Get this. Many of you may remember the crap I went through over a year ago with my impending divorce. Yeah, 'impending' divorce. Divorce papers were drawn up a year ago September and was to be final last April, then May. It turns out my ex, who I haven't even laid eyes on in over a year now, stopped the process in hopes we would get back together. She even no-showed for a court date in August. Well, my ex had a baby last month. The father, who she left me for, has gone back to his wife last November and is not in the picture.
Now this is where it gets intersting. I receive a 7 page letter in the mail from my ex. It goes on talking about how much she misses me, how she made a huge mistake, how she wants me to be the step-father to her baby and maybe even adopting him if his father will sign his parental rights away. The letter has a lot of promises. Promises to take care of me since I took care of her for so many years, all the way to buying me the Harley I was wanting to get last Summer. Blah, blah, blah....
Basically, the letter is trying to say all the "right" things to suck me back into her world. I see it all as empty promises. Especially since I got to see her true colors at their best...or should I say worst.
I just want this whole thing to be over with once and for all. Seems like it's just dragging on. A friend of mine said it best. "You gotta watch those women. They have teeth at both ends."
This is where it sucks in my world. The letter meant nothing to me. However, my chick I'm living with got to read it. My ex had warned me of the letter she was sending me, but would not say what it was regarding. So, I told my chick about the letter in case she got to the mail first. I even told her she could read it before me, or we could read it together. I wanted to make her feel secure, just in case it was a letter asking to get back together. Little did I know it was just that. Now my chick is upset at me and feeling like crap. She had to share the letter with her good friends who are now "sympathizing" with her after their little "hen party".
I'm sure my ex wanted my chick to read the letter in order to cause turmoil between us.
It just seems to never end.....
On a good note, the sex is still kickin'!:thumbsup:
Now this is where it gets intersting. I receive a 7 page letter in the mail from my ex. It goes on talking about how much she misses me, how she made a huge mistake, how she wants me to be the step-father to her baby and maybe even adopting him if his father will sign his parental rights away. The letter has a lot of promises. Promises to take care of me since I took care of her for so many years, all the way to buying me the Harley I was wanting to get last Summer. Blah, blah, blah....
Basically, the letter is trying to say all the "right" things to suck me back into her world. I see it all as empty promises. Especially since I got to see her true colors at their best...or should I say worst.
I just want this whole thing to be over with once and for all. Seems like it's just dragging on. A friend of mine said it best. "You gotta watch those women. They have teeth at both ends."
This is where it sucks in my world. The letter meant nothing to me. However, my chick I'm living with got to read it. My ex had warned me of the letter she was sending me, but would not say what it was regarding. So, I told my chick about the letter in case she got to the mail first. I even told her she could read it before me, or we could read it together. I wanted to make her feel secure, just in case it was a letter asking to get back together. Little did I know it was just that. Now my chick is upset at me and feeling like crap. She had to share the letter with her good friends who are now "sympathizing" with her after their little "hen party".
I'm sure my ex wanted my chick to read the letter in order to cause turmoil between us.
It just seems to never end.....
On a good note, the sex is still kickin'!:thumbsup: