I mean 99% of the chicks aren't even hot and even the ones that are that punnany's that look like they've gone through a trash compactor :crazy:

I've got an awesome chick for almost 2yrs now thats hot and listens to metal...the fact that she's into hard rock/metal is pry the biggest turn on lol, b/c thats pretty damn rare to find a hot chick down in south fl that isn't into the club scene.

I'm ****y but in a fun way and girls seem to love that.

 

[southpaw23]

I like to go to a bar alone, just around closing and ask a woman..."will you be walking home alone tonight"? It shows her that stalking is just another way of saying..."hey I don't mind putting in work if it means I land some tail".

 

[AntonG42O]

I like to go to a bar alone, just around closing and ask a woman..."will you be walking home alone tonight"? It shows her that stalking is just another way of saying..."hey I don't mind putting in work if it means I land some tail".

lol that would only work in the south...unless thats a joke

 

[luelinks]

It matters man. Some chicks do really like *******s, but very rare, and some like manly mans. Long story short when you get in a relationship or if you want to keep them you gotta be nice and gentle but for winning them over different approach. I can be a super nice guy and get laid left and right but if she sees me talking to other people she'll now that I stand my ground.

 

[southpaw23]

lol that would only work in the south...unless thats a joke

Yeh it was a joke seemed funny in my head at the time lol.

 

[MidwestBeast]

It all depends on who you're talking to / going after - a girl or a woman. Now, this does not mean that either is excluded from being either shallow, stupid, immature or the exact opposite of all of those.

I like T-AD's response in the first reply. I've always been old-fashioned and my thoughts on dating or women aren't typically that of most other people I've talked to. My Master's work is in communication and sadly, I know just how to manipulate people into the palm of my hand for the most part if I really want to - I just don't want to lol.

It also depends on your setting. I unfortunately spent 6 years in a college town where booze and sex were the number 1 and 2 things (both of which are interchangeable in order) on 98% of peoples' minds. I'm in the minority by using the word "unfortunately" in that sentence, I know.

I don't know one night stands or hookups; not my style (not that I haven't had the urge).

Basically what I'm getting at is if you're around a bunch of younger girls or even older women who have a party mindset and they're looking for eye-candy - be short with them, act uninterested and they'll want you even more. If you're looking for a woman you can respect and hold onto - treat her the way she deserves to be treated.

 

[AntonG42O]

Yeh it was a joke seemed funny in my head at the time lol.

hey i bet if you did that 100 times, 1 really drunk one will probably ask for it. maybe even 10.. to think of it.....this is genius! hahaha

 

[southpaw23]

hey i bet if you did that 100 times, 1 really drunk one will probably ask for it. maybe even 10.. to think of it.....this is genius! hahaha

Lol a friend of mine once asked a girl "hey you walking home alone tonight? Do you mind if I follow you in my car with the lights off, just to make sure you get home safe?"

 

[rochabp]

lmao you guys are crazy

 

[rochabp]

hey guys is this bad?
when i really like a girl i tend to open up to her a lot, like i tell her a bunch of stuff that i dont usually tell other girls, its almost like i sub conciously want to make them pity me, but im not doing it on purpose. i think it is bad but idk what do you guys think? i also tend to be hecka nice when i like a girl that i want to keep. like borderline too nice and i act kinda sentimental. but when im just having fun i act like a straight player.

 

[StackedCop]

Rochelle... What did you do with Rochap!?!

 

[Bry17]

I act like i'm not interested, which only works 10% of the time. The nice guy approach is just a hell of a lot of work.

 

[StackedCop]

I'm Jk bro lol

Just make sure she's a keeper before telling her your deepest secrets. Question, are you close with your mom?

 

[rochabp]

I'm Jk bro lol

Just make sure she's a keeper before telling her your deepest secrets. Question, are you close with your mom?

lol

no i hate my mom, i seriously do i can give two sh1ts less about her

 

[StackedCop]

lol

no i hate my mom, i seriously do i can give two sh1ts less about her

I'm not dr phil or nothing but that's probable why you open up to chicks. I'm kinda the same way my mom bailed when I was 13 lol

 

[rochabp]

hmm never thought of that so im looking for love i never got from my mom?

but something is missing...i also have a side of me that says "all women are hoes" like i can be a really gentle loving guy and really romantic or i can be a straight up a hole and disrespect women with a cold heart. its never in between its either one or the other. like ive straight up laughed in a chicks faced when she said she liked me, and she was hecka pretty too, i know thats horrible but she was kinda a hoe.

idk im so weird.
like when a girls disrespects me or gets on my bad side i lose any type of love and move onto the next one i never beg or plee

 

[FL3X MAGNUM]

Well...I've always got more chicks and more "fun" by just looking out for me. Some say that's being an ass, but it is what it is I guess.

