AAS while living with your girlfriend
- 04-26-2010, 07:36 PM
AAS while living with your girlfriend
so im about to move in with my girlfriend and ive come across an issue. im gonna start up test in about a month. should i just talk to her about it or should i try and sneak using it without her knowing. i know people will ask "how will she not notices?" however when im come off phs before i just fed her the line that i have a lump under my chest and i take tamoxifen for it every 6 months or so. she believed me and understand my libido was going to be in the gutter for a few weeks. she was cool. but ive never used test while being with her and im not sure how to go about doing it. i had planned on running 400mg a week while cutting. i didnt wanna do anything too extreme b/c if i blow up she will definitely notice something is up. so what do i do? tell her or hide it? any suggestions on cycle use to cover things up?
- 04-26-2010, 07:40 PM
I say talk to her. Why go get serious about a relationship without being completely honest. You'll doom it to failure!E-Pharm Nutrition Representative
- 04-26-2010, 07:41 PM
if ur serious enough to live with her....then u should tell her. personally i would hint at it and ask her how she would feel about it etc.
04-26-2010, 08:01 PM
My GF really is not into AAS.. as most people have a negative opinion of it. But what worked for me was simply talking to her about it. Making her feel comfortable with it, I had to let her realize over time that I was capable and knowledgeable.
She is still uneasy about the whole thing, but my advice. Talk to her. Be open about it. Explain to her what AAS is, what it involves, what can happen, how you will use the drugs. Teach her what you know. So she doesn't feel in the dark.
Most women are going to have a motherly instinct and show obvious concern with you using these incredibly powerful drugs. Acknowledge her fears/concerns as being rational and let her know you understand and are taking every precaution possible.
04-26-2010, 08:06 PM
From my experience with my wife, I suggest just letting her know. I will mention that if you ever do "blow up" it will be the end of either the juice or your relationship, so try and install some mechanisms in your mind beforehand, when the rage comes, have a plan.
04-26-2010, 08:39 PM
04-26-2010, 08:47 PM
While I agree with that, I am a little more testy on cycle.
About the gf thing though, tell her. Hell, half the time my gf pins me (..by choice)
04-26-2010, 08:59 PM
Talk to her about it. It will a hundred times worse if she finds stuff by accident. Not to mention that shell probably notice bc ur more than likely gonna want to **** all the time haha
04-26-2010, 09:09 PM
if your moving in, things are obv going well, why **** up the trust thing by leaving out something you can tell her. plus mabey shell help you out more willingly... ie. cooking, washing the shakers, nightly massages.... its great i told my gf and now shes my personal assistant lolol
04-26-2010, 09:13 PM
I wanted to give him advice to be less **** headed (without being condemning). I might add there are exceptions, my buddy is a super nice guy (nicer than me) but he gets a bit o rage on cycle, yelled at his sister once, but hey, at least she learned her lesson
04-26-2010, 09:14 PM
In my experience and from what I have heard from other accounts, women generally have a very negative view on AAS for some reason.
I actually find it a bit strange because I know a lot of girls who are okay with guys doing drugs like coke, speed, pills etc but when it comes to AAS they are full against it, it must be something built into their genes, maybe its the equiv to a girl asking a guy if they should get implants.
You could hint on it but even with a positive response I would still be worried, women can be very fickle and this is one of those thing that can demonstrate that.
04-26-2010, 09:15 PM
dont show her the movie "bigger, stronger, faster" as her intro to steroids. I tried that with my wife, and it freaked her out so much she banned steroids from me.
now im only allowed to use prohormones bought from legitimate companies in america that are totally legal, and safe.
I think if I had gradually talked to her about it, and slowly introducing her into the world of anabolics with good info, instead of the hollywood crap, it would of been a smooth ride.
04-26-2010, 09:38 PM
04-26-2010, 09:42 PM
04-26-2010, 09:46 PM
Easy talk to her, if she isn't ok with it and would like to break up then she wouldnt be the girl for me anyway but thats me.
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04-26-2010, 09:46 PM
04-26-2010, 09:49 PM
04-26-2010, 09:53 PM
04-26-2010, 09:55 PM
poosy is alot easier to come by than juice.
if I wasn't married, or when in a relationship, had no intention of marrying the girl, i wouldn't give a sht if she left, lots of easy psussy out there, and a bunch dont even care.
but im not, and strapped down, easy to talk a big game when it's not you.
04-26-2010, 10:12 PM
Dude I would just talk to her and tell her wut ur planning. Communication is key. if you bring her into light and let her know that you know what your doing she might not be all against it. But if ur sneaking around and doing it she is going to be furious. Besides, It would add more stress sneaking around. If she aint down with it, and you still wanna do it, then it may be something to figure out b4 you move in.
