finally fell in love

[ambulldog]

i was married before and always told my wife i loved her. i also knew that some emotion should have come along with those words but never did.
i met a personal trainer at my gym some time ago and we started dating a little over four months ago. from the moment i first kissed her i knew she was different. a moment doesnt go by where i am not thinking of her. the moment we part for the day or night i can only think of the next time she will be in my arms. i have found that i am not the same person when i am not with her. i want and do everything for her that i can. most importantly spend time with and listen to her. bottom line nobody has ever made me feel the way that she does and in return ive finally given my heart 100% to another person. i know its a bit mushy but the ladies will appreciate it

 

[crader]

I'm glad you are happy!!! I hope its always that way for you two!

 

[drivehard]

That is awesome!!!

I finally found my true love about a year ago...only took 29 years, and a broken marriage.
I now know the feelings you describe all too well.
Good luck to you two!!!

 

[lennoxchi]

hope it's mutual.......

 

[Iron Lungz]

:toofunny:
I agree; but damn, that was funny.

hope it's mutual.......

 

[bigmoe65]

I'm dissapointed, I thought someone bought a puppy.

 

[EasyEJL]

I was hoping for a classic muscle car

 

[lennoxchi]

:toofunny:
I agree; but damn, that was funny.

i just don't want the guy to get hurt. i was in a relationship that was completely one sided like that, she got hurt bad and i did not feel good about it either......op, just watch your back

 

[bigmoe65]

I was hoping for a classic muscle car

Does this make you feel better? Shes mine.

 

[toughchick401]

Sounds very nice.........i wish you well

TC

 

[jay21]

IMO fallin in love is the biggest mistake ppl can make.......

~ the only way to keep a successful marriege or relationship is not fallin in love ~

 

[Iron Lungz]

That makes NO sense whatsoever.

IMO fallin in love is the biggest mistake ppl can make.......

~ the only way to keep a successful marriege or relationship is not fallin in love ~

 

[EasyEJL]

That makes NO sense whatsoever.

I think he left off "with someone other than your spouse"

 

[Iron Lungz]

Hahahaa!

I think he left off "with someone other than your spouse"

 

[roids1]

Hahahaa!

:lmao: Reminds me of my grand dad's quote "why the hell would anyone want to get married? That'll just ruin a perfectly good relationship."

 

[jay21]

once u fall in love u start doing stupid ****, and gett too attached as well.

 

[lennoxchi]

once u fall in love u start doing stupid ****, and gett too attached as well.

agreed

 

[EasyEJL]

I'm not sure how you can be too attached to your spouse. And if somehow its obsessive, then it isn't love either

 

[B5150]

That makes NO sense whatsoever.

The feeling fades or varies in degrees over time. True love is a demonstration, regardless of feeling. I'm just sayin'.

 

[jay21]

im eastern european..... i can have a spouse and not be in love.... hence us having lower divorce rates..... we dont fall for LOVE alot of us marry for personal benefit we gain from the person we are marryng? hard to explain but do u get it? kinda....?

love can be obsessive = u love a girl so much u always want her around u and please her as much as possible but this in return makes u look weak and girls tend to take advantage of this and lose interest in you.

 

[jay21]

on side not hey b51 did anyone try to neg u before? lol

 

[B5150]

on side not hey b51 did anyone try to neg u before? lol

Sure they have. Hate is also a demonstration.

 

[jay21]

yes it is.

 

[EasyEJL]

love can be obsessive = u love a girl so much u always want her around u and please her as much as possible but this in return makes u look weak and girls tend to take advantage of this and lose interest in you.

Thats not love, thats just obsession. I think likely you just don't understand what love is... But then again, they don't exactly give us much emotional and relationship training when we are younger, we have to find out by trial and error

 

[B5150]

Thats not love, thats just obsession. I think likely you just don't understand what love is... But then again, they don't exactly give us much emotional and relationship training when we are younger, we have to find out by trial and error

Infatuation is the fools gold of love.

 

[Iron Lungz]

Brian, you're like the wise man that has an unlimited amount of quotes and sayings... It's the, B5150 Philosophy. I dig it. :biglaugh:

Infatuation is the fools gold of love.