If you're a ****, not overly, but just the right amount of *******, the girl is either gonna run the other way or go out of her way to prove to you that she's worth some manners, and you're gonna get laid lol. That's why it's like fishing. If you go to a club and look at a girl and beckon her over with your hand, she's either gonna blow you off, or come see what you want. If you asked 10 girls at the club if they're dtf, one's gonna at least say MAYBE.

Being a **** just works I guess. You don't have to go out of your way to mind your manners. You can just go about your day worrying about you and you only.

 

[rochabp]

Well...I've always got more chicks and more "fun" by just looking out for me. Some say that's being an ass, but it is what it is I guess.

If you're a ****, not overly, but just the right amount of *******, the girl is either gonna run the other way or go out of her way to prove to you that she's worth some manners, and you're gonna get laid lol. That's why it's like fishing. If you go to a club and look at a girl and beckon her over with your hand, she's either gonna blow you off, or come see what you want. If you asked 10 girls at the club if they're dtf, one's gonna at least say MAYBE.

Being a **** just works I guess. You don't have to go out of your way to mind your manners. You can just go about your day worrying about you and you only.

exactly
i can be like that with girls i dont take seriously but if i really like a girl im way too nice and sentimental and tell her everything.

 

[toughchick401]

wow....always interesting to see how men think.....lol

TC

 

[Bry17]

wow....always interesting to see how men think.....lol

TC

you're tall for a girl

 

[FL3X MAGNUM]

exactly
i can be like that with girls i dont take seriously but if i really like a girl im way too nice and sentimental and tell her everything.

Ahhh I hate that! I know exactly where you're coming from. The way it works for me is the girl sparks her interest because of how she met me and the kinda guy I am, then she finally one day convinces me it's ok to have feelings and share my emotions and next thing you know I'm banging another girl cuz the b!tch says she liked the old me better and I need to not worry so much etc etc. Girls are only good for three things man. Cooking, cleaning, and 69 lol. They'll be the death of us, indefinitely.

:friday:

 

[FL3X MAGNUM]

wow....always interesting to see how men think.....lol

TC

I'd assume they think just like women, just more aggresively

And fyi women are more likely to cheat than men!!

 

[StackedCop]

wow....always interesting to see how men think.....lol

TC

This is classic!!!

 

[mich29]

im really curious bros on how you guys treat girls and how much punnany you get. i wonder if the jerks get a ton of punnany and nice guys get little punnany. can you guys chime in? im trying to develop a hypothesis. lol.

a woman will tell you exactly how to treat her so it varies by the woman.far as punnay in my day I was legendary. to answer your question for your hypothesis its a mix of the 2 in order to be very successful.

 

[rochabp]

Ahhh I hate that! I know exactly where you're coming from. The way it works for me is the girl sparks her interest because of how she met me and the kinda guy I am, then she finally one day convinces me it's ok to have feelings and share my emotions and next thing you know I'm banging another girl cuz the b!tch says she liked the old me better and I need to not worry so much etc etc. Girls are only good for three things man. Cooking, cleaning, and 69 lol. They'll be the death of us, indefinitely.

:friday:

bro we have so much in common its scary, lol

wow....always interesting to see how men think.....lol

TC

its womens fault i think like this, girls in high school, always hit on me telling me i was the cuttest guy they ever saw and i was a total sweetheart to them, i treated them so nice and you know what that got me? broken heart time and time again, so hey girls wanna know why guys are jerks make take a look in the mirror.
no offense to you personally but it kinda bothers me when girls say "all guys are the same" or "guys (sigh)" cuz im like "WTF"

a woman will tell you exactly how to treat her so it varies by the woman.far as punnay in my day I was legendary. to answer your question for your hypothesis its a mix of the 2 in order to be very successful.

i gotta try that

 

[T-AD]

its womens fault i think like this, girls in high school, always hit on me telling me i was the cuttest guy they ever saw and i was a total sweetheart to them, i treated them so nice and you know what that got me? broken heart time and time again, so hey girls wanna know why guys are jerks make take a look in the mirror.
no offense to you personally but it kinda bothers me when girls say "all guys are the same" or "guys (sigh)" cuz im like "WTF"

Amen to that!!

