Helping Girlfriend with Weight Loss

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  1. best question of the thread above ^ "does SHE want to lose fat"? without that, you both are doomed. at least a gf is cheaper to get rid of, than wife :-)


  2. Quote Originally Posted by AntSoldier View Post
    Interested in the reason for sipping BCAAs throughout the day. My wife has also lost a huge amount through very similar changes. She eats smaller portions and drinks less wine. Walks more and hits the gym three times a week. Has just recently started on D30+ which is an ECA stack and has lost three stone in an out five months and feels happier and healthier.
    Bcaas can be expensive compared to just sipping on flavoured water etc but for some reason they seem to help curb appetite more than just water or other forms of juice. It's not for any scientific reason and you can half scoop it and still seem to get the same effect to make it last longer. Pepsi max with meals also helps with sweet tooth cravings.
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  3. Quote Originally Posted by Sparta12 View Post
    You could just force yourself to watch BBW porn everyday, maybe one day you will grow to love that **** then you wont need/want her to change... I did that to help lower my standards, it.... helped.
    This..... Well.... This.......Ummmm... This might be the greatest comment on AM ever!!!!!

  4. Dump her. Unless her mom is rail thin, even if she cuts 20lbs off she’s going to get fat again; and that clearly doesn’t jive with your tastes. I can smell the discontent in your posts; it’s toxic for the relationship.

    My gf used to be fat before she got into strongman. She’s a lightweight now and always has abs at comp, but she’s a fat kid at heart (like me) and you better believe when all the comps are done I believe she’ll lose the motivation to stay lean, get comfy, and get back on the biscuits and gravy train. Fortunately for me, I have seen the old pics and she was still very cute fat - plus some sweet F cups, so I got that to look forward to.

    People will be who they really wanna be - if she doesn’t really feel the need to change, she won’t. Not until you dump her, but at that point it’s over anyway. Plenty of fish in the sea, my friend.
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  5. Quote Originally Posted by Hyde View Post
    Dump her. Unless her mom is rail thin, even if she cuts 20lbs off she’s going to get fat again; and that clearly doesn’t jive with your tastes. I can smell the discontent in your posts; it’s toxic for the relationship.

    My gf used to be fat before she got into strongman. She’s a lightweight now and always has abs at comp, but she’s a fat kid at heart (like me) and you better believe when all the comps are done I believe she’ll lose the motivation to stay lean, get comfy, and get back on the biscuits and gravy train. Fortunately for me, I have seen the old pics and she was still very cute fat - plus some sweet F cups, so I got that to look forward to.

    People will be who they really wanna be - if she doesn’t really feel the need to change, she won’t. Not until you dump her, but at that point it’s over anyway. Plenty of fish in the sea, my friend.
    So - this kind of is in the back of my mind. Like the question above - does she want to lose weight? The answer is obviously "no" because if she really wanted to, she would. People lose weight all the time, even when they know nothing about nutrition.

    But there is a difference between wanting to lose weight and "wanting to want" to lose weight. We often want to want something, but we just don't. When we want it, we go get it.

    So the next question is, why do you really want her to lose weight? Is it for her? Or is it for you?

    As above, your distaste is noticable on this board, so I can only imagine what she must see in you and how that must make her feel. It isn't about you being right or wrong. ..but is it really about her?

    Maybe you really aren't happy with her and you are scape goating a little by picking on her weight. And maybe she isn't happy with you, so she is getting fat in the Hope's the relationship will end because you just leave.
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  6. Quote Originally Posted by DemntedCowboy View Post
    @SFreed and @rtmilburn like guts and double chins
    Like how fat?? Are we talking disgusting, or just a little fat. And also what condition the starfish is in. Pics would help also.


    And just for the record, I might be into thick chicks, but @DemntedCowboy would marry her. Fat chicks love the Tricare.
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  7. Quote Originally Posted by HIT4ME View Post
    So - this kind of is in the back of my mind. Like the question above - does she want to lose weight? The answer is obviously "no" because if she really wanted to, she would. People lose weight all the time, even when they know nothing about nutrition.

    But there is a difference between wanting to lose weight and "wanting to want" to lose weight. We often want to want something, but we just don't. When we want it, we go get it.

    So the next question is, why do you really want her to lose weight? Is it for her? Or is it for you?

    As above, your distaste is noticable on this board, so I can only imagine what she must see in you and how that must make her feel. It isn't about you being right or wrong. ..but is it really about her?

    Maybe you really aren't happy with her and you are scape goating a little by picking on her weight. And maybe she isn't happy with you, so she is getting fat in the Hope's the relationship will end because you just leave.
    @HIT4ME is just jealous that someone else had a long, multi paragraph post. It's like a challenge to him.
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  8. Quote Originally Posted by SFreed View Post
    Like how fat?? Are we talking disgusting, or just a little fat. And also what condition the starfish is in. Pics would help also.


