You are both confused.
(Paraphrasing)
WARBIRD asked if maternal DHT was the biggest factor in penile developement.
I said that self-derived fetal DHT was the biggest factor in penile development.
This is clearly evident.
Without the Y chromosome/SRYgene/TDF/leydig cells/testosterone/5a-reductase/DHT, the genital tubercle and the urogentital sinus remain infantile despite all the genetic potential in the world.
DHT causes the acceleration of penile growth until a genetically set growth length as a fetus, and then later in puberty.
No where did I say that DHT can grow the penis past its genetic set point
...and therefore even if the fetus is bathed in DHT (as in your scenarios), the penis will not grow larger then its expected size.
i.e. Male infants born with 21a-hydroxylase deficiency have normal sized penises.
Similarly, from a pre-placental POV, male infants born to PCOS mothers also have normal sized penises.
Now we're getting into semantics. Your exact words were "The greatest influence is from the fetuses production of DHT". That's simply not true for most people.
In the case of someone with 5a reductase deficiency, prenatal androgen exposure
IS the most significant factor in determining penis size, because it's lacking and causing a near complete retardation of growth. With regards to the physiology of most people, prenatal androgen exposure/production would not be the most significant determining factor in penis size, it would be the HOX genes. That's like saying that the most important quality for an elite olympic sprinter to have would be to have 46 instead of 47 chromosomes, because otherwise he'd have down syndrome. Uh...yeah, obviously you're right, that's the limiting factor for people with a rare illness preventing them from becoming elite sprinters, but it's hardly the most significant factor determining actual sprinter's performance relative to other able bodied competitors.
Like I said, autistics and homosexuals have higher than average prenatal androgen exposure, and if the difference between a huge dick and a small one was prenatal androgen production, they'd all have 12 inch wangs. While impaired 5 alpha reductase synthesis results in deformity, that's not exactly a relevant factor for most people, so it's a bit strange to say that it has "the greatest influence".
Though again, I can see what you mean now that you've clarified, it's just an issue of semantics.