please read and help

ineedaname · 07-31-2008, 10:55 AM

ok, im a member on here under a different name but i dont want this to be associated with me.

for the longest time i can remember that ive seen ghost or things of that nature. it happens on a regular basis and occasionaly my wife sees them with me. growing up on occasion my family would randomly see them but i would see them far more often. id say 1 in 10 times someone else sees what im seeing at the same time.
does anyone else have this issue or ever expierenced it

ineedaname · 07-31-2008, 10:58 AM

by the way... its not always just seeing things. theres more, like the other night my couch was moved and weve had things thrown on the ground. seen things slide across the room before.
and theres other things i dont care to talk about that happen to.
also, this happens in everyhouse ive moved in so its not like a haunted house

ineedaname · 07-31-2008, 11:29 AM

noone has anythign to say

**CDB** · 07-31-2008, 11:36 AM

Welcome to the world of the weird. I've seen a few weird things in my time at different locations. Two ghosts, doors shutting on their own, and a couple things moving. I have no theories as to what causes such things or if they're even real or just some kind of common hallucination. I've done some reading though. If what you're saying is true, you've either got a poltergeist or some other nonlocalized phenomena to deal with.

As to what to do about it, get a priest's blessing, burn some sage, go to a witch doctor or a medicine man, or a professional investigator, etc. It all seems to have the same chance of working as not. Or, just learn to deal with it. Telling more about the occupants of the house could also help target the problem. Any adolescents around, teenagers under stress or mentally disabled?

ineedaname · 07-31-2008, 11:59 AM

ive had priest bless the house. ive had a occult specialist talk to me. nothings worked
now this is the real reason i didnt want my real screen name on here.
i have had expierences where i feel what the spirit feels and can hear them. ive looked up things on what ive heard and found hard facts supporting it.
no adolescents or mental issues at the house. its followed me everywhere i go though. like every house this has happened

**CDB** · 07-31-2008, 12:11 PM

Million dollar question: is it bothering you? Despite what you see on A Haunting on TDC there really isn't much documentation of spirits or poltergeists actually harming people. Mental stress sure, but physically you're not likely to be in any danger really. So it comes down to the mental: does it really bother you? What do you 'feel' when they 'feel'? What are they saying when you 'hear' them? Also, is it in stereo or localized? Is it really hearing or is it in your head? You can tell the difference because you'll still be able to 'hear' them despite loud ambient noise if it's in your head.

If they're in stereo and telling you to do **** you normally wouldn't want to, go see a shrink fast and get some anti psycotics. Otherwise, you might just want to learn to deal. I have friends who claim they see dead relatives all the time. To them it seems like a normal fact of life, which I guess it may be. If you're not crazy and your senses are just atuned to a level of things most people can't or won't see, you either have to learn to deal or do the equivalent of getting polarized shades to block the part of the spectrum that's bugging you.

Edit: as an aside, since it's non localized you could be dealing with anything from a poltergeist to a demon to a well travelled ghost to psychosis of some kind. Don't discount the latter, crazy people don't know they're crazy and if you haven't seen a shrink it wouldn't hurt to get a few sessions in to make sure you're not going to go Son of Sam on anyone. Once he or she signs off on the fact that you're a sane person who is seeing and hearing things, then deal with the other ****. As of right now and in all seriousness if you do have a mental illness you're still on your game enough to know that something is out of whack and needs tending to, and that's the time to nip it in the bud.

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Originally Posted by ineedaname

ive had priest bless the house. ive had a occult specialist talk to me. nothings worked
now this is the real reason i didnt want my real screen name on here.
i have had expierences where i feel what the spirit feels and can hear them. ive looked up things on what ive heard and found hard facts supporting it.
no adolescents or mental issues at the house. its followed me everywhere i go though. like every house this has happened

ineedaname · 07-31-2008, 12:16 PM

they dont actualy bother me. they scare my wife to death. growing up i would constantly cry to sleep but ive learned that they dont mean harm.
sometimes i can sense that they are sad or hurting and i feel it. this is where the facts come in.
i had sharp stomach pains and i kept hearing the name **** and a date, i researched it and there was a local man by that name on that date that was stabbed repeatedly in the abdomen.

