She's Just Not Worth It

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  1. She's Just Not Worth It


    I felt like getting something off my chest so I just decided to write. Perhaps a discussion will come of it.

    I had a discussion with a woman recently that asked me, “Where have all the good men gone?” – A rather normal question, especially in today’s world.

    Edmund Burke once said, “I thought ten thousand swords must have leaped from their scabbards to avenge even a look that threatened her with insult. But the age of chivalry is gone.”…But is it? Perhaps it’s simply seeking what is worthy of chivalry.

    What I’d like to touch on is not so much the original question at hand, but the statements made in reference to it. It seems almost on a daily basis that I hear women saying how all men are “jerks” or “douchebags” by their definition. – Now, I will be the first to tell you that there is no shortage of douchebaggery in the male population, but to make the assessment that ALL men are in fact such is not only asinine and moronic, it is also adolescent in its very nature.

    After she had made these allegations generalizing the male population, I began to contemplate, “Why is it she feels this way? What has she experienced? What hasn’t she experienced? What has life done to her? What have men done to her?” But it wasn’t until I asked myself, “Why can’t she see that good men do in fact exist?” that it hit me…

    She’s just not worth it.

    The good men are there, and they’re not wasting their time with her.

    It’s sad, really, that this woman actually believes that she’s worthy of a “good man.” Her morals surpass lacking. Her judgment is cloudy. Her legs are open and her heart is shut. She cares more about The Twilight series and Grey’s Anatomy than the decisions made in the District that will define her life. She’s bitter. She’s cold. She’s turned off from reality. Small talk is her bag, and donuts are her lunch.

    While this woman has characteristics that could be molded into something beautiful, she refuses to do so, and simply goes on with the fairytale, BS Hollywood idea that we are who we are, we can’t and/or don’t change, and that we should be accepted for who we are. Yea, good luck with that, lady.

    Before accusing an entire population of a harsh generality that is simply not true, first examine your own life, your own actions, your own friends, and your own beliefs. The fact of the matter is that they CAN change, and perhaps they must.


  2. A good post IC - total agreement.

    It leads me onto a personal vendetta I have against celebrities, those that worship them, and the machine the creates them.

    The utter vileness of it all is as stomach-wrenching as it is sinister.

    A purposely-generated smokescreen to divert the public's attention from the real issues facing the society? Not as far-fetched as some would believe.
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  3. Irish Cannon

    If I had a dollar for every woman I have heard say that exact same thing.
    And as you also said, upon further conversation, quite a few of them are not worth it.
    "I don't want anything. I don't want anybody. That's the worst part. When the want goes, that's bad."
    (Doug Stanhope as Eddie on Louie)

  4. Quote Originally Posted by jakellpet View Post

    It leads me onto a personal vendetta I have against celebrities, those that worship them, and the machine the creates them.
    I agree with the OP, but I extremely agree with this one. I can not stand how whole magazines and tv shows are dedicated to the daily activities of those we see in movies and sitcoms.
    This does mostly relate to women, who rely on the lives of others to bide their time, instead of actually working to accomplish something themselves.

  5. Quote Originally Posted by ward0351 View Post
    I agree with the OP, but I extremely agree with this one. I can not stand how whole magazines and tv shows are dedicated to the daily activities of those we see in movies and sitcoms.
    This does mostly relate to women, who rely on the lives of others to bide their time, instead of actually working to accomplish something themselves.
    word. Women are cunning creatures. They know the power of ***** and the retarded manner in which men react to it.

    I know a few high-earning men in the mining industry who have been entrapped my low-life bitches. That is hook them in, get married, have a baby, then leave them, take there house and half their pay for life.

    On top of that, these men have little or no access to their children and have no recourse through the courts. The women teach their children, "Oh, Daddy didn't want us", or in one case "Your Daddy doesn't love you". This was a close friend of mine, and hasn't been in contact for 10 years. Ten fucking years.

