Dude for a white guy, I get a fluff fro going. Its why I hate cutting my hair, when its long enough it holds itself down. When its shorter, I can fluff myself into a q-tip. I have tried many forms of shampoo, and have ultimately found only 1 thing that works. And its not shampoo, its a guerrilla tactic against my hair.
As soon as I am out of the shower, a ball cap or beanie goes on(feels GREAT in the winter). After it dries compressed, I remove cap, fluff it out a bit(it wont fuzz at this point unless I do it excessively) and add in gel and style to my liking.
It is a curse, my hair is like wire. Every barber visit=a cousin IT running around on the floor.