looking for a little boost in bed

[broseidon]

i seem to recall a sexual health forum on here but i couldn't find it, so i hope this isn't in the wrong section.

i booked my girlfriend and i a weekend getaway for her birthday and i want to surprise her with some extra-special sex. i'm looking for a [preferably all natural] product to increase my libido and drive her wild like never before. as we're going to be filming that weekend, i want to really feel like the stud she tells me i am.

i did some looking around on the internet and all i seemed to find was penis enlargement ads and no reliable reviews on anything else.

any recommendations? if you've personally tried anything i'd like to hear what you think.

[baitslinger]

RC Tadalafil - Cialis.

Supposedly works well for her too. Start w/ 20 mg for you and 5 mg for her.

And for delaying the climax, you can try a SRI (anti-depressant like Lexapro, Zoloft, etc). Get your chill-lax on!

[broseidon]

I'll look into that first one, thanks.

I'm a little wary of SSRI's because everything i've ever read on them say's there's a large chance of sexual dysfunction (ED, decreased libido) while using them, and a high chance of sexual dysfunction AFTER using them too. is that second suggestion coming from experience?

[purelife1]

zoloft 50mg works wonders for me..however sometimes i get what feels like restless leg syndrome..it seems to relax everything and you can go for much longer..you can also check out AIs Perform

[Jake Fires]

magna RX actually works. but since your going fairly soon i dont think its for you.
its more of a long term 2 pills a day thing. all natural herbs but does work. give killer stamina and good erections.
ive used this during my experimental stages. heh

[gwulbrecht72]

Hey bro, you might want to look at Pink Magic...wow if that stuff has done anything for me, it's REALLY increased my libido and stamina (strength in the gym as well, but the former was more noticeable)

[spearfisher]

I heard the same about Pink Magic. I have some but have yet to use it. As for the anti depressants......I took paxil once for about 2 weeks. I was in my mid 20s at the time. You want to talk about freaky sex. I hammered my gf and I do mean HAMMERED her for over an hour. Nonstop me on top hitting it from every position I could. Last one had her legs up and I turned her into a pretzel. My hair was plastered to my head and sweat dripped off my nose. My stomach was in a perpetual cramp from "being close" for so long. I finally collapsed down on top of her and said I give up. I cant. She replies with OH THANK GOD, your killing me. I go back to my doc for a visit I said we have a problem. He laughed. The dude LAUGHED and says, cant get it up can you?! I said no *******. I cant get it DOWN. Once I started that crap, I had sex every day for over 4 days I couldnt get the O. Freaked my **** out. If you try that route, have fun with that. I hated it. Did Cialis once too. Bud gave it to me. Thought I'd try it for ****s and giggles.....I got hard every time I pissed for 3 days. Wont ever do that again either.

[dragevo]

^^^Thats hilarious

[TakeTheTicket]

I've used Yohimbe on plenty of occasions. I think I got it at a local supplement store like *** or Vitamin Shoppe. I got the highest concentration I could find, and in pill form. Followed the directions, and it worked within an hour usually. Only extra advice I'd give would be to completely avoid all other stimulants while on Yohimbe (even caffeine).

It's basically a boner pill, but I swear it seemed thicker than usual (more girth) and rock hard

[gymrat827]

5 HTP will delay things a bit. take 250mg 30min prior to activity

[ssbackwards]

NATTYV with cialis and torem works amazing for me.

[Natasha1]

Very interesting. I saw very smart boy's.

[Masciaman]

I heard the same about Pink Magic. I have some but have yet to use it. As for the anti depressants......I took paxil once for about 2 weeks. I was in my mid 20s at the time. You want to talk about freaky sex. I hammered my gf and I do mean HAMMERED her for over an hour. Nonstop me on top hitting it from every position I could. Last one had her legs up and I turned her into a pretzel. My hair was plastered to my head and sweat dripped off my nose. My stomach was in a perpetual cramp from "being close" for so long. I finally collapsed down on top of her and said I give up. I cant. She replies with OH THANK GOD, your killing me. I go back to my doc for a visit I said we have a problem. He laughed. The dude LAUGHED and says, cant get it up can you?! I said no *******. I cant get it DOWN. Once I started that crap, I had sex every day for over 4 days I couldnt get the O. Freaked my **** out. If you try that route, have fun with that. I hated it. Did Cialis once too. Bud gave it to me. Thought I'd try it for ****s and giggles.....I got hard every time I pissed for 3 days. Wont ever do that again either.