 

[Mulletsoldier]

Brian, you're like the wise man that has an unlimited amount of quotes and sayings... It's the, B5150 Philosophy. I dig it. :biglaugh:

Well, this is the B5150 philosophy, my man:


The love line is never straight and narrow
Unless your love is tried and true
We take a chance with new beginnings

Still we try (Oooh)
Win or lose (Oooh)
Take the highs (Oooh)
With the blues (Oooh)

Always one more
You're never satisfied
Never one for all with you
It's only one for me
So, why draw the line?
Meet you half the way
And you don't know what that means
Oh, yeah

I feel like a running politician
Oh! Just tryin' to please you all the time
I given you my self with no conditions

Goin' wide (Oooh)
Runnin' long (Oooh)
Feelin' lost (Oooh)
But not for long (Oooh)

Always one more
You're never satisfied
Never one for all with you
It's only one for me
So, why draw the line?
Meet you half the way
When you don't know what that means
Whoa, yeah

(Guitar Solo)

Always one more
You're never satisfied
Never for all with you
It's only one for me
So, why draw the line?
Meet you half the way
When you don't know what that means

I'll meet you half the way
Whoa yeah!
I'll meet you half the way
Whoa!
I'll meet you half the way

 

[B5150]

Brian, you're like the wise man that has an unlimited amount of quotes and sayings... It's the, B5150 Philosophy. I dig it. :biglaugh:

I "learnt" a couple things in my time on the planet. Thanks.

 

[B5150]

Well, this is the B5150 philosophy, my man:

So, why draw the line?
Meet you half the way
And you don't know what that means
Oh, yeah

Well played!

 

[jay21]

Thats not love, thats just obsession. I think likely you just don't understand what love is... But then again, they don't exactly give us much emotional and relationship training when we are younger, we have to find out by trial and error

yah thats love - wanting to be there for some and care for them and all that other baby soft ****.

 

[lennoxchi]

But then again, they don't exactly give us much emotional and relationship training when we are younger, we have to find out by trial and error

who is the "they" you refer to?

 

[EasyEJL]

who is the "they" you refer to?

our parents, our schools, our role models

 

[lennoxchi]

our parents, our schools, our role models

Parents i agree with. but in opinion (and just my opinion) schools and "role models" (whatever that means) should set our outlook on relationships.

a man wiser than me told me two things a while back that have rang true in every relationship that i've had. even though in some relationships i have not wanted it to be true.

# 1 Never get to involved with a woman who's parents are split unless both parents were a part of her up-bringing (by therefore having a male and female influence in her life). this will therefore make her well-rounded for a balanced relationship.

And #2 watch how a woman treats her parents. this is most likely how she will treat you.

now before anyone chimes in saying some s**t like "well my woman comes from a home where only the mother was there", or anything the like, of course those are not absolute facts of life there are always exceptions. i'm just sharing my experience in this matter so far in life. this my change tomorrow but as of right now, it's been true.

 

[AE14]

tehre are never absolutes when it comes to love and relationships. Additionally, all aspects of relationships are subjective, i.e. what works for one, wont work for another. Love is not the only thing that makes a marriage work, its tolerance.

 

[EasyEJL]

Parents i agree with. but in opinion (and just my opinion) schools and "role models" (whatever that means) should set our outlook on relationships.

a man wiser than me told me two things a while back that have rang true in every relationship that i've had. even though in some relationships i have not wanted it to be true.

# 1 Never get to involved with a woman who's parents are split unless both parents were a part of her up-bringing (by therefore having a male and female influence in her life). this will therefore make her well-rounded for a balanced relationship.

And #2 watch how a woman treats her parents. this is most likely how she will treat you.

now before anyone chimes in saying some s**t like "well my woman comes from a home where only the mother was there", or anything the like, of course those are not absolute facts of life there are always exceptions. i'm just sharing my experience in this matter so far in life. this my change tomorrow but as of right now, it's been true.

I'd tend to agree with you, my wife comes from a split home and she's a looney

 

[lennoxchi]

Love is not the only thing that makes a marriage work, its tolerance.

that's awesome....reps:laugh2:

 

[Aunt Jemima]

Gratz man. I'm a sucker for love stories.

 

[GuyverX]

If its reciprocal, then I am tremendously happy for you.
If its not be careful.