04-26-2010, 10:24 PM
04-26-2010, 10:28 PM
i just dont know how to bring it up without using the word "steroid" b/c knowing her as soon as she hears that word it wont go over well. but thats pretty much anyone who doesnt know anything about it.
04-26-2010, 10:58 PM
my opinion would be to talk to her. i've told my gf's whenever i've been on a ph cycle. if you tell her, it'll go by a lot smoother than trying to hide it. i've had good luck with women when it came to them being supportive of my choices. if you're moving in, then things should be going fine, and i wouldn't see this as too much of an issue.
personally, i'd give her the option of telling me whether or not i can run a cycle. if she says something along the lines of, "do what you want to do. it's your choice. i can't stop you", then you're goldne. she may not fully support your decision, but at the very least, it wont be causing too much tension in your relationship. it's all up to you though. take it easy with her, take it slow, and bring her on AM so she can see what we all have to say about anabolics. hope things go well friend!
04-26-2010, 11:30 PM
Be honest with her.. You can't lie about it and hide it forever, you will get sloppy at some point. If your girl doesnt accept it, then shes not for you iMO.
thank god I dont have to worry about this, my girl encourages it lol.. she looks at pics of ifbb pros and says when are you going to look like that, take whatever u have to lmao.
04-26-2010, 11:38 PM
I hope that helps. I'm still working on my girl, well sort of, I've told her that it's gonna happen she just has to get on board or look the other way while I blow up.
04-26-2010, 11:39 PM
04-26-2010, 11:47 PM
04-27-2010, 12:21 AM
04-27-2010, 02:06 AM
04-27-2010, 11:36 AM
I think all she heard was the bad stuff they talked about in the movie, or what could happen.
before the movie, she had no clue about steroids. Afterwards, she is anti steroid.
yea, maybe when I get older, time will wear her down. or maybe they'll become legal. lol.
04-27-2010, 12:10 PM
If you were not a 'supplements man', surely she will find out that you start taking lots of pills recently.
For me I have just too many bottles; I don't think common people can really pick up steriod among all those legal non-hormonal herbal blah blah. And there are so many pills and caps in my daily medication box that people might think i am seriously ill or what. It would take too long to explain what's the use of each one.
Anyway, no matter you tell her or not, I think in the end she will know that you are on something if you suddenly become very big, get short temper, many acne, and soft c**k :P
04-27-2010, 02:29 PM
i told mine and we had a huge falling out followed by a break up and then got back together,
i regret the breakup (which i did) but now things are great, she just wants to know when im on and off of it.
everything is good right now and cant ask for anything better.
04-27-2010, 02:33 PM
say something along the lines of, ive been doing a lot of research lately and i have all the things i need, i was thinking about using some hormones in the future to help me achieve the look i want to be happy, that my genetics wont allow on its own
never say steroid, use the actual name, and support your cases with information. Safety ect.
04-27-2010, 02:47 PM
Wow, I am going through this very same situation RIGHT NOW.
Except, my girlfriend and I live together and there is no way I am telling her that i'm about to run this cycle. she would flip out. But iv'e been wondering about it and stuff and this is a great thread. Iv'e pretty much got it all planed out. I took PH without her knowing before. She suspected I was on "something" but I just told her " look how much i'm eating, anyone eating as much as I do would get huge" hehe.
04-27-2010, 02:55 PM
i had same problem
Clearly if you feel you can talk to her about it then this is the best route
However if like me you know there is no way she would condone we should chat, ive devised evrry trick in the book to conceal my use
Feel really bad about the deceit but on the flip side this gear is making me feel like a million dollars and that is truly translating into good things for both me and her
Yea i know.... I just justified myself
Eat clean, piss dirty
04-27-2010, 03:01 PM
I did when I was dating a girl and every time we fought she said I had "roid rage". I told her that it wasn't the steroids that were making her a bitch.
If you want your relationship to last don't use that line.
04-27-2010, 03:05 PM
I have a good friend who runs stuff every now and then.. He's jaked as sh*t .. and his girlfriend is all for it lol..
She actually bought some Clen for the two of them to run together. She's also pretty jaked lol, but still in a feminine way. She works at Hooters, so she doesn't want to be the BB type.
04-27-2010, 03:07 PM
04-27-2010, 03:12 PM
04-27-2010, 03:18 PM
Seriously though, everytime we would argue she blamed "roid rage" she couldn't accept that what she was doing was wrong or stupid.
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