Back in the day, many of my friends in HS were women. I clicked more with them than the jocks (being an artsy musicy guy, I guess), but was always stuck in the friendzone. I watched countless numbers of them get treated poorly by their boyfriends and never wanted to be like that. So, I was there for them as a friend. And where did that get me? Friendzone exclusivity. It's not in me to be a player or a jerk, so I guess I'm glad I'm off the market nowadays, eventhough I think I honeslty look better than I ever have! :lol:

 

[southpaw23]

Try to play the heroic role. Women like guys who are take charge. Tell her you tried to save Tupac after he was shot, but you didn't make in time and not to worry he still has 89 albums that will be released over the next millennium.

 

[lennoxchi]

IRL, I'm a very very nice guy. I may have some radical views, but when it comes to treating a lady, I'm quite old fashioned. I let her pick, I hold the door, I pay for dinner. I not only buy roses, but I've been known on very rare occasions to paint them. (I've only painted 2 perfect roses. 1 was given to my GF in college just before I thought she was moving across the country, ending the relationship. Turns out she didn't, and we're now married! The other lays 6 feet in the ground with my grandmother.) I'm not whipped by any means as I'm too big of a personality to ever be totally dominated, but I do show a hell of a lot of consideration to the opposite sex.

That being said, it's very true that nice guys finish last. Ugh...

:nutkick: :lol:

i'm exactly like T on this one. i wasn't allways though, when i was more of a **** i got more kitty but then i hit a point in my life where i realized there's more than just sleeping with a woman, they actually have thoughts and can be funny and everything (i know, who would have thought huh?).

i told my current GF (whom i will marry in the next couple of years here) "do not mistake kindness for weakness, i am a gentleman because of how you treat me but i can be a **** if i choose too:mischievous:, you treat me well, i treat you well it's that simple"

she pays for dinner sometimes and i pay others, she cooks for me, i fix something around her house. it's not a trade off exactly, meaning i don't ask her to do things and then use what she needs done as some kind of bargining chip, but it's unspoken between us, working towards a common goal, again, she takes care of me and i do the same, partnership if you will. some guys might get to that point with a woman, some will chase skirts til the day they die, and those who do will probably die alone...think 55 years old chasing a 25 year old...c'mon man, can it be done? sure but if all you want from a woman is sex you can allways get a whore.

and T-AD you say nice guys finish last? i disagree, you have treated a woman like a human being and entered into a life long commitment by making her you're wife and you call that "finishing last". NO SIR, you just entered a different race than the one you were in, one that is still going forward. don't take her for granted or your relationship either(not saying you do), cause the race might end before it should.

 

[pechuga626]

Like the saying goes"treat em like dirt and they'll stick to u like mud" lol

 

[T-AD]

and T-AD you say nice guys finish last? i disagree, you have treated a woman like a human being and entered into a life long commitment by making her you're wife and you call that "finishing last". NO SIR, you just entered a different race than the one you were in, one that is still going forward. don't take her for granted or your relationship either(not saying you do), cause the race might end before it should.

I'll agree with ya on that one, man. For better or for worse. At the end of the day, I'm happy. :cheers:

 

[AntonG42O]

exactly
i can be like that with girls i dont take seriously but if i really like a girl im way too nice and sentimental and tell her everything.

fight the urge!!! its a beautiful thing that you develop feelings and open up, but too early and it may turn them off. keep acting somewhat un interested until you either smash or get very very close (or both).

 

[southpaw23]

I like to tell women that I have high estrogen levels and that I own the entire Twilight series, it makes me look relatable.

 

[luelinks]

its womens fault i think like this, girls in high school, always hit on me telling me i was the cuttest guy they ever saw and i was a total sweetheart to them, i treated them so nice and you know what that got me? broken heart time and time again, so hey girls wanna know why guys are jerks make take a look in the mirror.
no offense to you personally but it kinda bothers me when girls say "all guys are the same" or "guys (sigh)" cuz im like "WTF"

That is so ****ing true bro. Everytime I am nice to a girl, from the begining, I get treaded like **** but if I'm a douche first and then nice or borderline of both they come by like there is no tomorrow. And that's not just american girls...that girls from anywhere.