    . . and you wonder why the male suicide rate is climbing.
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  6. I would say the number of "good men" out there is directly proportional to the number of "good women". It's like clearing out a whole forest of trees then wondering why there aren't any birds in the area.

    Evolution, whether it be genetic or social, is simple: if it doesn't work, it's going to get phased out. Women have been "voting" for what types of men they want with their cookie. Men will adopt to what works...and have been slowly realizing that women often cheat more than men do now.

  7. Quote Originally Posted by Irish Cannon View Post
    Her legs are open and her heart is shut.
    Can I have her number?

  8. I know the feeling. I've viewed meeting woman this way for a long time despite my young age. Mine was more giving girls respect when they ask for it in their actions. I don't respect girls just because they have anatomical parts I don't and a lack of testosterone, and I come off as an ******* to many because they are, for lack of a better term, a waste of genetic material.

    The funny thing is, I got in an argument with a girl on friday over this very thing. I personally think chivalry is for the most part dead because guys, at least in my age bracket, don't need it to attract these worthless girls and they adapt to the method of least resistance.

    And don't even get me started on the sense of entitlement that everyone seems to have. The worthless ones are the worst about it too.

  9. skanks...all of em

  10. Quote Originally Posted by Sunder View Post
    I would say the number of "good men" out there is directly proportional to the number of "good women". It's like clearing out a whole forest of trees then wondering why there aren't any birds in the area.

    Evolution, whether it be genetic or social, is simple: if it doesn't work, it's going to get phased out. Women have been "voting" for what types of men they want with their cookie. Men will adopt to what works...and have been slowly realizing that women often cheat more than men do now.
    I see it all the time.
    Some of the local teens and early 20's guys pretty much live off their harem of chicks.
    With little or no effort.
    These girls will bang and pay anything with a penis.
    "I don't want anything. I don't want anybody. That's the worst part. When the want goes, that's bad."
    (Doug Stanhope as Eddie on Louie)

  11. It is what it is and the male and female population adapt to what the other gender expects of them during that social time frame. Then there is maturity that changes a person's view on what is a 'good mate'. Won't even cover the dozen other issues that sway and change throughout a lifetime.

    I basically say there is no clear answer or solution to finding a perfect someone. You toss aside the obvious stuff (no job, no education, no morals, values, drugs and acohol abuse etc). then you go from there based off what you consider important and move to find that person.

    You may be in love for 1 year or 30 before things go nuts. You could last a lifetime...

    1. Don't be abusive
    2. Don't **** your credit up
    3. If you have kids make sure you're able to pay for them
    4. Make sure your power of attorney is limited and has an expiration date
    5. Prenuptial agreements are like wills... everyone should have one just in case **** goes bad

    Make sure those are covered and if your current relationship fails you'll be in a good enough position to survive another attempt

  12. Quote Originally Posted by Irish Cannon View Post
    I felt like getting something off my chest so I just decided to write. Perhaps a discussion will come of it.

    I had a discussion with a woman recently that asked me, “Where have all the good men gone?” – A rather normal question, especially in today’s world.

    Edmund Burke once said, “I thought ten thousand swords must have leaped from their scabbards to avenge even a look that threatened her with insult. But the age of chivalry is gone.”…But is it? Perhaps it’s simply seeking what is worthy of chivalry.

    What I’d like to touch on is not so much the original question at hand, but the statements made in reference to it. It seems almost on a daily basis that I hear women saying how all men are “jerks” or “douchebags” by their definition. – Now, I will be the first to tell you that there is no shortage of douchebaggery in the male population, but to make the assessment that ALL men are in fact such is not only asinine and moronic, it is also adolescent in its very nature.

    After she had made these allegations generalizing the male population, I began to contemplate, “Why is it she feels this way? What has she experienced? What hasn’t she experienced? What has life done to her? What have men done to her?” But it wasn’t until I asked myself, “Why can’t she see that good men do in fact exist?” that it hit me…

    She’s just not worth it.

