[glockgod]

Guess it all depends on her maturity level and how good your communications are. I think that if I had to do a ldr with my current gf I would be made aware that she's interested in having sex with other people before it actually happened which allieviates a lot of stress

[rugger48]

Wasn't joking

[toughchick401]

Guess it all depends on her maturity level and how good your communications are. I think that if I had to do a ldr with my current gf I would be made aware that she's interested in having sex with other people before it actually happened which allieviates a lot of stress

what??!!! how is that a relationship??? just asking

TC

[dsade]

unless you guys plan on getting married and/or are very serious I'd probably downgrade things to being friends as sadly its only a matter of time before something happens probably not on purpose but between parties and etc things happen .

Not on purpose? Is that kind of like "oops, I fell onto his ****"?

That excuse? Complete BS.

[bluehealer]

More than likely, if you think or feel something is going on, it is. I know this first hand.

[Conagher]

This. It's only a matter of time. Guys are always sharkin, girls are always down to ****.. Good luck bro.

Agreed

[mich29]

how did this end up working out?

[phatmike0704]

break up, aint worth it unless she hot or rich as hell. i just broke up with my girl last week, she lives in NC and i cant deal with not seein her so i just said **** it

[Conagher]

break up, aint worth it unless she hot or rich as hell. i just broke up with my girl last week, she lives in NC and i cant deal with not seein her so i just said **** it

Yeah,never understood the point of long distance relationships.If you can`t have physical contact or hang out with the individual,what is the point.You cannot really call it a relationship.

[phatmike0704]

this^

[toughchick401]

Agreed, no more LDR's why bother

[kingdong]

Not on purpose? Is that kind of like "oops, I fell onto his ****"?

That excuse? Complete BS.

I gotta say Im with Dsade on this one. It's called will power. All this "I moght get so horny I just have to cheat" stuff is bull****.

[Hyperion]

I have to agree with the last few posters. No disrespect to the original poster, but I think he's probably quite inexperienced when it comes to sexual relationships (nothing to be ashamed of, we all were at first) and is quite possibly trying to hold on to the sex, rather than the emotional aspect of the relationship.

I never understood how people can cheat so early on in a relationship, unless of course they:

a) cared nothing for the relationship itself
b) are just too promiscuous to control themselves or
c) were forced/coerced/induced into cheating.

I mean honestly, how could you possibly get so bored with someone that you resort to cheating on them after a few months? Not that I condone infidelity, but one that arises after a number of years is something I can understand, just out of human nature itself, but a few months? Bah, that shows selfishness and immaturity in my opinion.

Either way, I find long-distance relationships to be a farce. Unless the participants are mature adults (ie late 20's, early 30's) and have been in a relationship for a LONG time (this meaning YEARS, not mere months), I see it more as an expression of weakness and insecurity on behalf of the parties; possibly because they feel they can't find another more vivid relationship that a pretend one over the phone and the internet is a good enough substitute.

Forgive my cynicism, but I think relationships in general are over-rated. People should stop trying to find romance and let it find them. This means playing the field, getting hurt, making mistakes and maybe even losing out in the long run, but I'd rather be alone than in a "relationship" that I was just too scared or used to, to break off.

Habitual partners is one of the few true failures in life.

[TipTopShape]

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS would not really work...because temptation will always occurs...unless your girlfriend is damn faithful???
your manipulating your gf...and id say she will feel your so much suffocating.sad......

[slacker86]

...what

[phatmike0704]

its not about temptation of cheating, its just annoying. u go to a party or go out with friends and u see couples together doin there thing and it pisses me off the fact that i cant be with my girl or even touch her. if ur strong enough to live like that, go for it then. but i dont like lovin someone and only being able to text or talk on the phone with her, the point of being together with them is to actually be with them. and my ex didnt wanna have sex till marriage or even like oral sex so it was a fairly lame pentecostal relationship lol

[HereToStudy]

its not about temptation of cheating, its just annoying. u go to a party or go out with friends and u see couples together doin there thing and it pisses me off the fact that i cant be with my girl or even touch her. if ur strong enough to live like that, go for it then. but i dont like lovin someone and only being able to text or talk on the phone with her, the point of being together with them is to actually be with them. and my ex didnt wanna have sex till marriage or even like oral sex so it was a fairly lame pentecostal relationship lol

Wait....People still do that?!?!?

[2k1s]

i actually did the same distance. I went to usc, she went to harvard. Did it for 5 years before the distance got to be too much. She goes to georgetown law now and I work in LA. It sucks that geography can keep people apart. If she ever moves back here or I ever feel like moving out there it'll be on like donkey kong.

[phatmike0704]

Wait....People still do that?!?!?

lol ud be surprised