Background Info:
Just to give you an idea of where I stand with the person this is about - he's me cousin, was one of my groomsmen, and we usually hang out at least three weekends a month.
He is somewhat of an obnoxious drunk, but is pretty fun to hang out with until he hits a certain point. It's not uncommon for him to get a little touchy-feely with the ladies that he's around, but he's one of those guys that seems to just get away with it b/c "he's harmless." I'm sure you all know at least one of these guys, lol.
There's been more than one occasion in which I have had to make remarks to him along the lines of, "Hey, knock it off over there," or "Hey! That's my wife, don't make me come over there." He just does stupid **** like tickling or touching girls on the stomach or just above their asses on their lower backs. My wife has never said anything, so I've always left it at a stern comment and let it be.
Crossed the Line:
Last weekend I was with the obnoxious cousin, his brother, and my wife at a chill bar just hanging out. The bad drunk cousin is getting to that point again and keeps touching my wife's stomach for whatever reasons, but she's handling it herself and gets him to knock it off before I have to say anything. In her frustration she grabs a napkin a stuffs its in the back of his collar. He in turn grabs it and proceeds to stuff it down the front of her shirt, keeping in mind that this shirt is a v-neck cut. Before she can push his hand away he has already reached about the point between her cleavage where the the two cups of her bra meets as well as having pulled her shirt down some in the process.
Needless to say, my wife felt very uncomfortable and embarrassed. Despite her banging body, she is quite modest
My cousin walked away at this point, his brother's jaw was on the table, and my wife was visibly embarrassed/uncomfortable.
Keeping in mind what was said in the background info, what would you have done at this point?
Just to give you an idea of where I stand with the person this is about - he's me cousin, was one of my groomsmen, and we usually hang out at least three weekends a month.
He is somewhat of an obnoxious drunk, but is pretty fun to hang out with until he hits a certain point. It's not uncommon for him to get a little touchy-feely with the ladies that he's around, but he's one of those guys that seems to just get away with it b/c "he's harmless." I'm sure you all know at least one of these guys, lol.
There's been more than one occasion in which I have had to make remarks to him along the lines of, "Hey, knock it off over there," or "Hey! That's my wife, don't make me come over there." He just does stupid **** like tickling or touching girls on the stomach or just above their asses on their lower backs. My wife has never said anything, so I've always left it at a stern comment and let it be.
Crossed the Line:
Last weekend I was with the obnoxious cousin, his brother, and my wife at a chill bar just hanging out. The bad drunk cousin is getting to that point again and keeps touching my wife's stomach for whatever reasons, but she's handling it herself and gets him to knock it off before I have to say anything. In her frustration she grabs a napkin a stuffs its in the back of his collar. He in turn grabs it and proceeds to stuff it down the front of her shirt, keeping in mind that this shirt is a v-neck cut. Before she can push his hand away he has already reached about the point between her cleavage where the the two cups of her bra meets as well as having pulled her shirt down some in the process.
Needless to say, my wife felt very uncomfortable and embarrassed. Despite her banging body, she is quite modest
My cousin walked away at this point, his brother's jaw was on the table, and my wife was visibly embarrassed/uncomfortable.
Keeping in mind what was said in the background info, what would you have done at this point?