This is a question to the older fellas that date younger girls. I am 35, the girl I am dealing with now is 22. We been talking off and on for about a year and a month.
If you can relate.....do you find yourself asking what you could possibly have in common with this person other than sex. I am not attracted physically to females my age. I am unattracted mentally to younger girls but can't get past the physical aspects. I am somewhat shallow I know. Before this one I was dating a 34 yo woman. She was intelligent. We shared a lot of common interests. She was career motivated. She was a deputy coroner. Very attractive for her age. Well attractive period. Problem is I couldn't stay committed because I am drawn to these girls (and thats what they are, girls) 19 to say 23, 24 years old. Their skin is smoother, boobs more firm, butts more shapely, etc. There is so much agg though. They have no idea how to treat a man. Want to watch MTV reality shows when I would rather watch something that stimulates my mind. They have no idea how to be emotionally supportive when it is needed. I just can't get past the looks or hearing all my married friends envy me.
Has anyone ever broken the habit of hooking up with these hot younger girls for something more emotionally and mentally fufilling or is it just a curse to live with?