    The good men are there, and they’re not wasting their time with her.

    It’s sad, really, that this woman actually believes that she’s worthy of a “good man.” Her morals surpass lacking. Her judgment is cloudy. Her legs are open and her heart is shut. She cares more about The Twilight series and Grey’s Anatomy than the decisions made in the District that will define her life. She’s bitter. She’s cold. She’s turned off from reality. Small talk is her bag, and donuts are her lunch.

    While this woman has characteristics that could be molded into something beautiful, she refuses to do so, and simply goes on with the fairytale, BS Hollywood idea that we are who we are, we can’t and/or don’t change, and that we should be accepted for who we are. Yea, good luck with that, lady.

    Before accusing an entire population of a harsh generality that is simply not true, first examine your own life, your own actions, your own friends, and your own beliefs. The fact of the matter is that they CAN change, and perhaps they must.

    right on

    not to sound chauvinistic or anything but in many ways, women have it far easier than men (in many ways, men have it easier but that's not the point).. especially with this feministic society we live in.

    none the less, someone can't expect a 10 when they're only a 2. She'd probably agree that some poor bloke from the streets with no job, no house, no education is not good enough for her royal face. Likewise, a lot of "traditionally" good guys are more than likely far beyond her lame little league.

  13. Quote Originally Posted by jakellpet View Post
    word. Women are cunning creatures. They know the power of ***** and the retarded manner in which men react to it.

    I know a few high-earning men in the mining industry who have been entrapped my low-life bitches. That is hook them in, get married, have a baby, then leave them, take there house and half their pay for life.

    On top of that, these men have little or no access to their children and have no recourse through the courts. The women teach their children, "Oh, Daddy didn't want us", or in one case "Your Daddy doesn't love you". This was a close friend of mine, and hasn't been in contact for 10 years. Ten fucking years.

    . . and you wonder why the male suicide rate is climbing.
    yea that's exactly what i was talking about when saying "feministic society".... Alimony, unfair child support...

    It's sad to see brothers go down like that. I got few mates too who work up in mines and have a trophy club slut who they treat like princesses. The dudes absolutely get leached.

  14. I don't think I'll get married again. I'll just find a woman I don't like and give her a house.
    Think training's hard,. try losing!

  15. Quote Originally Posted by bonscott View Post
    I don't think I'll get married again. I'll just find a woman I don't like and give her a house.


  16. A good buddy of mine has put off his divorce until his daughter gratuated high school. Their marriage was at 14 years but the bitch had cheated on him years earlier where he found letters to his neighbor stating such. Not too long after he found out and time had passed she got him to have sex with her (it had been about 2 years since the last time and thought she was trying to work things out) maryland law stats that once you have sex with your spouse after finding out they cheated on you it nulls their actions.

    His wife's grandmother passes away and she ends up getting over 300 thousand dollars to which she gives none to my friend and up until this point he paid ALL of the bills including putting money away for his daughter's college fund. She leaves him and buys a house and blows every dime she has. True to his word, 2 years later he files for a simple divorce but she is close to forclosure on her home and has decided she wants half of everything. His home is six months from being paid off and has bought and paid for two vehicles and a motorcycle over the past 5 years. She wants those as well as his first retirement and half of his current 401k.

    Lawyer said he's basically ****ed and should just be happy that he'll have anything when it's all said and done. Didn't matter she never paid any bills or put any money away for their daughter's college or blew all of her inheritance.

    **** like that would cause me to lose my mind and kill mother****ers.

  17. Quote Originally Posted by Jayhawkk View Post
    A good buddy of mine has put off his divorce until his daughter gratuated high school. Their marriage was at 14 years but the bitch had cheated on him years earlier where he found letters to his neighbor stating such. Not too long after he found out and time had passed she got him to have sex with her (it had been about 2 years since the last time and thought she was trying to work things out) maryland law stats that once you have sex with your spouse after finding out they cheated on you it nulls their actions.