LOL!!

[ZiR RED]

I heard the same about Pink Magic. I have some but have yet to use it. As for the anti depressants......I took paxil once for about 2 weeks. I was in my mid 20s at the time. You want to talk about freaky sex. I hammered my gf and I do mean HAMMERED her for over an hour. Nonstop me on top hitting it from every position I could. Last one had her legs up and I turned her into a pretzel. My hair was plastered to my head and sweat dripped off my nose. My stomach was in a perpetual cramp from "being close" for so long. I finally collapsed down on top of her and said I give up. I cant. She replies with OH THANK GOD, your killing me. I go back to my doc for a visit I said we have a problem. He laughed. The dude LAUGHED and says, cant get it up can you?! I said no *******. I cant get it DOWN. Once I started that crap, I had sex every day for over 4 days I couldnt get the O. Freaked my **** out. If you try that route, have fun with that. I hated it. Did Cialis once too. Bud gave it to me. Thought I'd try it for ****s and giggles.....I got hard every time I pissed for 3 days. Wont ever do that again either.

That's been my experience with certain SSRI's as well. Terrible.

Br

[ZiR RED]

any recommendations? if you've personally tried anything i'd like to hear what you think.

The more natural route:

Look up L-Histadine for her. The orgasm is partially due to a release of histamine, and histadine has been used clinically to treat anorgasmia in women. You could also put some black pepper next to her nostrils right before she cums, which will make her sneeze via a greater histamine release, and intensify the orgasm.

Look up L-methionine for you. This is used clinically to delay male orgasm. In addition, you can look into natural prolactin inhibitors, such as vitex.

In a less natural route...

Br

[LizKing531]

The more natural route:

Look up L-Histadine for her. The orgasm is partially due to a release of histamine, and histadine has been used clinically to treat anorgasmia in women.

Get yourself some OTC androgen...something with a high DHT qualities. Mix it into an alcohol based massage oil. Massage it on her.

Br

Interested in both of these options...

Can you elaborate any on the OTC androgen/massage oil? This sounds like something WAY up my alley....

[Gutterpump]

Obstain for a few days before your weekend (no self gratification)

eat lots of whole eggs, coconut oil

Take a good dose of L-dopa prior to sex, to reduce the prolactin surge. I can't remember how long before, maybe 30min prior is ok. Other than this and what's already been suggested, I couldn't recommend anything else that wouldn't be prescription based.

[Gutterpump]

I prefer a more adventurous route instead of all these supplements n stuff though. If you want something more 'special', lingerie, some light bondage, maybe some role playing, toys, etc, you got the drift. Up the sexual ante a bit and rely on yourselves and not drugs or supps.

I have a better trick than the black pepper, to help push her over the top and have a stronger orgasm. I owe this to a girl I dated once. When she's close, or in the groove, you can try choking her medium-lightly (don't brutalize her) or grab her throat without really choking. Not for super long though and be smart, not a dick about it. This works with anyone (male or female), sometimes they won't even realize what's going on.

[howwedo107]

My gf can't orgasm no matter what we do or what she tries the doctor said some girls are just like that

[Gutterpump]

My gf can't orgasm no matter what we do or what she tries the doctor said some girls are just like that

I dated a girl like that once. She rarely came, was suuuuuuper tough for her. With enough persistence, it became easier and she turned out to be a squirter.

There are some reasons for this. Birth control lowers free test in women (which can lower their drive). But with women who can't come, I find it's more of a mental block involved and they have some level of emotional issue(s). I think it's possible to work through. Just work that gspot & clit at same time dude. Experiment with positions and such, maybe get a small bullet vibe in use for her during. The longer you're together, the better the chances of overcoming that problem.