Had a Threesome with my Girlfriend and it did not go as planned. (not good)

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So long story short I had convinced my girlfriend a long time ago to have a threesome FFM. It was most excellent I must say although it wasn't anything mindblowing incredible. Anyway, she had been pressuring me to have a MMF threesome for a while now and I was okay with it because she did it for me. It did not happen for a long time because we were kind of looking passively for a guy to join us. I finally settled with her on the guy that lives across the breezeway in our apartment complex. We see him all the time and he seemed like a decent canidate. He didn't seem like he was a porn star or anything crazy so I felt pretty confident going into this.

Well it happened. Basically this dude whipped it out and I knew from the word go that this was not going to be good. This dude was packing some heat and he knew how to handle it. I was absolutely destroyed as I basically watched as my girl was put into ecstacy by some other dude more than I have ever done. I took a turn for a little bit but it was like I was just more in the way than anything. I am humiliated.

Now I got to see this ******* almost everyday and not to mention my ego is absolutely shattered with my girl. We have been together for almost 5 years. What am I supposed to do? Throw it all away and change cities?
 
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Wow dude, that has to be a real embarrassing moment. And if your GF really loves you, however hung and amazing that guy was at sex wont change your relationship. Now, however, you put yourself in a BAD position... Most couples that have threesomes usually dont last longer after the act, from what I have seen... Im sure your ego is shot somewhat, but like most things, it will heal with time...
 
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Guess what? You don't even realize it (or perhaps you do), but the relationship is officially over already. This dude's gonna be jamming it to your woman again when you are not around. I doubt I'm telling you anything you don't already know. Might as well end it now.
 
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xD... Thats why, when you want to have a 3some, make sure its with 2 girls that are just your friends, and not your GF...
 
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Well you probally dont love her any way and wouldnt think of making her you wife, I dont think that a Guy would want any other guy knocking his girl that he loves off right in front of him and then being able to love her and treat her like a woman that respects herself, I mean thats just me and from the looks of things you dont think that highly of her any way because you wouldnt of had her do somthing like that anyway if you thought that this was gonna be your future wife or somthing like that. just my opinion, not judgin.
 
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hopefully you didn't get sloppy seconds on all three holes anyhow. Use it as a learning experience
 
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epic. did you even get to bust a nut or did you let him have all the fun?
 
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Damn, I am not sure how you can even watch that. If you are deeply in love that is a sight you never want to see. We all think about it time to time, but when push comes to shove most of us don't do it. In my book that is the same thing as cheating, even if consent was given. If I did not leave her I probably would go insane. At least the two of you are not married!
 
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Anyhoo, since we're on the subject. How about sharing some of the FFM details. Now, that had to be a whole lot more interesting. Any FF action involved there?
 
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Anyhoo, since we're on the subject. How about sharing some of the FFM details. Now, that had to be a whole lot more interesting. Any FF action involved there?
lol I definitely thought you meant friendly fire there for a min....

Beater did you get hit with the friendly fire... if you know what Im sayin...
 
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lol I definitely thought you meant friendly fire there for a min....

Beater did you get hit with the friendly fire... if you know what Im sayin...
Maybe that's what made it such a traumatic experience! Gives a new meaning to this particular smiley => :32:
 
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You screwed up pretty bad. Best advice I can give you is move on and treat your next girlfriend with more respect and deceny. The sad truth is you asked for this. You can never undo it.
 
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Your relationship is pretty much F*CKED. It will never be the same.
 
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Brah don't listen to these guys they are just jealous.

BTW that is a screened in porch I live across from you not a breezeway.
 

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Have you talked to your girl about the entire situation? Is it awkard between you guys now? Maybe the thought of you seeing someone else banging your girls has made you think this way....
 

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dud thats crazy .. there is no way i could ever watch some other dude oink my girl... perhaps you should have put out an add on craiglist

WANTED: MALE FOR HOT THREESOME WITH ME AND MY GIRL
MUST BE UGLY AND HAVE SMALL D..I..C..K..
 
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ewwwwwww, I have no other words............

TC
 

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honestly dude i feel for you... its true though most people say threesomes will kill the relationship... my wife offered but i knew one day she may have the same request in return and long dong silver may show up and make me feel bad.. plus if she noticed i was enjoying the other women to much i would never hear the end of that either.. ive been with her for 10 years so im not messing a good thing up
 
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i feel a bit stupider for reading this. wtf kind of a guys lets another guy jam his rooster into his GF? ever if he wasn't John Holmes, what did you think was going to happen? dude, i don't even know what to say to you.....end the relationship and seek help.
 
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I'd be curious of the same thing.

Have you talked to your girl about the entire situation? Is it awkard between you guys now? Maybe the thought of you seeing someone else banging your girls has made you think this way....
 
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I cant help but to believe this is fake.....just a hunch.
 
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I think the real issue here is that Beater got paid way too much attention from the guy ;)
 
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I appreciate some of the honest posts and some of the rude posts I couldn't care less about.

So basically to sum it up a little bit more I was not hit with friendly fire but my girl got a facial and I have asked her like a billion times to do that with me just once. And then this friggin guy comes along and just destroys her face. I was like WTF?!!! I tried to play it cool afterwards like it was no big deal. Me and the other guy gave each other high fives and he was laughing but I was crying on the inside.