    His wife's grandmother passes away and she ends up getting over 300 thousand dollars to which she gives none to my friend and up until this point he paid ALL of the bills including putting money away for his daughter's college fund. She leaves him and buys a house and blows every dime she has. True to his word, 2 years later he files for a simple divorce but she is close to forclosure on her home and has decided she wants half of everything. His home is six months from being paid off and has bought and paid for two vehicles and a motorcycle over the past 5 years. She wants those as well as his first retirement and half of his current 401k.

    Lawyer said he's basically ****ed and should just be happy that he'll have anything when it's all said and done. Didn't matter she never paid any bills or put any money away for their daughter's college or blew all of her inheritance.

    **** like that would cause me to lose my mind and kill mother****ers.
    You just depressed me before my workout.

    Dude, that's fckin' awful. I can't believe **** like that can even happen. I know as a law enforcement officer you see the BS that goes on in the justice system, but stuff like this pisses me off more than anything. Fckin' divorce court is the worst. I don't know personally, but stories like this pretty much make it a fact.

  18. Quote Originally Posted by Jayhawkk View Post
    A good buddy of mine has put off his divorce until his daughter gratuated high school. Their marriage was at 14 years but the bitch had cheated on him years earlier where he found letters to his neighbor stating such. Not too long after he found out and time had passed she got him to have sex with her (it had been about 2 years since the last time and thought she was trying to work things out) maryland law stats that once you have sex with your spouse after finding out they cheated on you it nulls their actions.

    His wife's grandmother passes away and she ends up getting over 300 thousand dollars to which she gives none to my friend and up until this point he paid ALL of the bills including putting money away for his daughter's college fund. She leaves him and buys a house and blows every dime she has. True to his word, 2 years later he files for a simple divorce but she is close to forclosure on her home and has decided she wants half of everything. His home is six months from being paid off and has bought and paid for two vehicles and a motorcycle over the past 5 years. She wants those as well as his first retirement and half of his current 401k.

    Lawyer said he's basically ****ed and should just be happy that he'll have anything when it's all said and done. Didn't matter she never paid any bills or put any money away for their daughter's college or blew all of her inheritance.

    **** like that would cause me to lose my mind and kill mother****ers.


    That is a horrible story........I can't believe the heartlessness of some people..


  19. This type of attitude is not a development of individual personality, as I see it, and is therefore not attributable to individuals per se: it is instead a long and protracted process of developing firmly engendered ideals about the role and status of men and women in relation to one another; a cultural artifact, so to speak, which arose out of a "Cultural Feminism" which "empowered" women. Ironically enough, this "empowerment" comes necessarily at a price - in this case, the "identity profit" (positive self-worth) of contemporary females often comes at the expense of contemporary males.

    And similarly it is with this female. From the time she was young, she was inundated by particular concepts about men and our bodies: we are the "less fair sex," we are naturally dirty, naturally violent, less intelligent than females and so on. As she grew older, into an age where sexual attraction is now becoming appropriate, the ideal remains firm, it only morphs into more sophisticated instantiations: men (boys) only care about sex, they are crude - considerably more crude than "you" - it is your duty to be selected, etc. What this all amounts to is most Western males develop an inferiority complex in relation to females; a complex which stresses the one, seemingly undeniable fact which has been woven into the fabric of their self-identity since they were young: no matter how handsome you are, no matter how much security you may provide, no matter how intelligent, charming, sensitive you are, and no matter that you possess all the qualities females demand, you should yet feel blessed that any female, no matter how average, should speak to you - after all, you are a male.

