My wife loves my fit body!!! Mater of fact as much as she hates contest prep, she bitches when I let 4% BF come on post competition.
Without my wife defending my lifestyle and helping me it would be rediculously hard for me to do it without her support.
Sit down with your girl, maybe at a nice dinner, and expain to her that this is important to you and without her support it will very hard. Relationships work bc you support one another. Like when my wife came home and said, honey I am quiting my job and opening a salon. I said if thats what you want to do, I will stand by you for good or bad. Kinda the same when i say i am hitting so and so show. She stands by me and lives my lifestyle durring prep. Long days, eating only certian foods, no eating out, no drinking at all, not going out with our friends, my grouchiness the week prior if I have to cut carbs. Its a give and take.