[Jayhawkk]

snopes.com: Dolores Aguilar Obituary

[Omen]

***** probably deserved it if they write that kinda ****

[JoeYoung]

wow, I hope when I"m dead there is nothing like that in the papers.

[Usf97j4x4]

Owned.

[DmitryWI]

wow...

[holyintellect]

Even if you REALLY, REALLY wanted to say that, how could you? I know I couldnt...

holy

[bigrobbierob]

Originally Posted by holyintellect

Even if you REALLY, REALLY wanted to say that, how could you? I know I couldnt...

holy

They're dead, so it's not like they could complain.

[Omen]

Never had any problems with dead people, it's always the live ones that cause problems.

Only thing I don't like about dead people is that they never shower and sex with them sucks, sometimes.

[MentalTwitch]

Originally Posted by Omen

Never had any problems with dead people, it's always the live ones that cause problems.

Only thing I don't like about dead people is that they never shower and sex with them sucks, sometimes.

that was worse then the obituary....haha

Well its her fault for being liek that.

[holyintellect]

Originally Posted by bigrobbierob

They're dead, so it's not like they could complain.

Well, thats kinda my point exactly....while they were living was the time to take care of problems between the two of them...even if the woman was the biggest ***** the earth has ever seen, I would just cut ties and move on...I dont have time in my life for that drama.

holy

[Sunder]

LoL - nice. I've always found it annoying that most people somehow turn every a$$hole into Saints when they die, and feel the need to forgive them of everything they did.
While I think it's right to respect the dead, I see no problem with disrespecting the individuals who showed you no respect when they were alive.

There's a simple way to ensure this never happens to you...Maybe that would be a wakeup call for some to change their ways when they're living, lol. (although I doubt it)

Makes me think of a certain guy who bullied, picked and spit on me when I was a kid and too small to defend myself against him. He got drunk, crashed his car into someone else, and is now paralyzed from the waist down. I laughed when I found out and said he deserved it (the wheelchair part, not the other person getting hit). Other people felt sorry for him (because such an accident is supposed to absolve you of your past actions?). My memory of him wasn't so flawed.

The only thing I'm sorry about is that he is still alive, and I'd probably flip him over in his wheelchair if it wasn't for the fact that others would see it.
Sound cruel to you? Am I supposed to "turn the other cheek" now?

Well don't judge me just yet: I only saw him that one time...in the bar (when I visited my hometown 10 yrs ago)...he was HAMMERED - and he DROVE HOME (yes, he had special pedals in his vehicle so he could still drive). So I'll say it again, I wish he was dead, and I think he would deserve the same type of obituary - especially after seeing he didn't learn a single thing and he continues to go on the road drunk "looking" to injure/kill other innocent victims. Yeah, some people do not deserve a blind eye once they're dead...and I'm getting too wound up right before the long weekend for some unknown reason, lol.

[Usf97j4x4]

Originally Posted by Omen

Never had any problems with dead people, it's always the live ones that cause problems.

Only thing I don't like about dead people is that they never shower and sex with them sucks, sometimes.

At least they dont get headaches...

[holyintellect]

Originally Posted by Sunder

LoL - nice. I've always found it annoying that most people somehow turn every a$$hole into Saints when they die, and feel the need to forgive them of everything they did.
While I think it's right to respect the dead, I see no problem with disrespecting the individuals who showed you no respect when they were alive.

There's a simple way to ensure this never happens to you...Maybe that would be a wakeup call for some to change their ways when they're living, lol. (although I doubt it)

Makes me think of a certain guy who bullied, picked and spit on me when I was a kid and too small to defend myself against him. He got drunk, crashed his car into someone else, and is now paralyzed from the waist down. I laughed when I found out and said he deserved it (the wheelchair part, not the other person getting hit). Other people felt sorry for him (because such an accident is supposed to absolve you of your past actions?). My memory of him wasn't so flawed.

The only thing I'm sorry about is that he is still alive, and I'd probably flip him over in his wheelchair if it wasn't for the fact that others would see it.
Sound cruel to you? Am I supposed to "turn the other cheek" now?

Well don't judge me just yet: I only saw him that one time...in the bar (when I visited my hometown 10 yrs ago)...he was HAMMERED - and he DROVE HOME (yes, he had special pedals in his vehicle so he could still drive). So I'll say it again, I wish he was dead, and I think he would deserve the same type of obituary - especially after seeing he didn't learn a single thing and he continues to go on the road drunk "looking" to injure/kill other innocent victims. Yeah, some people do not deserve a blind eye once they're dead...and I'm getting too wound up right before the long weekend for some unknown reason, lol.

Im not turning anyone into a saint, nor am I saying that all bad deeds are automatically forgiven when someone dies...I just dont see how people have the time or the motivation to spend all that negative energy on someone who treated everyone around them like ****...They're dead, its not like you really got the last word.

holy

[dsade]

I would call that an Oh, B*tch you are..y.

[Sunder]

Originally Posted by holyintellect

Im not turning anyone into a saint, nor am I saying that all bad deeds are automatically forgiven when someone dies...I just dont see how people have the time or the motivation to spend all that negative energy on someone who treated everyone around them like ****...They're dead, its not like you really got the last word.

holy

I definitely see your point on the focusing of negative energy, and I think you're viewing it in much a healthier way than me. I just wasn't going to lie and pretend to be a "better man", even though I agree with your point.

However, I think this person spent less energy than others. An obituary is going to be created anyways, so there wasn't any extra effort there. It was probably easier to just tell the truth than to attempt to make up some lies by saying nice things.
It also appears that a lot of energy, effort and money were saved by not doing the whole funeral thing.

I would also think that she got the last word in - if to anybody - it was for herself - good closure to a bad story. Probably got a few more in too if the mother was in the hospital for a while, but that's just speculation.

On the other hand, me posting twice on this thread about this would be considered wasting time by focusing on negative energy, lol.

Like you, I'd rather focus on positive energy and not be sucked down - my life usually seems to turn out better when I do (no sarcasm - that's the truth).