    On the other hand, however, it is not only acceptable but encouraged that painfully average females should pine after Brad Pitt and George Clooney, if for no other reason than the precise fact that they are females - after all, after 'X' amount of years of gendered oppression, females are of course naturally entitled to expect everything while proffering nothing, in the way of a relationship, in return. The issue extends considerably further. While these same females robustly scream that no role, vocation, occupation and so forth should be gendered - that is, all females should and can occupy all roles that males can and do - they yet expect the provision of both social goods (domestic labor, child-rearing, etc) and private wealth (cars, house, etc) by "their" men. It is, of course, both unacceptable for a gender-equity standpoint, and completely egregious from a political correctness standpoint, that men-in-general should expect anything from a female in the way of roles; to this end, we are to encourage and accept whatever roles they contingently choose, while we are yet expected to provide.

    "Gender hierarchies" are considerably more complex and nuanced than any female is inclined to suggest; and this is particularly true when you closely examine the process(es) of engendering temporally. Males are "led" in this way by females from the time they are born, until they reach their mid-twenties. And yet, there exists surprise that men are not surreptitiously "passing the reigns" soon as they get to this age.

  20. Quote Originally Posted by Jayhawkk View Post
    A good buddy of mine has put off his divorce until his daughter gratuated high school. Their marriage was at 14 years but the bitch had cheated on him years earlier where he found letters to his neighbor stating such. Not too long after he found out and time had passed she got him to have sex with her (it had been about 2 years since the last time and thought she was trying to work things out) maryland law stats that once you have sex with your spouse after finding out they cheated on you it nulls their actions.

    His wife's grandmother passes away and she ends up getting over 300 thousand dollars to which she gives none to my friend and up until this point he paid ALL of the bills including putting money away for his daughter's college fund. She leaves him and buys a house and blows every dime she has. True to his word, 2 years later he files for a simple divorce but she is close to forclosure on her home and has decided she wants half of everything. His home is six months from being paid off and has bought and paid for two vehicles and a motorcycle over the past 5 years. She wants those as well as his first retirement and half of his current 401k.

    Lawyer said he's basically ****ed and should just be happy that he'll have anything when it's all said and done. Didn't matter she never paid any bills or put any money away for their daughter's college or blew all of her inheritance.

    **** like that would cause me to lose my mind and kill mother****ers.
    That is why I either will not marry legally and live apart or have an ironclad prenup if i do. I had the vasectomy so more kids will not be an issue.
    Funny thing is people rag on me about my caution.
    I reply that we get medical insurance, car insurance, home insurance, renters insurance, and life insurance; i want insurance that some woman does not take all my hard earned assets past, present, and future and leave me broken in wallet and spirit.


    Mulletsoldier broke it down so eloquently.
    And be darned if I do not have that same debate at work on an ongoing basis.
    Especially the part about some women wanting equality in some areas and inequality in others where it benefits them to get ahead.

    Pops died when I was on the edge of teen age, but he did tell me to always watch my back. Because anybody could turn on me, even family.
    "I don't want anything. I don't want anybody. That's the worst part. When the want goes, that's bad."
    (Doug Stanhope as Eddie on Louie)

  21. Quote Originally Posted by bigmoe65 View Post
    Can I have her number?
    Bump for the digits.

  22. Quote Originally Posted by GuyverX View Post
    That is why I either will not marry legally and live apart or have an ironclad prenup if i do. I had the vasectomy so more kids will not be an issue.
    Funny thing is people rag on me about my caution.
    I reply that we get medical insurance, car insurance, home insurance, renters insurance, and life insurance; i want insurance that some woman does not take all my hard earned assets past, present, and future and leave me broken in wallet and spirit.


    Mulletsoldier broke it down so eloquently.
    And be darned if I do not have that same debate at work on an ongoing basis.
    Especially the part about some women wanting equality in some areas and inequality in others where it benefits them to get ahead.

    Pops died when I was on the edge of teen age, but he did tell me to always watch my back. Because anybody could turn on me, even family.


    so f***n true

  23. best post i have seen in along time

  24. Quote Originally Posted by Matt6969 View Post
    best post i have seen in along time
    Thanks, I actually like Mullet's version better. Hahaha

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