- 10-16-2013, 07:15 PM
Hey ladies and gents ,
Bit of a dilemma what do I do with a ****ty training partner, I workout on my own for a while then my mate wanted to train together so I thought why not ?
But this guy cannot finish the session without complaining and I switched my times to suit him since he works late, I wait for him to msg to say is he is going, and most of the time he msgs and says no. Say 2 of the 4 times we should train, I don't have the heart to say I can't go with you anymore, but it pisses me off anyone bein in this position ??
I.e chest day he will say c'mon man we hit chest 3 times already can we do something else ?
And I get Imbaressed when I'm 2 times smaller then him and he can't bench press the damn bar grrrrrr
- 10-16-2013, 08:22 PM
- 10-16-2013, 08:29 PM
10-16-2013, 11:17 PM
Sounds like he doesn't want to be there. Tell him straight up I like working out solo and I'm going start coming on my own.
10-16-2013, 11:22 PM
10-16-2013, 11:23 PM
and if friends ask to lift with me, the first thing I say is "sure, but this is my workout"
10-16-2013, 11:25 PM
You need to tell him to quit being such a vaj.
If he doesn't want to hit chest tell him to either put up with it or he can do his own workout while he's there.
Also if you guys have a designated time, that means THAT'S LIFTING TIME.
If he's hesitant, he gets to show up late and alone.
I think you could possibly motivate him into being a great workout partner.
Me, I like lifting solo. If I need a spot, I'll ask for one. Otherwise it's me, metal in the headphones, and the iron.
I'm too impatient to accommodate for a partner.
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10-16-2013, 11:40 PM
I agree. I had a workout partner and i become more dedicated, while him less, so he is no longer my workout partner.
I would just do things on your own schedule. If he shows, great, you have a spot. If he says no...well he will see you blow by him and make a lame excuse about how he doesn't care or some ****.
Bottom line, hit the gym. You call your shots.
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10-18-2013, 03:18 AM
I had to quit training with my cousin. 21/2 hours of ****ty training... I just tell her I can't make it because I'm working late.
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10-18-2013, 08:31 AM
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