A few minutes in I really realized this was going to be bad once I heard her screaming and moaning way louder than I have ever heard her before. I just sat on the edge of the bed after a while and kind of spaced out.

This was not good guys.

And yes I do love my girl. I just wanted to make her happy, I didn't think this was going to happen!
 
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So, did you guys mess around with each other? Did you slap his ass whilst he was jamming it to her?

On an aside, you know she's gonna be thinking of him from now on everytime she's with you. That is if she even feels up to giving you any after he's already pounded her while you were at work.
 
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Just walk away, and there will be an end to the horror.

 
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what about roughing her up? Do you think that would help? Remember, you do have a reputation to maintain. . . . . You're nearly obliged to raise that pimping hand.

There's a thought . . .your neighbours' going to tell all and sundry, relationship is over, might as well cash in on an bad situation and Pimp Dat Ho :toofunny:
 

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It's already been said but yea your girl is gonna be riding him daily from now on. If it makes you feel any better she may not have actually liked it that much she just wanted to kill your ego after she was hurt from seeing you with the other girl. But since she's a woman she won't stop to you walk in on them regularly and wanna kill yourself...
 

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Different strokes for... well, you know.

But if this is legit, stooooo-pid move. You gotta check things out in the gym showers or at least poolside, check the um... bump.
 

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I so don't understand anyone that does this. It's just beyond me. Like, doing it with someone you don't know...okay. Whatever. I still think it's stupid...but doing it with your girlfriend? Or your wife for that matter? - I don't care if it's FFM or MMF, either way I'm not sharing.
 
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Dude, you VOLUNTEERED to give yourself mental issues for life. Talk about going out of your way to jump in front of a bullet. I hope you hit the lottery or a supermodel falls in love with you. Damn. Let this be a lesson to all of you!
 
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I so don't understand anyone that does this. It's just beyond me. Like, doing it with someone you don't know...okay. Whatever. I still think it's stupid...but doing it with your girlfriend? Or your wife for that matter? - I don't care if it's FFM or MMF, either way I'm not sharing.

AGREED! I would be sick seeing someone I love enjoying someone else sexually. I just couldn't watch. And if a guy cares about me, I don't see how he could handle seeing another man's hands on me.

I still think this is bogus. Fun, but bogus.
 

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Regardless of whether the OP made a bogus post or not, it's no doubt that this has happened to plenty of guys. They deserve the mental anguish they get.
 
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Brah don't listen to these guys they are just jealous.

BTW that is a screened in porch I live across from you not a breezeway.
LMFAO ahahaha too funny :bigok:
 
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Bogus! I don't need you people calling me ogus after I just watched my girlfriend get plowed by another guy. Maybe I should have checked the bump but seriously what am I supposed to do. "Excuse me sir, you seem like a good candidate for boning my girlfriend, may I see your penis?" Whats done is done. So I need to move forward. What am I supposed to do? I love her and I feel like the lowest form of life on Earth. I can't leave her now, I am not strong enough.

Edit: And please stop negging me, that is not needed. I have been real life negged to hell.
 
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Bogus! I don't need you people calling me ogus after I just watched my girlfriend get plowed by another guy. Maybe I should have checked the bump but seriously what am I supposed to do. "Excuse me sir, you seem like a good candidate for boning my girlfriend, may I see your penis?" Whats done is done. So I need to move forward. What am I supposed to do? I love her and I feel like the lowest form of life on Earth. I can't leave her now, I am not strong enough.

Edit: And please stop negging me, that is not needed. I have been real life negged to hell.
Follow Lord Humungus, just walk away. Seriously, and if she follows then you'll know.
 

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I honestly don't believe you love this woman. If you did, you wouldn't have done this. It just wouldn't have been worth it to you.
 
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Bogus! I don't need you people calling me ogus after I just watched my girlfriend get plowed by another guy. Maybe I should have checked the bump but seriously what am I supposed to do. "Excuse me sir, you seem like a good candidate for boning my girlfriend, may I see your penis?" Whats done is done. So I need to move forward. What am I supposed to do? I love her and I feel like the lowest form of life on Earth. I can't leave her now, I am not strong enough.

Edit: And please stop negging me, that is not needed. I have been real life negged to hell.
by a pen!s
 
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I honestly don't believe you love this woman. If you did, you wouldn't have done this. It just wouldn't have been worth it to you.
I agree. Especially if you made no cash on the deal :grumpy:
 

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Bogus! I don't need you people calling me ogus after I just watched my girlfriend get plowed by another guy. Maybe I should have checked the bump but seriously what am I supposed to do. "Excuse me sir, you seem like a good candidate for boning my girlfriend, may I see your penis?" Whats done is done. So I need to move forward. What am I supposed to do? I love her and I feel like the lowest form of life on Earth. I can't leave her now, I am not strong enough.

Edit: And please stop negging me, that is not needed. I have been real life negged to hell.
Okay, so you can't leave her now. You are not strong enough? So why the heck bring it here and unpack it????????
 
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