    And just for the record, I might be into thick chicks, but @DemntedCowboy would marry her. Fat chicks love the Tricare.
    Everyone knows that. Have you ever seen a military base on post housing area. They have to have weight limits on the streets. Lol
    I mean if you really hate your balls, go for it. But, what did they do to you?

  9. And for the record, I'm fairly irritated about the fact that all the good shyt happens when I have to be up at 04:00 for work. Total bullshyt.
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  10. Quote Originally Posted by SFreed View Post
    Like how fat?? Are we talking disgusting, or just a little fat. And also what condition the starfish is in. Pics would help also.


    And just for the record, I might be into thick chicks, but @DemntedCowboy would marry her. Fat chicks love the Tricare.
    Ok so she does carry it well, however I'm sick of dealing with the , "I'm starting tomorrow crap". No pics but nice try!

    She got me to quite drinking and with the help of Kratom I did go clean, 3 months now..finally got abs and clean eating made me gain lean muscle.

    It's more of a general concern about her willingness to modify behavior if it's not healthy.

  11. Quote Originally Posted by SFreed View Post
    @HIT4ME is just jealous that someone else had a long, multi paragraph post. It's like a challenge to him.
    I see your post. And I will one up you by 2500 words. Lol.

  12. I can actually feel your disgust in your posts lol

  13. Something I believe in life...more people should worry more about what they do and less about what others do.

    I often find it is easy to find issues with other people's actions. It is often difficult to see and accept issues with my own actions. Sometimes seeing my flaws is the hard part, sometimes changing my flaws after I see them is the hard part. Often it is easier to avoid dealing with my own issues by thinking about all of the stupid things other people do that I would do better.

    I don't know where I am going with this. I will brb. Gonna grab a donut.

  14. Hmm, a lot to think about. Man I need a drink. Goggles make everyone hot. In all seriousness, I'm using your line of ," if you want to lose weight you will, if you don't you wont"

    Renewed my subscription to pornhub to prep for no ***** this weekend after I say this.

  15. Quote Originally Posted by Solexsight View Post
    Hmm, a lot to think about. Man I need a drink. Goggles make everyone hot. In all seriousness, I'm using your line of ," if you want to lose weight you will, if you don't you wont"

    Renewed my subscription to pornhub to prep for no ***** this weekend after I say this.
    Make her get on top....She'll lose weight
    I mean if you really hate your balls, go for it. But, what did they do to you?

  16. Quote Originally Posted by DemntedCowboy View Post
    Make her get on top....She'll lose weight
    Or he will die, IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT?!

  17. Quote Originally Posted by Solexsight View Post
    Hmm, a lot to think about. Man I need a drink. Goggles make everyone hot. In all seriousness, I'm using your line of ," if you want to lose weight you will, if you don't you wont"

    Renewed my subscription to pornhub to prep for no ***** this weekend after I say this.
    You PAY for porn??!!??
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  18. Quote Originally Posted by Solexsight View Post
    Ok so she does carry it well, however I'm sick of dealing with the , "I'm starting tomorrow crap". No pics but nice try!

    She got me to quite drinking and with the help of Kratom I did go clean, 3 months now..finally got abs and clean eating made me gain lean muscle.

    It's more of a general concern about her willingness to modify behavior if it's not healthy.
    congrats on the 3 months....I suggest you google something called the serenity prayer.
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  19. Quote Originally Posted by Sparta12 View Post
    Or he will die, IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT?!
    Come on you cant say you never had a thick chick ride you. Well....Guess it depends on how much you drink. Lol
    I mean if you really hate your balls, go for it. But, what did they do to you?

  20. You thought she threw in the towel now, wait and see what she does when you marry her. LOL. Luckily I am shallow enough that looks and shape were necessary.

  21. Quote Originally Posted by mase1 View Post
    You thought she threw in the towel now, wait and see what she does when you marry her. LOL. Luckily I am shallow enough that looks and shape were necessary.
    They can lose weight after being married. Depends on how much they care, and how much you as a person motivate them.
    I mean if you really hate your balls, go for it. But, what did they do to you?

  22. Quote Originally Posted by DemntedCowboy View Post
    Come on you cant say you never had a thick chick ride you. Well....Guess it depends on how much you drink. Lol
    Yeah look I have ONCE, I literally had to focus on breathing rather than enjoying the moment because I was drunk and she was also semi crushing my internal organs each slam hahaha. Ever since then I do the work on the heavier behemoths

  23. Quote Originally Posted by Solexsight View Post
    Hmm, a lot to think about. Man I need a drink. Goggles make everyone hot. In all seriousness, I'm using your line of ," if you want to lose weight you will, if you don't you wont"

    Renewed my subscription to pornhub to prep for no ***** this weekend after I say this.
    Quote Originally Posted by jrock645 View Post
    You PAY for porn??!!??
    Just came here to say basically the same..........uhh, PornHub is free, dude.
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  24. Added for effect. You get the point

  25. She’s not going to change unless she honestly wants to change.
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