**CDB** · 07-31-2008, 12:26 PM

Well, you could go the hoaky route and try to see if there's some unfinished business of his. The theory goes like this, and it is supported by absolutely no evidence, that if they're hanging around because of unfinished business they will latch on to people who have a chance of resolving what they couldn't while alive. So the operative question then, assuming you are sane, is why you? Are you related in any way? This is specific to you, not location, so there's something about you that's drawing his whateverthehellitis, spirit, aura, last impressed moments on the Earth, etc.

Ever tried communicating with a ouija board or through a medium? Sounds like other than the attempted exorcisms you've just been letting things be. Do some more investigation get in touch with the dude if possible. Who knows, he may lead you to unclaimed millions. At the very least his spirit ain't doing so well and a friend wouldn't hurt. Assuming he was human and it's not some demon using his spirit for cover to get into your life, which I understand is possible, whatever it may be or mean.

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Originally Posted by ineedaname

they dont actualy bother me. they scare my wife to death. growing up i would constantly cry to sleep but ive learned that they dont mean harm.
sometimes i can sense that they are sad or hurting and i feel it. this is where the facts come in.
i had sharp stomach pains and i kept hearing the name **** and a date, i researched it and there was a local man by that name on that date that was stabbed repeatedly in the abdomen.

holyintellect · 07-31-2008, 12:28 PM

I have never seen anything I would associate with paranormal activity, but I had a very close friend who did...Although I never saw or experienced his "ghost", I was convinced that he did....

holy

ineedaname · 07-31-2008, 12:41 PM

i talked to a medium and all they ended up saying is that i too am i a medium but am not open to it.

**Nightwanderer** · 07-31-2008, 03:43 PM

Don't pay anyone else any more money to try to figure out what's going on with you aside from any psych evaluations. I've honestly never met anyone I felt was genuinely experiencing anything 'paranormal' that decided they were going to try to directly profit from it.

**Red Dog** · 07-31-2008, 04:10 PM

Have you ever gotten feedback from an attempt to communicate with whatever it is that may be present? I mean, questions about what "they" want, who they are, why they're around, etc.

**CDB** · 07-31-2008, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Nightwanderer

Don't pay anyone else any more money to try to figure out what's going on with you aside from any psych evaluations. I've honestly never met anyone I felt was genuinely experiencing anything 'paranormal' that decided they were going to try to directly profit from it.

I used to agree. But sometimes people get what I call a What The ****?! moment. It's when you're lucid, awake, not stoned or inebriated in any way, and see something that you know just can't happen. Like a pot take a ballastic arc across the room when no one was there to throw it, or a door slam shut with no one there to push it and no draft to drive it, or you get a poke or a shove and there's no one else in the room but you. It gives you pause. At the very least it's an interesting phenomena, by it psychological or paranormal.

**Nightwanderer** · 07-31-2008, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by CDB

I used to agree. But sometimes people get what I call a What The ****?! moment. It's when you're lucid, awake, not stoned or inebriated in any way, and see something that you know just can't happen. Like a pot take a ballastic arc across the room when no one was there to throw it, or a door slam shut with no one there to push it and no draft to drive it, or you get a poke or a shove and there's no one else in the room but you. It gives you pause. At the very least it's an interesting phenomena, by it psychological or paranormal.

I think you may misunderstand me,
It's not a person's experiences or belief that they are real that I warn against, it's the people who take financial advantage of it you have to be careful with. What I'm saying is that those with legitimate experiences or honest capabilities usually don't take house calls. I've seen too many faithful and good natured people parted with their money by charlatans who had better pray they never meet the things they claim to see while 'on the job'.

**CDB** · 07-31-2008, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Nightwanderer

I think you may misunderstand me,
It's not a person's experiences or belief that they are real that I warn against, it's the people who take financial advantage of it you have to be careful with. What I'm saying is that those with legitimate experiences or honest capabilities usually don't take house calls. I've seen too many faithful