I love long distance relation****s

[naturalgainer]

Like someone else said it depends on who it is that can make it work but a lot of the time someone ends up cheating at a party or something or it doesnt work out.

[toughchick401]

I hope all works out for you, been in a few LDR's I think they can work, but as anything it takes work....

good luck

[130nCountin]

unless you guys plan on getting married and/or are very serious I'd probably downgrade things to being friends as sadly its only a matter of time before something happens probably not on purpose but between parties and etc things happen .

agreed

[130nCountin]

I'm just spit balling here, but is chatroulette considered a long distance relationship?

LOL

[Deeerdre]

good luck with it man. how long have yall been together?

Just about 4 months we have been talking for over a year before we got together

Damn Deerdre, been a bit.

I am on a pretty hardcore LD right now. My girlfreind is in Italy and I am in Chicago. She is studying there for a semester. I'm not worried at all (she really isnt the type to pull any ****) but it still isn't ideal.

wow that would be hard but atleast its just a semester so its not to bad.

She probably already has, he doesnt know it yet.

ya right dude ahha

I hope all works out for you, been in a few LDR's I think they can work, but as anything it takes work....

good luck

thanks tc

[glockgod]

Guess it all depends on her maturity level and how good your communications are. I think that if I had to do a ldr with my current gf I would be made aware that she's interested in having sex with other people before it actually happened which allieviates a lot of stress

[rugger48]

Wasn't joking

[toughchick401]

Guess it all depends on her maturity level and how good your communications are. I think that if I had to do a ldr with my current gf I would be made aware that she's interested in having sex with other people before it actually happened which allieviates a lot of stress

what??!!! how is that a relationship??? just asking

TC

[dsade]

unless you guys plan on getting married and/or are very serious I'd probably downgrade things to being friends as sadly its only a matter of time before something happens probably not on purpose but between parties and etc things happen .

Not on purpose? Is that kind of like "oops, I fell onto his ****"?

That excuse? Complete BS.

[bluehealer]

More than likely, if you think or feel something is going on, it is. I know this first hand.

[Conagher]

This. It's only a matter of time. Guys are always sharkin, girls are always down to ****.. Good luck bro.

Agreed

[mich29]

how did this end up working out?

[phatmike0704]

break up, aint worth it unless she hot or rich as hell. i just broke up with my girl last week, she lives in NC and i cant deal with not seein her so i just said **** it

[Conagher]

break up, aint worth it unless she hot or rich as hell. i just broke up with my girl last week, she lives in NC and i cant deal with not seein her so i just said **** it

Yeah,never understood the point of long distance relationships.If you can`t have physical contact or hang out with the individual,what is the point.You cannot really call it a relationship.

[phatmike0704]

this^

[toughchick401]

Agreed, no more LDR's why bother

[kingdong]

Not on purpose? Is that kind of like "oops, I fell onto his ****"?

That excuse? Complete BS.

I gotta say Im with Dsade on this one. It's called will power. All this "I moght get so horny I just have to cheat" stuff is bull****.

[Hyperion]

I have to agree with the last few posters. No disrespect to the original poster, but I think he's probably quite inexperienced when it comes to sexual relationships (nothing to be ashamed of, we all were at first) and is quite possibly trying to hold on to the sex, rather than the emotional aspect of the relationship.

I never understood how people can cheat so early on in a relationship, unless of course they:

a) cared nothing for the relationship itself
b) are just too promiscuous to control themselves or
c) were forced/coerced/induced into cheating.

I mean honestly, how could you possibly get so bored with someone that you resort to cheating on them after a few months? Not that I condone infidelity, but one that arises after a number of years is something I can understand, just out of human nature itself, but a few months? Bah, that shows selfishness and immaturity in my opinion.

Either way, I find long-distance relationships to be a farce. Unless the participants are mature adults (ie late 20's, early 30's) and have been in a relationship for a LONG time (this meaning YEARS, not mere months), I see it more as an expression of weakness and insecurity on behalf of the parties; possibly because they feel they can't find another more vivid relationship that a pretend one over the phone and the internet is a good enough substitute.

Forgive my cynicism, but I think relationships in general are over-rated. People should stop trying to find romance and let it find them. This means playing the field, getting hurt, making mistakes and maybe even losing out in the long run, but I'd rather be alone than in a "relationship" that I was just too scared or used to, to break off.

Habitual partners is one of the few true failures in life.

[TipTopShape]

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS would not really work...because temptation will always occurs...unless your girlfriend is damn faithful???
your manipulating your gf...and id say she will feel your so much suffocating.sad......

[slacker86]

...what